A victim of my own beliefs...

[Mrs Behavin]

Re: RE: A victim of my own beliefs...

A. I was referring to those who don't practice safe sex and then wonder how the hell something has happened to them. They're idiots.

B. Don't take everything so personally.

C. While it's dandy that everything worked out for you, do you ever stop to think that perhaps you wouldn't have to figure out how to pay the electric bill AND the physician's bill had you not had a child when you did? I know you'll just come back and say, "I don't regret her..." but that isn't the question I'm asking, so don't get your tail feathers all in a ruffle.

D. There are a lot of people, and you can't deny this, who are emotionally immature and should NOT be allowed to take on a child, let alone care for themselves. It is a fact of life in society.

E. I really don't care what decision anyone wants to make...as long as it isn't my tax dollars sweeping up their messes...so since it is, I'll keep flapping my jaws until people wise up and realize they shouldn't have children at all.

Ya wanna know why I had a hard time with paying one of those 2 bills? Because my 28 yr old cousin died in a house fire a couple months ago, she had no other family, so we are paying monthly payments to a funeral home!

And Im not getting my tail feathers in a ruffle. I was simply giving Ryum my personal experience on it.

And yes I agree with you, there are many people who are popping out babies that need to be "fixed". I agree 100% with that. But what your boyfriend said was "You want a kid, good for you, your a moron" doesnt mean that he is one of these people who is emotionally immature and not ready to take on a baby.

 

[Sim]

He even admitted he doesn't even have the knowledge to change a diaper. That is not a difficult task. It's something which is common sense...so is purchasing baby clothes. There are clothes all over the place...Wal-Mart, Target, Babies-R-Us...it doesn't take a genius to know these things.

When people want to have children, they should be required to meet certain standards...to know what they'll be doing when they leave the hospital with that little bundle of responsibility.

I didn't ask why you didn't have the money. It isn't my concern.

 

[Agaryulnaer]

You know what, I retract my moron statement. You're the fucking moron who can't even read a simple statement. Before you even, attempt, to break down the things I said, I suggest you reread very carefuly, what I said, before I start letting certain opinions fly.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

Re: RE: A victim of my own beliefs...

He even admitted he doesn't even have the knowledge to change a diaper. That is not a difficult task. It's something which is common sense...so is purchasing baby clothes. There are clothes all over the place...Wal-Mart, Target, Babies-R-Us...it doesn't take a genius to know these things.

When people want to have children, they should be required to meet certain standards...to know what they'll be doing when they leave the hospital with that little bundle of responsibility.

I didn't ask why you didn't have the money. It isn't my concern.

Excuse me if Im mistaken, but you stated, "While it's dandy that everything worked out for you, do you ever stop to think that perhaps you wouldn't have to figure out how to pay the electric bill AND the physician's bill had you not had a child when you did?". I gave you an answer to your post.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

Re: RE: A victim of my own beliefs...

You know what, I retract my moron statement. You're the fucking moron who can't even read a simple statement. Before you even, attempt, to break down the things I said, I suggest you reread very carefuly, what I said, before I start letting certain opinions fly.

And Im not about to stoop to levels of name calling. I simply stated my opinion on this matter.

Apparently this subject is too critical, Im Out! I gave my opinion on abortion and I keep getting drilled about it.

Ryum, I hope everything works out for you. But Im not stating nothing more on here. Im not gonna sit here and be belittled.

 

[Sim]

I asked if you ever stopped and thought...I didn't ask you why.

Is there a particular reason why I'm sitting here, still smiling, and you seem to be flying off the handle...?

 

[Mrs Behavin]

Maybe because you thought it was cute that your boyfriend called me a moron. :dunno
If you were called a moron would you still be smiling?

Like I said, Im not stooping to yalls levels. Thats all. I gave my opinion and yall pounce on me. Not everyone agrees with everyone else.

I said my peace.

 

[Agaryulnaer]

Have fun.

 

[Agaryulnaer]

Hahahaha, she replied. Oh man I'm so holding my tongue on this one before we get a "damsel in distress!"

