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beachheathernj said:
i didnt say it was malicious... i just think you start trouble sometimes without even realizing you're doing it....

a certain person A told me they didnt like me when they first joined because of something you said... that's not fair to person B correct??
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Well, there's a difference in doing it with a malicious intent, and unknowingly doing it. I've never knowingly started a whole heap of trouble. I know what you're going to say; and the whole thing with Chris a long time ago, I knew it would upset him, but I never thought it'd get THAT far. I was upset because of ongoing shenanigans and was probably really tired so I was being irrational. If that makes my personality 'weird' or makes me 'insane' of any sort, then I think the rest of us are also the same way at some point.

Anyway, we'd said our peace and I privately apologized to him for saying the exact one thing that (I didn't know at the time) would set him off. All this while everyone else was still bringing it to me. At that point I was just fucking around because I didn't care anymore. I turned to debating it for the hell of it, while everyone else was taking it so seriously.

I'd like to take this opportunity to apologize for unintentionally doing that to you, a bit of sarcasm or a malign joke was probably taken the wrong way.
 
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TheOriginalJames said:
Well, there's a difference in doing it with a malicious intent, and unknowingly doing it. I've never knowingly started a whole heap of trouble. I know what you're going to say; and the whole thing with Chris a long time ago, I knew it would upset him, but I never thought it'd get THAT far. I was upset because of ongoing shenanigans and was probably really tired so I was being irrational. If that makes my personality 'weird' or makes me 'insane' of any sort, then I think the rest of us are also the same way at some point.

Anyway, we'd said our peace and I privately apologized to him for saying the exact one thing that (I didn't know at the time) would set him off. All this while everyone else was still bringing it to me. At that point I was just fucking around because I didn't care anymore. I turned to debating it for the hell of it, while everyone else was taking it so seriously.

I'd like to take this opportunity to apologize for unintentionally doing that to you, a bit of sarcasm or a malign joke was probably taken the wrong way.
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actually i have no idea what "thing" with chris you are referring to... but thats not what i meant...
 
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Id like to chime in here now I think I have sat quiet long enough now, I can say I know youve swayed my opinion about others, by what youve said about them to me, before I knew them James. And no dont ask me for examples, because Im not going to get into a pissing match with you about it
 
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James, i don't think you are to wierd. You are a very stubborn person who is very conifident in your own beliefs. I think you often fail to walk in other peoples shoes. I think you also tend to blow things out of proportion and dwell on things for to long. But i still think you are a good guy.
 
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This thread has been hijacked so badly. When James notices this, he will go ape-shit on you all. Then he will allow us to voice our opinions on him and tell him how we really feel. haha.
 
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BreakfastSurreal said:
weird isn't the right word james. but you are something. a bit of a dramallama i think. I'm being blunt here, no need to argue. Why? Well because you just can't take things as they are, and you tend to like to fight on principle, when you just need to learn to pick your battles. Things may not be 100% fair for you 100% of the time, but realize that each time you fight a meaningless battle over something petty, it decreases the chance that you will be treated fairly on here. Things add up, and make impressions on people.
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i really personally have no problem with you..but then again it takles alot ...or a little in certain areas..to seriously put me off..

im a very easy going kind of person..so weird to me is just another side of the dice :)
 
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