Every womans Dream

[Veronica]

every womans dream...

1. Get kissed in the rain
2. Have that one hot kiss where your pressed against the wall
3. Have a guy that thinks you're the world
4. A boy that will call you every night just to hear your voice because he misses you
5. A boy that whispers he loves you in your ear
6. Have that moment where you just gaze into each others' eyes
7. When you cry, he kisses your tears away.
8. When you're not with your guy he's all that you can think about
9. Wearing his jacket and every time you breath in, his scent surrounds you
10. A guy who will watch any movie with you, no matter how teary eyed you may get.
11. A guy who squeezes your hand
12. A boy that says he loves you and means it
13. A guy that will play her favorite song outside her window
14. A guy who is loyal
15. A guy that will sing to you no matter how bad he is at it.
16. A guy that will kiss you on the forehead.
17. A guy that will call you beautiful or adorable...not hot, fine, or sexy
18. A guy that will never judge you for how you look.
19. A boy that says cheezy stuff to you just to make you smile
20. A boy that is the same when he is with you and when with friends
21. A boy that tells you everything honestly
22. A boy that is good with your family and introduces you to his family
23. A guy that will always let you win
24. A guy who stands up for you no matter who it is against
25. A guy who calls you at night just to say 'hi' and see how your day has been
26. A boy who tells you that your smile makes his day and makes everything better
27. A boy who will sit on the phone with you when you're sad, even if you're quiet
28. A boy who you can hangout and have fun with
29. A boy that is sincere
30. A guy who will hold your hand through the roughest parts of life.
31. A guy who would love you forever no matter the circumstance.
32. A guy who wouldn't mind you wanting to get all dressed up and do your make up for him. Even if he says he likes you better without make up.
33. A guy who you can be yourself with and he will never give a care and would still tell you that you are amazing to him.

How many of these are things you and your man have done together?

 

[majikstranger]

Thats what you women dream about but is it really what you go after. I think not. You women have the idea of a prince charming (but notice the term prince wich equals money). You women want a good gentleman but only if he has the attitude and money and power of a bad boy. Not to say all women are like this, but for th emost part that is what you do, even if just subconsciously

 

[Veronica]

every womans dream...

1. Get kissed in the rain
(done- also wrestled in the rain)
2. Have that one hot kiss where your pressed against the wall
(done)
3. Have a guy that thinks you're the world
(he use to)
4. A boy that will call you every night just to hear your voice because he misses you (never had that stage- but that was because we were older then)
5. A boy that whispers he loves you in your ear
(he still does this occassionally)
6. Have that moment where you just gaze into each others' eyes
(typically this happens when we are mad at each other. lol)
7. When you cry, he kisses your tears away.
(he has definally done this a few times)
8. When you're not with your guy he's all that you can think about
(very true.. happens to me all the time)
9. Wearing his jacket and every time you breath in, his scent surrounds you
(definally. lol I remember wearing his jacket to work and smelling him all day. It was the best!)
10. A guy who will watch any movie with you, no matter how teary eyed you may get.
(Joe use to watch movies with me, now he isnt interested unless its a movie HE wants to see)
11. A guy who squeezes your hand
(we have a secret code.. we squeeze each others hands a few times and it means something, but I cant put that up here)
12. A guy that says he loves you and means it
(I definally think Joe means he loves me when he says it.
13. A guy that will play her favorite song outside her window
(never done that)
14. A guy who is loyal
(so far, so good)
15. A guy that will sing to you no matter how bad he is at it.
(lol, He has sang to me a few times, but its rare)
16. A guy that will kiss you on the forehead.
(when he leaves in the morning)
17. A guy that will call you beautiful or adorable...not hot, fine, or sexy
(mmm... hasnt in a while)
18. A guy that will never judge you for how you look.
(I cant comment here)
19. A guy that says cheezy stuff to you just to make you smile
(he does that lol)
20. A guy that is the same when he is with you and when with friends
(dunno about that. When he was with danny he was an ass all the time)
21. A guy that tells you everything honestly
(He doesnt talk to me about certain things anymore for some reason.. but when he does, he is being honest)
22. A guy that is good with your family and introduces you to his family
(he doesnt like my family and ALWAYS has something against them, but I love his.)
23. A guy that will always let you win
(Joe NEVER lets me when!)
24. A guy who stands up for you no matter who it is against
(Joe has never fought for me. I wish he would sometimes.)
25. A guy who calls you at night just to say 'hi' and see how your day has been
(use to do that, but doesnt anymore. i had to say something to him about not calling me the entire time I was in NY. Its like he forgot all about me while I was gone and OBVIOUSLY didnt miss me)
26. A guy who tells you that your smile makes his day and makes everything better
(use to)
27. A guy who will sit on the phone with you when you're sad, even if you're quiet
(nope, joe is the kind that is down to busn and thats all- he doesnt like to just chat)
28. A guy who you can hangout and have fun with
(occassionally we have gone out and had fun)
29. A guy that is sincere
(joe is when he wants to be)
30. A guy who will hold your hand through the roughest parts of life.
(He has done this over and over again)
31. A guy who would love you forever no matter the circumstance.
(I dunno. I hate to say that. Im sure he will love me, I just dont know how long and what type of love)
32. A guy who wouldn't mind you wanting to get all dressed up and do your make up for him. Even if he says he likes you better without make up.
(When I dress up, it doesnt seem to make a difference, soo.. I dunno how he feels about this one)
33. A guy who you can be yourself with and he will never give a care and would still tell you that you are amazing to him.
(I sometimes feel I cant be myself anymore. I have to watch myself and make sure I dont bite my nails or burp or whatever around him or else he will make a shrud comment.)

