How is seeing sex damaging to a child?
I don't see how you can akin seeing someone being killed to seeing mommy and daddy going at it after a night cap. One is much more traumatizing.It's kind alike letting them watch violence at a young age .. it seeds something in their mind that shouldn't be there yet.
If sex and young children mixed .. it wouldn't be against the law to engage in sexual activity with children. Letting young children see sexual acts desensitizes them to it and will eventually lead them into having it at younger ages .. same as with drinking and smoking.
It might not happen to every child, but it's just not a good idea.
Sorry, I don't think my 11 yr old needs to be aware of sex at 10, 11, or 12. He'll learn plenty about it when he reaches puberty .. why introduce more adult situations to children than they already have thrown in their face?
Why not let them stay children as long as possible? Why disregard their innocence and shove sex in their faces? I don't see why you would WANT to do that, for any reason.
And, I've heard my parents having sex .. at 30 yrs old .. and I will prolly never get over it .. it was nasty and just completely weird.
Sex is a private act, between 2 consenting adults .. children just don't belong ANYWHERE in the scenario of ADULTS having sex. Sorry
You would be VERY wrong in your deduction too .. they know EXACTLY what sex is .. public school introduces our kids to so much crap, it's insane.Even if a 10 year old saw a sexual act, I doubt they would even know what was going on, and they probably wouldn't even construe it as being sexual since they probably don't even have what sex is as a concept down in their minds.
I'm not saying you should introduce them to it if you don't want to, they're your kids. Even if a 10 year old saw a sexual act, I doubt they would even know what was going on, and they probably wouldn't even construe it as being sexual since they probably don't even have what sex is as a concept down in their minds.
You would be VERY wrong in your deduction too .. they know EXACTLY what sex is .. public school introduces our kids to so much crap, it's insane.
That's why I don't think they need even more re-inforcement in their lives via TV or by being allowed to view such things.
Sex ed? Thats a good thing. I would think ignorance of the subject is far more harmful than knowledge of it.You would be VERY wrong in your deduction too .. they know EXACTLY what sex is .. public school introduces our kids to so much crap, it's insane.
That's why I don't think they need even more re-inforcement in their lives via TV or by being allowed to view such things.
I didn't say the schools were teaching it to them ... I said they were learning it AT school.Sex ed? Thats a good thing. I would think ignorance of the subject is far more harmful than knowledge of it.
Annnnndddd this has always gone on. Its not some new thing. My dad told me about a story where boys and girls would get caught fooling around in the convent that was connected to his catholic school (back in the 50's) allll the time. Its just that it gets more exposure now with the mass media.Think again....
washingtonpost.com: Unsettling New Fad Alarms Parents: Middle School Oral Sex
Officials: Middle School Students Caught In Sex Act In Class - Houston News Story - KPRC Houston
Middle School Students Found Having Sex In Class - News Story - KXAS | Dallas
Sixth Grade Students Have Sex in Class with Teacher Present - Associated Content
Ok, but that has always happened.I didn't say the schools were teaching it to them ... I said they were learning it AT school.
evidently it is worse .. have you SEEN the teenage and pre-teenage prgnancy rate lately? Hello? Something is going on .. and wtf do you think it is? It's the way the tv makes sex seem to great and easy and shit .. and it's our kids watchign it and becoming desensitized to sex .. and thinking "oh that won't happen to me" .. but it does, because little kids shouldn't be HAVING sex .. they aren't ready for that shit.Annnnndddd this has always gone on. Its not some new thing. My dad told me about a story where boys and girls would get caught fooling around in the convent that was connected to his catholic school (back in the 50's) allll the time. Its just that it gets more exposure now with the mass media.
Ok, but that has always happened.
All you have to do is tell your kids to stay away from strangers, don't talk to them, don't go near people they don't know .. you don't have to tell them that some 50 yr old guys wants to stick his dick in them .. God, kids don't need to hear or know about that shit .. that's just ridiculous.Unfortunately, with the amount of sick kiddie fiddlers around, I think it's getting more important for kids to know about sex younger, so they are aware of what is and isn't appropriate behavior by an adult toward them.
I have plenty of morals, sweety pie. <3I'm out on this thread, talking reason and morals with someone of your "views" is pointless and a waste of time.
I'm sure they fluctuate.evidently it is worse .. have you SEEN the teenage and pre-teenage prgnancy rate lately? Hello? Something is going on .. and wtf do you think it is? It's the way the tv makes sex seem to great and easy and shit .. and it's our kids watchign it and becoming desensitized to sex .. and thinking "oh that won't happen to me" .. but it does, because little kids shouldn't be HAVING sex .. they aren't ready for that shit.
All you have to do is tell your kids to stay away from strangers, don't talk to them, don't go near people they don't know .. you don't have to tell them that some 50 yr old guys wants to stick his dick in them .. God, kids don't need to hear or know about that shit .. that's just ridiculous.
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