GraceAbounds
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Yeah, I read that in Tim's post. I'm just sad ... I'd think calls, cards, and flowers would be appreciated and would help cheer her up.
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hey - i didnt know you people would be expecting freq updates. i have work & family & friends & a girlfriend plus now handling an insurane co. & her job & the hospital & doctors. i\'ll have to handle the pharmacy soon too. you know what those people are like. (sorry girl. i had to fun my favrite druggie.) give me a break y dont you. i dont ever do thse message websites. i did mention the notes that some of you wrote and she was happy to hear.
so whoever said we want money? where did i say to send money. i need no money from you people and she makes plenty of her own. that was a un-needed comment. i did call james this morning. tahnks man, sorry i couldnt talk more, i was at work & not much time.
i been trying to handle her business, it looked like this website was one she used a lot. that was all i wanted to do was to give you a reson why she wasnt here. i told james some of this so heres what has ben going on.
she went to kc on may 24 saturday. to visit a friend. she needed to get away. it was a holiday weekend. i am sure james know that she had a break with a guy. she was really fucked up about it. she was saying how mara wanted them to just get on a plane and do a spurofthemoment trip. i never thought shed do it. she normally doesnt but i gues the pressure to do something got to her. she saidshe tried to call me monday night to tell me she was going to do it for sure. tues am she was on the way to the airport. someone crossed a center line and hit her. i think she tried to swerve so it wasnt middle headon. it got her hard though. she was unconscious when they called me that morning she was in surgery. she had some bleeding inside around her apedix area and her leg was busted up. someone asked about her appendisitis. she did have that too. this girl has been thru fucking hell. then over this weekend she got bad. they figured out something was wrong with her kidney. i told you about that already. shes been drugged pretty good. she was pissed not being awake to know what drugs she was getting. shes more conscious yesterday & today. she has a morphine pump. no more dialyses other than the one. she is catheterised. she cant walk cause of the cast. she doesnt remember much about what happened. shes depressed, she cries cause of hurting and cause she really wanted to take the trip. right now she comes back to home on saturday. shes still there in ks.
james man, i couldnt give you more informatoin. im in charge of her shit. she had a bad experience with an internet guy - it made her really scared and paranod. maybe she told you it. but its her call. when you told me you were the one who was coming on the 4th of july, i know about you. she told me about you. she was excited about that. what can i say man?
she would not want flowers or cards. nice that some of you thought of it. fuck i sent her flowers plenty trying to get her attention, she told me to stop. (she will read this someday, girl you know i was wanting to get with you. no secret there.) she doesnt care about things. the girl has never been typical with girl stuff. send her a note in your private message system. really man, she wants sincerety and acceptance more than anything. the way she is. love her or leave her alone
i asked her if she had any notes to say back. she said that she cant wait to get home and watch baseball. the royals suck. she said she hopes to have tiger strength to be back soon. ( tiger strength , she must be high.) she was glad to know that i talked to you james. she also said to say something i dont know what it means, \'i missed going to the secret place\'. Marc
so whoever said we want money? where did i say to send money. i need no money from you people and she makes plenty of her own. that was a un-needed comment. i did call james this morning. tahnks man, sorry i couldnt talk more, i was at work & not much time.
i been trying to handle her business, it looked like this website was one she used a lot. that was all i wanted to do was to give you a reson why she wasnt here. i told james some of this so heres what has ben going on.
she went to kc on may 24 saturday. to visit a friend. she needed to get away. it was a holiday weekend. i am sure james know that she had a break with a guy. she was really fucked up about it. she was saying how mara wanted them to just get on a plane and do a spurofthemoment trip. i never thought shed do it. she normally doesnt but i gues the pressure to do something got to her. she saidshe tried to call me monday night to tell me she was going to do it for sure. tues am she was on the way to the airport. someone crossed a center line and hit her. i think she tried to swerve so it wasnt middle headon. it got her hard though. she was unconscious when they called me that morning she was in surgery. she had some bleeding inside around her apedix area and her leg was busted up. someone asked about her appendisitis. she did have that too. this girl has been thru fucking hell. then over this weekend she got bad. they figured out something was wrong with her kidney. i told you about that already. shes been drugged pretty good. she was pissed not being awake to know what drugs she was getting. shes more conscious yesterday & today. she has a morphine pump. no more dialyses other than the one. she is catheterised. she cant walk cause of the cast. she doesnt remember much about what happened. shes depressed, she cries cause of hurting and cause she really wanted to take the trip. right now she comes back to home on saturday. shes still there in ks.
james man, i couldnt give you more informatoin. im in charge of her shit. she had a bad experience with an internet guy - it made her really scared and paranod. maybe she told you it. but its her call. when you told me you were the one who was coming on the 4th of july, i know about you. she told me about you. she was excited about that. what can i say man?
she would not want flowers or cards. nice that some of you thought of it. fuck i sent her flowers plenty trying to get her attention, she told me to stop. (she will read this someday, girl you know i was wanting to get with you. no secret there.) she doesnt care about things. the girl has never been typical with girl stuff. send her a note in your private message system. really man, she wants sincerety and acceptance more than anything. the way she is. love her or leave her alone
i asked her if she had any notes to say back. she said that she cant wait to get home and watch baseball. the royals suck. she said she hopes to have tiger strength to be back soon. ( tiger strength , she must be high.) she was glad to know that i talked to you james. she also said to say something i dont know what it means, \'i missed going to the secret place\'. Marc
TheOriginalJames
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Marc, I'd like to talk to you more if you're available sometime after 4-5 pm your time. Do you have a cell phone number I could text you at to let you know I'm free and available to talk more?
