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Veronica

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USFsam, you seem like you have alot of problems against the mods here. Ive seen it in several other forums. You try to get people on your 'the mods are unfair here' banwagon and thats a problem I have with you.

*General statement- not directed at usfsam*
I dont understand why people complain about the people in charge here but STICK AROUND? How does that make since. Personally, if I didnt like it somewhere, I would never go back.. thats the smart thing.

Now BACK to what this threads meaning was for:

Peter, thank you for apologizing. I know you cool down after a few days.... so I tried to give you time.. Next time, just PM me before you get mad.
 

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USFsam, you seem like you have alot of problems against the mods here. Ive seen it in several other forums. You try to get people on your 'the mods are unfair here' banwagon and thats a problem I have with you.

*General statement- not directed at usfsam*
I dont understand why people complain about the people in charge here but STICK AROUND? How does that make since. Personally, if I didnt like it somewhere, I would never go back.. thats the smart thing.

Now BACK to what this threads meaning was for:

Peter, thank you for apologizing. I know you cool down after a few days.... so I tried to give you time.. Next time, just PM me before you get mad.

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Wow...

I literally have no idea where to start...

In all my time here I've gotten my panties twisted precisely TWICE.

Once in that huge thread that a TON of people were TRYING TO HELP THIS PLACE by braving the wrath of the MODS by speaking our minds on things we saw going wrong around here. Repeat- to HELP.

Once against Natasha when I popped my cork when I was going thru some personal shit and a severe health scare. Thinking you may have cancer tends to make one cranky.


"I dont understand why people complain about the people in charge here but STICK AROUND?"

Let me get this straight.... you're asking "Why do people question authority?"

There are three kinds of people:

1- The kind that will never question anything anybody in authority ever says and thinks that they can do no wrong
2- The kind that if they see something that they don't agree with will have the passion to actually speak up about it.
3- The kind that if they are unhappy will just walk away, never saying a word. You never notice they're gone until you ask "Hey... whatever happened to BC?"

Given enough time... every 2 will turn into a 3.

V- its not the kiss asses and suck-ups and brown noses that make a place vibrant. It's the people who are willing to stand up and say "Why are we doing this?" "Why did you do this?" Why is this happening?" that make a difference. You can have all the snuggly ass kissers in the world around you. It won't matter.

You breed from one strain and the species will die. You have a "hive mind"... the society will die.


Short answer-

I stayed because I cared enough to bitch.

Message recieved, V. ... "OTz- Love it or leave it. Troublemakers need not apply."







I won't whore Peter's thread anymore.
 
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Wow...

I literally have no idea where to start...

In all my time here I've gotten my panties twisted precisely TWICE.

Once in that huge thread that a TON of people were TRYING TO HELP THIS PLACE by braving the wrath of the MODS by speaking our minds on things we saw going wrong around here. Repeat- to HELP.

Once against Natasha when I popped my cork when I was going thru some personal shit and a severe health scare. Thinking you may have cancer tends to make one cranky.


"I dont understand why people complain about the people in charge here but STICK AROUND?"

Let me get this straight.... you're asking "Why do people question authority?"

There are three kinds of people:

1- The kind that will never question anything anybody in authority ever says and thinks that they can do no wrong
2- The kind that if they see something that they don't agree with will have the passion to actually speak up about it.
3- The kind that if they are unhappy will just walk away, never saying a word. You never notice they're gone until you ask "Hey... whatever happened to BC?"

Given enough time... every 2 will turn into a 3.

V- its not the kiss asses and suck-ups and brown noses that make a place vibrant. It's the people who are willing to stand up and say "Why are we doing this?" "Why did you do this?" Why is this happening?" that make a difference. You can have all the snuggly ass kissers in the world around you. It won't matter.

You breed from one strain and the species will die. You have a "hive mind"... the society will die.


Short answer-

I stayed because I cared enough to bitch.

Message recieved, V. ... "OTz- Love it or leave it. Troublemakers need not apply."







I won't whore Peter's thread anymore.

Sam, Several times you wanted me to turn my head when someone did something and allow them back in. I unbanned these people and let them post, but it wasnt good enough. You wanted them to have vip status, , girls room, etc. The thing about that is, you know better than me, that if someone isnt trusted, then they cant get vip. you got mad with me about that. Im not gonna mention names on here. In the past, you have tried to heat up the rival against the mods. Im not even talking about only tasha. There are many mods that have had issues with you in the past. I dont care if people kiss my ass or not. I wanted this forum to stay open for people to be friends. To have a good time. A few members LIKE to cause drama. Ive always tried to ignore threads that bother me.. but for some reason, alot of people flock to those and tend to get into trouble, then its all my fault. It makes no sense to me. I changed the rules for all the members and people are still not happy. People are never gonna be happy with anything. You being one of those people. If whatever happened between you and natasha occured in the past, why do you keep bringing it up in the open forums? Why are you not handling that in private? To me, that is someone that WANTS to cause drama..or to stir shit getting people on your side... How do you not see that?
 

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V- check your PM.

I disagree with practically every point you made, but it's not worth it to hash it out.

I will only say that I had put my blow-up with Tasha in the past. I chalked it up to my being stressed and taking it out on her. She was the one that took pains to dredge it up in Dana's FB thread.


Regardless, from now on I'll be a good boy and stick to my Fantasy Football thread.
 

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V- check your PM.

I disagree with practically every point you made, but it's not worth it to hash it out.

I will only say that I had put my blow-up with Tasha in the past. I chalked it up to my being stressed and taking it out on her. She was the one that took pains to dredge it up in Dana's FB thread.


Regardless, from now on I'll be a good boy and stick to my Fantasy Football thread.
Calling you out on what I thought to be a dig at a specific member is NOT dredging up an old "blow-up", Sam. It's no different than me calling Janie out on her comments to Guy several weeks ago. I honestly had forgotten about the quite silly "why is a debate thread being moved to a debate forum" deal until it was brought up here. While I will not argue w/ you anymore, I will not stand by and be accused of things that I am not guilty of.
 

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Calling you out on what I thought to be a dig at a specific member is NOT dredging up an old "blow-up", Sam. It's no different than me calling Janie out on her comments to Guy several weeks ago. I honestly had forgotten about the quite silly "why is a debate thread being moved to a debate forum" deal until it was brought up here. While I will not argue w/ you anymore, I will not stand by and be accused of things that I am not guilty of.

Tasha, I have absolutely nothing against you. From what I know, you are cool and easy going.

If I wrongly took the comment "I thought you were leaving the forum anyway, Sam???" as an attempt to embarrass me based on my actions from a time when I was literally scared for my life, my bad.

Either way, I've had my say in a PM with V.

Far as I'm concerned, it's over.
 

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Tasha, I have absolutely nothing against you. From what I know, you are cool and easy going.

If I wrongly took the comment "I thought you were leaving the forum anyway, Sam???" as an attempt to embarrass me based on my actions from a time when I was literally scared for my life, my bad.

Either way, I've had my say in a PM with V.

Far as I'm concerned, it's over.
Works for me, Sam. ;)
 

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i though this was gonna git ugly

thanks for being civil and dealing with this the right way
 
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