How many of these are things you and your man have done together?

All and All, I have an amazing husband at times. I would love to have some of the old stuff back and start some new stuff, but Im not sure if it will happen. But i do love my husband with all my heart.

 

[Veronica]

Thats what you women dream about but is it really what you go after. I think not. You women have the idea of a prince charming (but notice the term prince wich equals money). You women want a good gentleman but only if he has the attitude and money and power of a bad boy. Not to say all women are like this, but for th emost part that is what you do, even if just subconsciously

Ive never gone after money personally. I met my husband out of high school and BELIEVE me, he wasnt a bad boy and we had NO money at all! LOL, But I loved him because of the way he treated me.. and he was also the only man that could give me back what I give him! LOL

 

[GuesSAngel]

i started dating my husband b/c of his car....















j/k tim

the truth is, he wanted to date me b/c of mine!

 

[hhayes]

all those things are great to have. i've had some of those before and would be great to have again one day and i know someday it will happen for me.

sometimes men just have to be trained LOL

 

[andcuriouser]

I never stop being grateful that I found Matt.

And yes, I realize I'm not a woman, but bah.

 

[AUDRAA]

I would say those are very true statements, and every guy has his own way or version of doing those special things and no, we dont need those things all the time but yes, they are sure nice to have some of them once in awhile

 

[matt0114]

you know what sucks though??? even if you do like everything on that list, you still get a stupid bitch that just leaves for no reason at all....... why is it that the good guys always get walked all over?

 

[AUDRAA]

Ive heard that by alot of guys, and there really is no good ansewr to that other than I guess it just takes some women a while to realize that the bad boys arent really what they want or need to make them happy IMO

 

[sharpies]

You know deep down most guys just want the same kind of thing. Someone to love & experience life with - I'm glad I found my woman.

Allan

 

[SilentEyz]

you know what sucks though??? even if you do like everything on that list, you still get a stupid bitch that just leaves for no reason at all....... why is it that the good guys always get walked all over?

you don't believe it only guys..

Guys do the same damn thing.. they want a good woman, and blah blah.. but then when they have one they treat them like shit and dump them for soem psychotic slut who wont give them the time of day anyway.

Not all men are like that, and not all women are like that.. but it happens to both equally.

 

[Pixie]

Every Woman's Dream - To be independent, and not feel the need to revolve your life around what a man can do for you, or how he makes you feel. To choose to be with a partner because you want to be with them, not because you need to be with them.

No disrespect meant to anyone, but I find a number of the suggestions for every woman's dream in the first post to be quite offensive. They really do imply that a woman isn't complete, or doesn't feel truly happy, without a man to provide those things for her. No wonder so many people feel like their entire world has caved in and are unable to find any self-worth when the relationship breaks up.