GuesSAngel
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wow that's so weird how something like that wouldn't be in a newspaper?
GuesSAngel
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especially the kansas star newspaper, since it happened right there in kansas city.
Please read what I actually say - no BS called by me on this thread, I actually didn't doubt it was the truth - please read on...
Re: about my friend
Could be though, that he is working and then visiting her in hospital, hence no reappearance today. He was here just the day before yesterday, so that's not too bad. Probably is busy and things may have changed at hospital, or anything maybe?
Re: about my friend
So if this is BS, does that mean the appendix thing is too?
I don't know, surely no-one would be that sick, unless it''s another ex member who she annoyed maybe and has decided to post that.
Thing is, it is possible he has his hands full. He may have a family to see to also, so give him chance, he only posted day before yesterday, hardly a crime. He hasn't been offensive or anything and we don't know what his circumstances are at all.
If you are running around someone in hosp', then working, possibly a family too, you don't get much time to go chatting on a forum.
Give him a chance.
Re: about my friend
So as breath hasn't come online to date then and that marc hasn't posted since the other day (this being his 3rd day I believe), are ppl saying then that she must be in on it too, hence her not showing up here then or what's the thinking?
Cos if it is BS, with her not showing up at all, must mean that then.
If it is BS, then that marc person will have been reading this thread to see what's what, maybe wanting/hoping to get money out of members or something and that would be why he hasn't re-posted, cos hes seen that ppl are saying it's BS.
I still think it's best not to guess til there is more proof or something.
You quoted what I have emboldened above. I was saying that that's how those of you calling it BS are coming across.
However, many of you know you never read things through, hence what I have posted above.
A number of ppl were saying it was BS re Breath. I have not suggested that, so please read above.
You chose one para out of all I have said on this thread - read what I put and that goes for others too - I wasn't saying it was for money, but wondering if this is why ppl are thinking this thread is BS, cos maybe they thought money was wanted to be sent, that was all, not me thinking that.
I have said marc should be given chance and I was asking, not saying as a fact, if whoever thinks it's all BS, was it meaning her appendix too - I was trying to find out why on earth ppl would think something like this would be BS.
I actually have suggested to not do guess work and to give the bloke a chance.
I also said in my 1st post of mine on this thread, that no matter who it is, no matter how a person is, this is a sad thing to happen and no-one deserves it.
So, I wasn't "getting this" from anything and most of all, furthest from my mind actually. I was just wondering if that was what was being got at, by those saying this was all BS.
No matter what's what, I would not say it was BS and haven't.
So no, (to marc), I am not suggesting this was to do with money, just wondering if that's what's been going through those minds here who don't believe you.
I actually have posted in your defence.
I know what it's like to be in a crash and it's not a thing ppl would make up at all, to those who think BS here - what the hell did I get the shit for anyway and not those saying it was BS?
Funny that, considering it's me who said give him a chance to post, he will prob' have other things to see to in his life - and wouldn't you know it, I was right and he does.
I really would appreciate ppl maturing a bit and reading posts as they are, not what they want to think they are.
It's wrong to have judged a post when not read the before posts showing defense to the person being accused of BS by others.
Now that's clear, I am happy to leave this now.
Could be though, that he is working and then visiting her in hospital, hence no reappearance today. He was here just the day before yesterday, so that's not too bad. Probably is busy and things may have changed at hospital, or anything maybe?
So if this is BS, does that mean the appendix thing is too?
I don't know, surely no-one would be that sick, unless it''s another ex member who she annoyed maybe and has decided to post that.
Thing is, it is possible he has his hands full. He may have a family to see to also, so give him chance, he only posted day before yesterday, hardly a crime. He hasn't been offensive or anything and we don't know what his circumstances are at all.
If you are running around someone in hosp', then working, possibly a family too, you don't get much time to go chatting on a forum.
Give him a chance.
So as breath hasn't come online to date then and that marc hasn't posted since the other day (this being his 3rd day I believe), are ppl saying then that she must be in on it too, hence her not showing up here then or what's the thinking?
Cos if it is BS, with her not showing up at all, must mean that then.
If it is BS, then that marc person will have been reading this thread to see what's what, maybe wanting/hoping to get money out of members or something and that would be why he hasn't re-posted, cos hes seen that ppl are saying it's BS.
I still think it's best not to guess til there is more proof or something.
You quoted what I have emboldened above. I was saying that that's how those of you calling it BS are coming across.