 

[Sim]

Re: RE: A victim of my own beliefs...

He's his own person. He can do what he wishes. I hold no leash attached to him in any fashion.

Had I been called a moron, yes, I would still smile. I don't care about people's opinions of me, regardless of what they are.

How about this...I won't stoop to YOUR level now, Amy. If you would like this discussion to be private, bring it to me elsewhere. This is still a discussion about abortion, the last time I looked.

Maybe because you thought it was cute that your boyfriend called me a moron. :dunno
If you were called a moron would you still be smiling?

Like I said, Im not stooping to yalls levels. Thats all. I gave my opinion and yall pounce on me. Not everyone agrees with everyone else.

I said my peace.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

Re: RE: A victim of my own beliefs...

He's his own person. He can do what he wishes. I hold no leash attached to him in any fashion.

Had I been called a moron, yes, I would still smile. I don't care about people's opinions of me, regardless of what they are.

How about this...I won't stoop to YOUR level now, Amy. If you would like this discussion to be private, bring it to me elsewhere. This is still a discussion about abortion, the last time I looked.

Maybe because you thought it was cute that your boyfriend called me a moron. :dunno
If you were called a moron would you still be smiling?

Like I said, Im not stooping to yalls levels. Thats all. I gave my opinion and yall pounce on me. Not everyone agrees with everyone else.

I said my peace.

What the heck are you even talking about. I know its still a discussion about abortion. I never said it wasnt other wise. Why would I need to have a discussion with you in private? You done lost me know.

Hey! I got an idea! Why dont we all just shut up and give Ryum some opinions that he;s looking for. Thats all I was doing to begin with.

 

[AtlanticBlue99]

i agree with the mrs. here. let us try and help ryum through his trying time.

first of all ryum, if you are ready for a child and she is not, try and convince her to become ready. having a baby is a maturity test and a personal trial as well. it can be the best thing that can happen in your life- especially when they grow up into fine young adults. do all you can to have a happy and involved relationship with your child when/if you have one. hope for the best and prepare for the worse. hopefully you get what you want

 

[Mrs Behavin]

:agree Very well said.
Its amazing watching your kids grow. Some of my best memories are with my kids.

 

[Veronica]

:agree

I would never of changed anything in the world, but you do have those few people that regret having them so young.. I wish I was more prepared for them.. But, I made do w/ what I had and went from there. If she doesnt want to have the baby, ask her if you could just take it when it is born and she wouldnt have to worry about it..

 

[Sim]

Being a mother...do you honestly think she'd part with it if she went full term?

If she wants to terminate it, don't attempt to convince her otherwise...all that will do is fuel the fire for her to lie to you and say she isn't pregnant as she's on her way to the abortion clinic.

 

[AtlanticBlue99]

if she would lie about this situation, then she would be very immature, selfish, and unfit for an adult relationship. parenthood is about self-growth and maturity. with strength and willpower, anyone can make things work. when the time comes for me to have children, i will be there for them before they even arrive.

rusteh, if you are truly ready for children, do all you can to help her through the pregnancy and be with your girl too. nothing is worse than growing up in a broken home, so try and keep the family together. keeping it together is usually the man's responsibility, and i am sure you can do it.

keep us updated on the news and good luck

 

[Veronica]

i personally wouldnt be able to part w/ a child reguardless.. But it would be even harder (for me) to part with it at full term. But that is also up to the person..

Sim, its his decision too.. They both made it.. its BOTH their issue.. not just one.

 

[Rusteh]

Re: RE: A victim of my own beliefs...

rusteh, if you are truly ready for children, do all you can to help her through the pregnancy and be with your girl too. nothing is worse than growing up in a broken home, so try and keep the family together. keeping it together is usually the man's responsibility, and i am sure you can do it.

why me?


i impregnated somebody over the internet??....damn my words must be potent...

 

[Mrs Behavin]

:funnah :funnah :funnah :funnah I think he meant to say Ryum, but that was pretty funny.

 

[Rusteh]

careful mrs. b...if i can apprently get that girl...i'm coming for you next.