 

[alleycat]

Im going to have to go with Pixie on this one.
All that stuff is corny to me and makes it sound like the guy is needy or a little puppy dog.
I just want a guy that likes me as much as I like him. That can go either way.

 

[majikstranger]

I once had a girl leave me and her reason was that i was too good and perfect.. Umm ok. First she complained because she wanted me to take the relationship very serious and i was taking it eeasy because she was heading off to college and i knew that might break us up. She promised me she would make it work and it would be great. I listened to her and took the relationship serious, then she breaks up with me
. She was the only girl to ever break up with me and break my heart but i thank her very very much because the pain taught me a great deal about love. It taught me, never have expectations in love and just enjoy it while you have it and when you loose it rejoice in the joy of when you had it

 

[lala]

Every Woman's Dream - To be independent, and not feel the need to revolve your life around what a man can do for you, or how he makes you feel. To choose to be with a partner because you want to be with them, not because you need to be with them.

No disrespect meant to anyone, but I find a number of the suggestions for every woman's dream in the first post to be quite offensive. They really do imply that a woman isn't complete, or doesn't feel truly happy, without a man to provide those things for her. No wonder so many people feel like their entire world has caved in and are unable to find any self-worth when the relationship breaks up.

Of course you should be with your partner because you WANT to and not because you NEED to. But that doesn't mean that the list of Every Woman's Dream imply's incompleteness or unhappiness. The list is simply something that the majority of women (and probably men, deep down) would like to be treated. Would you want to be with your partner if they treated you the opposite of that list? I wouldn't think so...

It's not saying that if the woman isn't treated in all these ways then she isn't going to be happy... it's something that would be nice to feel. Just as compliments from family, friends and even strangers feels nice.

I find them to be very sweet and romantic and I absolutely love being treated like that, when my husband showers me with love and romance. But that doesn't mean that I am or was incomplete or unhappy. Also, that doesn't mean that I "feel the need to revolve my life around what my man can do for me" or how he makes me feel. I chose him because of who he is. Because of what he wants out of life. Because of wonderfully we connect. Because of how loving he is. And soooo much more.

Now just because my husband has done numerous things on that list, and I have enjoyed them and they made me feel loved and special doesn't mean that either one of us revolve our life around that. But isn't a part of a relationship about how you are being treated and how you treat someone? What if your partner was everything you wanted except he treated you poorly - he didn't respect you, he didn't make you feel special, he never romanced you, he never made you smile by doing something sweet but cheezy.... Would that work for you?

That's all for now lol... Very interesting how so many people have different thoughts on the same subject!

 

[Veronica]

lol, Woman dont have to have a man to be happy.. its their choice. This is about love. If you love your spouse/boyfriend, then you would hope they would behave like this. lol I love my husband and he loves me, I wish we could go back to some of that we did in the beginning of our relationship. It makes you feel wanted and needed and LOVED.

Noone NEEDS a man to feel complete. I could do it on my own if I wanted to, but.. I would be lonely.

 

[hhayes]

every womans dream...

1. Get kissed in the rain
2. Have that one hot kiss where your pressed against the wall
3. Have a guy that thinks you're the world
4. A boy that will call you every night just to hear your voice because he misses you
5. A boy that whispers he loves you in your ear
6. Have that moment where you just gaze into each others' eyes
7. When you cry, he kisses your tears away.
8. When you're not with your guy he's all that you can think about
9. Wearing his jacket and every time you breath in, his scent surrounds you
10. A guy who will watch any movie with you, no matter how teary eyed you may get.
11. A guy who squeezes your hand
12. A boy that says he loves you and means it
13. A guy that will play her favorite song outside her window
14. A guy who is loyal
15. A guy that will sing to you no matter how bad he is at it.
16. A guy that will kiss you on the forehead.
17. A guy that will call you beautiful or adorable...not hot, fine, or sexy
18. A guy that will never judge you for how you look.
19. A boy that says cheezy stuff to you just to make you smile
20. A boy that is the same when he is with you and when with friends
21. A boy that tells you everything honestly
22. A boy that is good with your family and introduces you to his family
23. A guy that will always let you win
24. A guy who stands up for you no matter who it is against
25. A guy who calls you at night just to say 'hi' and see how your day has been
26. A boy who tells you that your smile makes his day and makes everything better
27. A boy who will sit on the phone with you when you're sad, even if you're quiet
28. A boy who you can hangout and have fun with
29. A boy that is sincere
30. A guy who will hold your hand through the roughest parts of life.
31. A guy who would love you forever no matter the circumstance.
32. A guy who wouldn't mind you wanting to get all dressed up and do your make up for him. Even if he says he likes you better without make up.
33. A guy who you can be yourself with and he will never give a care and would still tell you that you are amazing to him.

