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BadBoy@TheWheel

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I know this will touch close to home for many here, myself included.

I had an idea, if anyone of us with Autistic/Aspargers children have issues, or know somebody who needs help, bring the question here, from the collective we can bring up our own personal experience, wisdom and solutions to try and help.

I have always loved the idea of people helping people.

Please, I beg for the greater good, do not whore this thread, let's keep it strictly on topic and helpful, some us can always use a helping hand when times get tough with a special needs child/children.

Thank you
 
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Jersey

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wait... I missed it... tell me how this hits close to home for you... please... i wanna hear autism stories <3autism
 

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I have aspurgers, it affects people in different ways. If anyone wants my personal opinion and ways to deal with it though, I am happy to lend my voice.:)
 

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I work with children and adults with Autism... have for the past 5 years.. I <3 my job

I was told, plus it's in your profile under "occupation":D

We have taken him to a wide variety of Doctor's, nutritionist's a "specialist" in Baton Rouge Dr. Stephanie Cave.

But, in all that what has worked the best is GF/CF diet, and the program that was developed by our school district (God bless those folk's).

He sleeps all night now, sits still, eats dinner with the family (most nights...lol)

Plays with other children, and is very very very loving...now at least. It wasn't awlays that way...trust me, I am sure you have heard stories.
 

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Is he verbal? Does he have ABA sessions?? Details, details... it's a compulsion for me...


He counts, he can talk, he will not always talk for us, but he will to his teacher's (which is supposed to be quite common).

And he sings sometimes....Like an angel. God I remember the first time we ever heard that little voice of his we cried like babies.

But yes, he is verbal, to a degree.
 

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<3 one of the kids i worked with, I started when he was 18 months... for months and months and months all we did was work on him sitting in a chair and say hi... and then one day he just did it--- I balled my eyes out for almost 2 hours straight... I can't imagine it actually being my child... although I work really closely to my students... I'm sure the parent reaction to it is even stronger... what an awesome feeling
 

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<3 one of the kids i worked with, I started when he was 18 months... for months and months and months all we did was work on him sitting in a chair and say hi... and then one day he just did it--- I balled my eyes out for almost 2 hours straight... I can't imagine it actually being my child... although I work really closely to my students... I'm sure the parent reaction to it is even stronger... what an awesome feeling


Hey, we work with him constantly, have spent tons of money on him, but of all the things that has helped the most, it's consistency, unconditional love and affection wether he wants it or not...lol and those teachers of his, they have really unlocked his little mind quite well.

He is absolutely amazing at electronics, video games you name it. And he loves music, I mean LOVES IT.
 

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Is he in a Special Ed class, or mainstreamed?

If I'm being nosey, I'm sorry... I live off this stuff....
 

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Is he in a Special Ed class, or mainstreamed?

If I'm being nosey, I'm sorry... I live off this stuff....


They created a class called Applied Acedemics. Basically, they took the special education children with the greatest potential acedemically, and who could participate in some mainstream activities and created an entire program around them.

So he does phys ed. with a "typical" class, a small class but mainstream no less. They also push them very hard to follow rules, perform tasks for themselves, read, write, talk etc. It was a new program they developed and it has worked wonders with him. He LOVES to go to school. I mean he gets excited.
 

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WOW.. thats awesome :)

Yes, we were very excited about it. He has truly flourished.

It just so happens, that we own a home in the neighborhood that the school is in that is running the pilot program....You could call it luck, or you could call it calling a real estate agent and saying "Ahh yeah, we want a house there";)

The school is literally a block from our house. Nestled nicely in our neighborhood. Of course the entire district is doing it, but our school started it.

See, I knew this thread would pay off, hopefully someone else will get something from our chat:clap

That was why I started it to begin with:)
 

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Hope you don't mind me whoring up the thread, but I am going to post links to other threads that have been started about Autism and related articles...
 

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Hope you don't mind me whoring up the thread, but I am going to post links to other threads that have been started about Autism and related articles...


