bad news brought up a slight issue

[Kat]

Considered carry on luggage?

lol excatally

 

[Homer]

one other thing that comes to mind is how a baby that young handles a plane and the presser that comes with it , like in on the ears eyes i even have problems with my ears.

 

[Kat]

one other thing that comes to mind is how a baby that young handles a plane and the presser that comes with it , like in on the ears eyes i even have problems with my ears.

True Im not sure how shed handle it either...I personally think shed be ok especially if she had her binky to suck on (should help with the pressure stuff) but we wouldnt know until we tried it and i dont want her to go through that without me...usually when she gets realy freaked out...he cant calm her down as well or as quickly as I can

 

[Homer]

that something you need to look into before hand with her being so young i'm sure the info is out there ,maybe even call her doctor.

 

[Kat]

I think Im just gonna present all of this to Bo tonight...as reasons for her not to go...and leave it at that...theres too much that makes me worry to be comfortable with it...so I just hope he understands and doesnt get angry about it

 

[Homer]

i sure hope he understands , it's not like you guys can't take a trip when shes a little older and you can all go as a family , maybe he could read some of these post.

 

[Charmer]

As I said previously, I am looking at it also from the fact that the Father is going to a funeral, not really considered a happy social visit. As said here, save money; go as a family when that is THE SOLE reason, to show off your daughter.
The main reason I would say no is that Kat would be an emotional wreck, (like the scenario Amy posted), and that would be my main concern that Mother and Daughter weren't together.

 

[Kat]

thank you all for your advice and support... You are wonderful

 

[Mrs Behavin]

Let us know how everything goes. I got my fingers crossed that things go smoothly for you

 

[AUDRAA]

I wish I would have seen this earlier I really wanted to play devils advocate and bring up some point also, but now its too late. How did it go Kat?

 

[Kat]

ok so he got from my initial reaction that it didnt sit well with me so he actually didnt mention/ask again today...so he's gone now...left this afternoon...wont get back till sunday @ like 12 or 1 am ....so now i need to keep busy and try not to worry about him...I just wish I was there to stand beside him at the funeral

 

[Butterfly]

I am glad that it didn't have to cause a fight for you guys.
I can imagine that it must be hard for you to be so far from him while he is hurting.

 

[Kat]

Yeah...that is def. very hard right now...my heart aches for him...I wish I could turn back time and stop it from happening this way...I wish I was standing by his side...even tho he claims hes fine...I can see it in his eyes that hes hurting...It breaks my heart

 

[Ria]

Hi Kat.

I have only just come back on forum after not having chance for a cpl of days, so haven't seen this thread til now.

You must have been going through such turmoil until the decision was reached finally.

I know it's all over as far as your baby going or not going, is concerned, but just wanted to say that I too would never have allowed my son at that age to go on a plane or away from me for 3 days.

I don't understand though - if they were wanting him to take her to meet them and they wanted to meet her that much, why won't they come to you to see her? Surely it would be more fair to you and easier for them to go to you - they wouldn't have the awkwardness of having to feed a baby on board, change her, soothe her etc.

That would not have been the best of times for her to go anyway, as others on here have said already, even though it is a sad time for your partner.

I hope you feel relieved now as far as yr daughter's concerned. Hope you don't feel too low for yr partner though - he will probably feel better for going under the circumstances - of what went on between him and his father before he died.

You are still going through a change in your body too, so it has been a lot on your plate to cope with. It hasn't been long since the upheaval of giving birth. It is quite a traumatic time, even though happy occassion, for our bodies to go through.

Try and rest up as often as you can.

Hope the time passes quickly for you for when he comes home.