Charmeleon, attack!

Okay, there is something wrong with Windows Live. Have you ever noticed how when you add someone on MSN, it secretly sends out a friend request to that person to add you on the Windows Live profile thing? Well, this is just in...
I get a friggen text from my ex asking if I wanted to contact him because APPARENTLY I sent a friend request to him on that Windows Live profile thing. I had blocked him and deleted him from my fucking list, I did NOT send out a friend request, so that shit is fucked up. I wanted him out of my life, MSN just has to fuck everything up.
I know it's not him pulling my leg, it is Windows Live itself. So annoying. I got a request from him too a few days ago, which I declined of course. Bloody idiots. I just sent them a nice complaint in their feedback thing. That will teach them to try and expand my friendship circle! :mad
 
My Christmas day...
Woken up at eight a.m by mum texting me to get out of bed for presents...what the hell? Had breakfast as usual anyway...
All gathered in the living room, presents exchanged and unwrapped. I got a fitness ball I wanted, plus mum bought some random stuff. She bought me perfume, a hair dryer, a pair of thongs and some pyjamas.
Jumped in the shower. Came out, became frustrated.
Someone took the bathroom, got even more annoyed.
Fast forward...got dressed...started studying outside but fell asleep on the seat.
Then had lunch.
Erm...studied? Exercised...hung out towels...had dinner at 5:30.
Blah blah blah...
 
I'm not trying to start drama or anything, I am saying this in the nicest way possible.

I really think people should mind their own business when it comes to a certain relationship of mine. It is not just flirting, it is not obsession, and it is not petty. No, we aren't "official" yet, we haven't told each other we love each other yet. And that is okay with both of us. We have talked about all these sorts of things, and we are on the same page with all of them. I understand it is a long distance relationship, higher risk of failing, I get it. This is why we are taking it slow.

But if you haven't realised, it's been almost a year since I joined (January, not February), so we've known each other for that long, we've talked practically every day, we are close, we know each other well. And, I don't appreciate it when people try to tell me things contrary to what I know. So he thinks about another woman you say? I doubt this very much because I know him much more than most people here I'd say, at least in that department.

It is not stupid of me to trust him, it is not stupid of me to be close to someone much older than me, it is not stupid of me to think that I am the only one he has his eyes on. Rather, it is stupid that people who barely know us think they can make assumptions and try and make me insecure. If you don't know, don't even try. He is not like other men.

As with anyone who is separated by distance, of course we want to see each other, and it is going to be possible within the next 2 to 7 months. You might say it's risky, and say "What if...?". But I have seen enough of him to know that he is a very nice person, very sweet, someone who shares common ground with me. There is nothing to fear, and if I have nothing to fear, why should you? Maybe from your experience in a similar situation, you would generalise that to me and think that this won't work. But it's not the case. We see sides of each other that no one else does, so no one outside of us can really judge can they?

I appreciate you looking out for me and all, but I am not alone. My mum knows a little about him, she knows he will be visiting soon. But there really is no reason to worry.
On a different note however, if you don't like this relationship at all, maybe you should put me and him on ignore. The least you could do is be happy, I've always been happy for you.

Anyway, to wrap this up, I hope you all understand this a little bit better now. Call me childish if you want, but it's really nothing like that. I adore him very much, I am crazy about him, I enjoy talking to him, he has a way of making me happy when I am down. I admire all the qualities he has, I love the way he looks, and to me, he is perfect. I don't doubt for a second that he would say the same things about me (hell he already has ;)). So, stop worrying people!
And if you read this, well thanks, I hope you can see what I'm saying and take me seriously (please).
 
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I know it's like none of my business or whatever but I gotta say that I know for a fact that long distance things can work out, my dad met his current wife on the internet, they met up with eachother and have been married 10+ years, you won't know if something will work out unless you try it :dunno
 
dkwrtw said:
I know it's like none of my business or whatever but I gotta say that I know for a fact that long distance things can work out, my dad met his current wife on the internet, they met up with eachother and have been married 10+ years, you won't know if something will work out unless you try it :dunno
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Exactly, you never know right. All relationships are risks I say, not just distance ones.
 
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