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Zorak

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Ahhhh!

Men like him make us all look bad! We're not really, I mean when I get a restraining order, I respect it.
 

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I wish you luck to get the guy off your back to where he'll stop bothering you. From reading posts over here, sounds like if you ignore him, that may be the best way. Some people just can't get the hint, it seems, and then if someone explodes on them by talking to them, then they wonder why he/she got mad at them. I wish you luck in what ever happens. :) Keep us up to date on what happens in the future with this scenario.
 

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He's obviously got a screw loose, so I would definitely stick w/ the plan of not having anything more to do w/ him. HOWEVER, Elsa brings up a good point...you need to TELL HIM not to contact you anymore. Things may be different over there, but here in Georgia you can only file harassing communications reports if you have actually TOLD someone to stop contacting you and they continue to do so. Good luck w/ whatever you decide. ;)
 

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He's obviously got a screw loose, so I would definitely stick w/ the plan of not having anything more to do w/ him. HOWEVER, Elsa brings up a good point...you need to TELL HIM not to contact you anymore. Things may be different over there, but here in Georgia you can only file harassing communications reports if you have actually TOLD someone to stop contacting you and they continue to do so. Good luck w/ whatever you decide. ;)
Good points! I agree. :nod:
 

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Hey guys. Some update on my “dilemma”. Well, I told him I don’t want anything to do with him, and that I’m no interested. He didn’t understand.

Then, I told him again in a more ‘colourful’ way. Then he got it.

Amazing what effect the F world could have. :eek:

He didn’t contact me ever since, and I hope he never will. I had enough of him for one life, that’s for sure. If I happen to meet him accidentally I won’t even acknowledge him.


… and as soon as I got rid of this one, I met up with another one.

I was in the city centre with two of my male Uni. colleagues and who did I run into? One guy form my old high school who had the hots for me. I would say this one and the previous one are two peas in a pot. Both idiots with a capital I.
I didn’t hear form him since our meeting, thank God.


Geez, why is it that always the idiots are after you? Why can’t the cute 28 year old who sits beside me and with whom I hang out often, and with whom I have study sessions planned already, be single? :(
 

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tell him you're a man living as a woman and the operation isn't for another 2 years and that you want him to wait for you.

:)
 

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tell him you're a man living as a woman and the operation isn't for another 2 years and that you want him to wait for you.

:)

LoL What an idea LoL
Wouldn’t work though, we went to the same high school and I’m sure he knows that I’m a woman all around -- he certainly was fascinated with my cleavage on a few occasions. :ninja
 

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LoL What an idea LoL
Wouldn’t work though, we went to the same high school and I’m sure he knows that I’m a woman all around -- he certainly was fascinated with my cleavage on a few occasions. :ninja


how about telling him you have herpes? ALL over. even on your hands. and it's airborne too. so if he comes within 5 feet, HE'LL get it too! OH! AND it can be transmitted through radio waves (or whatever) so no texts or phone calls either!

Problem solved. you are welcome.
 

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how about telling him you have herpes? ALL over. even on your hands. and it's airborne too. so if he comes within 5 feet, HE'LL get it too! OH! AND it can be transmitted through radio waves (or whatever) so no texts or phone calls either!

Problem solved. you are welcome.

Wow, your mind works in a strange way LoL I love it.:D:thumbup
 

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Geez, I thought I wouldn't have to give an update about this ever again but my little idiot of a problem has popped his head up again.

A couple weeks ago I got a text message from him, saying he is organizing an get together with all of our classmates from high school and he wanted to know if I was interested in coming. -- here's the deal, the ones who are studying will not be able to attend because Uni is kicking into second gear, that should be obviouse to him since he is attending college, though I hear he is failing. And not to mention that he is not the type to organize things like this.
Anyway, I didn't respond to the text message.

After that I didn't hear from him, then one night my phone rings. It was him, I didn't pick up -- my bro was about to pick it up and ask him what he wanted when he hung up.

Then after that, nothing for weeks, then yesterday evening I log onot a site that many people form my environment frequents and I hardly had the time to check my comments when he invites me to chat. I was tempted to ask him what the hell he wanted but the site seemed to malfunction so I got logged out and it wouldn't load again. I thought what the heck no big deal.
Today morning I log in to the site again and instantly there is a chat invite from him again. I was in a hurry so I again didn't have a chance to ask him why the hell he is bothering me if he sees I am not responding.

So far nothing really happened. He could be interested in knowing if I want to attend the get together or he may wan to get in my good grace again.
Either way, he popped up in my life again.

*sigh* I am still thinking about what to really do.
If I respond he'll take it as an encouragement to move in, just like he did before.

Maybe I'll need to tell him to fuck off again :dunno
 
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