How many of these are things you and your man have done together?

these aren't necessarily things that you WANT or NEED in a man but they are examples of the things that make a good relationship so special and stuff like that

 

[lala]

1. Get kissed in the rain - done that
2. Have that one hot kiss where your pressed against the wall - many of those lol
3. Have a guy that thinks you're the world - pretty sure he does lol
4. A boy that will call you every night just to hear your voice because he misses you - well I wouldn't call him a boy, and we live together so no he doesn't call every night but before we lived together he would call almost every night to say good night.
5. A boy that whispers he loves you in your ear - Every night
6. Have that moment where you just gaze into each others' eyes - occasionally
7. When you cry, he kisses your tears away. - yup he's done that before
8. When you're not with your guy he's all that you can think about - I think about him very often
9. Wearing his jacket and every time you breath in, his scent surrounds you - it's happened... but not often
10. A guy who will watch any movie with you, no matter how teary eyed you may get. - sometimes... but again not often
11. A guy who squeezes your hand - always
12. A boy that says he loves you and means it - I know he means it
13. A guy that will play her favorite song outside her window Nope not outside my window, but in the living room to dance to
14. A guy who is loyal - I believe he is
15. A guy that will sing to you no matter how bad he is at it.... no, can't say that's been done, unless you count goofy songs
16. A guy that will kiss you on the forehead. - almost every day usually in the morning
17. A guy that will call you beautiful or adorable...not hot, fine, or sexy - he calls me all of those, depending on the situation
18. A guy that will never judge you for how you look. - he compliments me on how I look when I first wake up if that counts!
19. A boy that says cheezy stuff to you just to make you smile occasionally
20. A boy that is the same when he is with you and when with friends for the most part
21. A boy that tells you everything honestly in the end we are both as honest as possible although that may take awhile if it's something that is hard to talk about at first
22. A boy that is good with your family and introduces you to his family - he's respectful towards them as I am towards his, although in both of our family's there are people we tolerate...
23. A guy that will always let you win he doesn't LET me win... I just do anyways lol
24. A guy who stands up for you no matter who it is against he has stood up for me against his parents, and friends...
25. A guy who calls you at night just to say 'hi' and see how your day has been he calls from work sometimes just to say hi
26. A boy who tells you that your smile makes his day and makes everything better it's been said but not often
27. A boy who will sit on the phone with you when you're sad, even if you're quiet he has but not for long, unless it's extremely important
28. A boy who you can hangout and have fun with all the time...
29. A boy that is sincere I believe he is
30. A guy who will hold your hand through the roughest parts of life. absolutely, just as I hold his
31. A guy who would love you forever no matter the circumstance. I would hope so
32. A guy who wouldn't mind you wanting to get all dressed up and do your make up for him. Even if he says he likes you better without make up. he enjoys me dressing up
33. A guy who you can be yourself with and he will never give a care and would still tell you that you are amazing to him. Yup

How many of these are things you and your man have done together?

Wow, at some point in our relationship we have had pretty much every single one of those examples, and many are still happening! I didn't realize that until I actually sat and thought about it lol.. Man I'm a lucky girl hahaha

 

[TheOriginalJames]

There is such a thing as too big of a dream.

Maybe if women dreamt of men who drink beer, watch football and scratched themselves in places that would get them arrested in public, the world would be a better place.

I dream of a woman who doesn't think I have to be romantic 24/7 to know that I'd love her, a woman who's not afraid to be a little bit disgusting at times, a woman who doesn't think she needs to spend 4 hours getting ready to look nice...

But, as I said there is such a thing as too big of a dream.