Girls are the most confusing thing on earth

girls don't have to be confusing, but many of them are. so when you kissed her at the diner, did you kiss her in front of her friends? maybe that's what bothered her. she probably wants to feel things out with you and doesn't really want to out herself as being in a relationship yet. I'm gonna guess either she's never been in a relationship or else she's been hurt many a time before, or at least very badly once. you need to sit down and have a conversation with her and ask her what she wants. let her know that you are confused, don't come off as hostile or angry, let her know that you just can't understand what she wants. if she's not able to tell you, reevaluating the situation might be the way to go. maybe she's not ready for the same kind of relationship you are, and its better to separate, give it time, and possibly let it go. if she can tell you what she wants, try it, and explain your expectations to her. if she really cares, and you really care, you'll both be able to work it out reasonably.
 
Haus said:
ive been backing off quite a bit. saying things like we''ll go out to eat and chill

then she responds "Chill eh"

but were going out to night. we'll have a good time im sure and then i may just give her a hug and a small kiss

her friend Bill is going through the same thing with this girl nicki. taking things slow. he's confused as well with his girl

he told me last night how things are going with me and katie and i told him "i thing very very good. i like her alot but were juust taking things slow right now.

he said hes doing the same thing with Nicki. then he said "slow and steady wins the race"

now im stressing out about Valentines day. not a freaking clue on what to do. i need suggestions
Click to expand...

#1. You haven't been together long enough to get her anything more than maybe some flowers (not roses) maybe a mixed bouquet and a cute card (not a mushy one). And that's IT.

#2. Going slow is one thing .. personally, imo, she was rather rude to you.
I wouldn't kiss her at all after this date. I might hug her, but I wouldn't even act like I was going to kiss her. She wants slow, take it slow .. like I said before .. if she's that adament about taking it "slow" .. then let her make the next move .. you've made yours.

Don't just keep putting yourself on the line everytime .. people will end up using you if you do that (sometimes even unintentionally), and you're way to nice/good looking to let something like that happen. :)
 
SRC said:
#1. You haven't been together long enough to get her anything more than maybe some flowers (not roses) maybe a mixed bouquet and a cute card (not a mushy one). And that's IT.

#2. Going slow is one thing .. personally, imo, she was rather rude to you.
I wouldn't kiss her at all after this date. I might hug her, but I wouldn't even act like I was going to kiss her. She wants slow, take it slow .. like I said before .. if she's that adament about taking it "slow" .. then let her make the next move .. you've made yours.

Don't just keep putting yourself on the line everytime .. people will end up using you if you do that (sometimes even unintentionally), and you're way to nice/good looking to let something like that happen. :)
Click to expand...

Yeah, I'm pretty much in agreement with that.

But considering the circumstances.......don't give her anything for Valentines Day. Nada....zilch.

Next time, don't kiss her. If anything...shake her hand.

That ought to make her go :smiley24: hmmmm
:D
 
Back
Top