However, many of you know you never read things through, hence what I have posted above.
A number of ppl were saying it was BS re Breath. I have not suggested that, so please read above.
You chose one para out of all I have said on this thread - read what I put and that goes for others too - I wasn't saying it was for money, but wondering if this is why ppl are thinking this thread is BS, cos maybe they thought money was wanted to be sent, that was all, not me thinking that.
I have said marc should be given chance and I was asking, not saying as a fact, if whoever thinks it's all BS, was it meaning her appendix too - I was trying to find out why on earth ppl would think something like this would be BS.
I actually have suggested to not do guess work and to give the bloke a chance.
I also said in my 1st post of mine on this thread, that no matter who it is, no matter how a person is, this is a sad thing to happen and no-one deserves it.
So, I wasn't "getting this" from anything and most of all, furthest from my mind actually. I was just wondering if that was what was being got at, by those saying this was all BS.
No matter what's what, I would not say it was BS and haven't.
So no, (to marc), I am not suggesting this was to do with money, just wondering if that's what's been going through those minds here who don't believe you.
I actually have posted in your defence.
I know what it's like to be in a crash and it's not a thing ppl would make up at all, to those who think BS here - what the hell did I get the shit for anyway and not those saying it was BS?
Funny that, considering it's me who said give him a chance to post, he will prob' have other things to see to in his life - and wouldn't you know it, I was right and he does.
I really would appreciate ppl maturing a bit and reading posts as they are, not what they want to think they are.
It's wrong to have judged a post when not read the before posts showing defense to the person being accused of BS by others.
Now that's clear, I am happy to leave this now.
TheOriginalJames
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Yeah I didn't read most of that, I was just wondering why you'd throw that out there. What some of them are suggesting is that Nancy wasn't in an accident, etc. Nobody wants money, and knowing nancy the way I do, she doesn't want people to buy her anything, even cards or flowers.
COOL_BREEZE2
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All through this time because of the lack of information the most we can do is speculate. What Ria said was food for thought pretty much like whatever else is being preferred. Until we have more concrete evidence I'm afraid speculating is the best we can do. Her comment with regard soliciting could not be discounted. She also made other comments that were quite relevant.
I don't know the exact reason *why* I think it's BS, I just know that there are a lot of red flags and a lot of things that don't make sense. For instance...why wouldn't some of the people here that are so close to her have gotten a phone call from her by now??? Now we can all say that her cellphone was probably destroyed in the wreck...but surely someone has visited her in the hospital that has a cellphone. And no, it's no longer against hospital rules to use your cellphone inside. And how is someone that is not her legal guardian or a relative handling her insurance stuff for her??? Remember guys, HIPAA.
So yes...I am inclined to not believe it. Doesn't necessarily mean that I think Breath is a part of the deception and I'd like to make that clear here. I'm just saying that a lot of this doesn't add up.
If I'm wrong, then I will apologize to Marc once Breath comes back and confirms it. I'm woman enough to own up to my mistakes.
Either way...best wishes.
So yes...I am inclined to not believe it. Doesn't necessarily mean that I think Breath is a part of the deception and I'd like to make that clear here. I'm just saying that a lot of this doesn't add up.
If I'm wrong, then I will apologize to Marc once Breath comes back and confirms it. I'm woman enough to own up to my mistakes.
Either way...best wishes.
TheOriginalJames
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Natasha, it'd be wise to ask questions first before calling BS on things like this. I canNOT tell you why things are the way they are right now because of her wishes, but just know that some of the things you've mentioned are due to your lack of knowledge on her.
The distance between KC and St Louis is 250-300 miles, its too much of a trek for Marc to just go see her in the hospital as of right now.
Speculating foul play isn't really the route I'd have taken. No mention was made of it.
The distance between KC and St Louis is 250-300 miles, its too much of a trek for Marc to just go see her in the hospital as of right now.
Speculating foul play isn't really the route I'd have taken. No mention was made of it.
Hmmmm...Marc is in St. Louis???
TheOriginalJames
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Yeah, where they both live. I think I said that previously.
Mrs Behavin
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James have you gotten to talk to Nancy sense this incident?
TheOriginalJames
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No I haven't. Haven't talked to her since 5-24.
COOL_BREEZE2
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All's fair in speculating.
5:24am or pm? :dunno
BaggedSplash
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he meant May 24th...
this is none of my business as i dont know breath and i dont really know any of you, but i did want to say that i am sorry to hear the news. i do wish her the best and although i dont know her will keep her in my prayers. having said that, the whole situation does seem a little weird but dont discredit the whole thing just yet. i know someone mentioned that it is weird for someone other than a family member to be taking care of her affairs... although this probably does seem weird for some, it is believable. i also have it set up that if anything ever happens to me , my best friend is to handle my affairs, not my familiy members, not my husband. i figure my family would have enough to deal with. anyways, i hope this whole situation works out ok in the end, that she recovers quickly and that it really does turn out that no games are being played. that would just be cruel.
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