No, go right on ahead hon. Fire away, as long as it's about Autism, that's why this sticky is here.
 

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"Hello My Name is Autism"
Hello. Allow me to introduce myself to you. My name is Autism. Perhaps you know me or know of me. I am a condition, a "disorder" that affects many people. I strike at will, when and where I want. Unlike Down's syndrome or other birth "defects," I leave no marks on those I strike. In fact, I pride myself on the ability to infiltrate a child's life, while leaving him or her strikingly handsome. Many people may not even know that I am there. They blame the child for what I cause him or her to do. I am Autism and I do as I please.

I am Autism. I strike boys and girls, infants and toddlers. I find my best victims to be boys around the age of 2, but any child will do. I like children and they are always the true victims, though I take hostage of the others in the child's family as well. It is a bit like getting two for the price of one. I affect one child and infect the entire family.

I am Autism. I strike rich and poor alike. The rich combat me with education and therapy. The poor shut their children away and cannot afford to fight me. I am able to win in the lives of poor children more than I am of the wealthy, but I will try to take root anywhere.

I am Autism. I am an equal opportunity disorder. I like whites, blacks, Mexicans, Ukrainians, Russians, Poles, Slavs, Japanese, Koreans and Fins. In fact, I strike everywhere on earth. I know no geographical bounds.

I am Autism. I do not discriminate based upon religion either. I strike Jews and Christians, Muslims and Buddhists, Atheists and Agnostics, Hindus and Rastafarians. I do not care what religion a person is or what beliefs he may hold. When I strike, there will be little time for any of that anyway. When they find me, they will question everything they believe in, so why would I strike any one group? I have affected followers of every religion on the planet.

I am Autism and I am strong and getting stronger every year, every month, every day, every minute, and every second. I am concerned that money might be allotted to combat me and my takeover of children, but so far I have little to fear. Some countries, like Kuwait, are spending quite a bit of money to assist those who I have targeted and some, like the United States, would rather spend money on such ludicrous things as discovering the number of American Indians who practice voodoo, as opposed to combating me. In an atmosphere as that, I can flourish and wreck havoc at will. In places such as that, I rub my hands with glee at the problem I can cause to children, families and to the society at large.

I am Autism. When I come, I come to stay. I take the dreams and hopes of every parent and trample them with glee. I see the fear and confusion in the eyes of my victims and I see the formation of wrinkles, worries and ulcers and the pain on the face of their parents. I see the embarrassment their child causes because of me and the parents unsuccessful attempt to hide their child and, me. I see tears and the parents cry and feel the tears of their child. I am Autism. I leave sorrow in my wake.

I am Autism. I take and give nothing but bewilderment and loathing in return. I take speech and learning, I take socialization and understanding. I take away "common sense" and if I am allowed to flourish, I take away all but their physical life. What I leave behind, is almost worse than death.

I am Autism. I fear nothing except courage, which I thankfully see little of. I fear those who take a stand against me and attempt to fight me and bring others into the fight as well. I fear those who try to make it safe and easier for my victims in the community, and their families. I fear those who push ahead, despite the fact that I am in tow. I fear the day that I will be eradicated from the planet. Yet, I do not fear too much right now. There is no need. I am supported by the ignorance about me from those in the community.

I am Autism and I bet you know me or know of me. If you don't, you probably will soon. I am marching forward faster than I ever have before. I am looking for new children all the time. I dread the day I will be looked on with pity or worse yet, understanding, for that day, is the day I will begin to die. But, I don't think that will happen for a long, long time though, do you? In the meantime, I prowl onward, looking to cause pain and suffering wherever I go. I have so much work to do and thankfully, no one is stopping me.

Hello my name is Autism. Perhaps you know me or know of me...
 

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I have awesome news, well at least for my family.

Today, my youngest sons teacher observed him in a "typical" kindergarten class for one hour!!!

They said he did very well, sat in his desk and participated in some of the flash card exercises!!

And they said it was obvious that he was very high functioning and intelligent.

I cried for about 30 minutes over it all....What amazing children they are, the Autistic.
 
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