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Thats why we invented silencers and other quiet forms of homicide. You'll be fine. Trust me. : )
 
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im gonna chime in on this even though ive already let this go. youre mad cause people talk behind youre back, how does that justify you doing the same thing. like i said ive let this go and ive moved on, but if you ask me i think this is a prime example of the pot callin the kettle black
 
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DanTastic said:
im gonna chime in on this even though ive already let this go. youre mad cause people talk behind youre back, how does that justify you doing the same thing. like i said ive let this go and ive moved on, but if you ask me i think this is a prime example of the pot callin the kettle black
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when you have a problem with someone else, you focus on what that person did wrong. You think the problem would get better if the other person would change.
It is extremely rare that one person is all right and one person is all wrong. Honestly confront your own faults, even if you think you are only one percent wrong and the other person is ninety-nine percent wrong.
"Sure, I get angry, but it's only because of the fact that so and so was talking behind my back."


When you say this, you are excusing your own wrong doings by blaming them on the other person.
 
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BreakfastSurreal said:
when you have a problem with someone else, you focus on what that person did wrong. You think the problem would get better if the other person would change.
It is extremely rare that one person is all right and one person is all wrong. Honestly confront your own faults, even if you think you are only one percent wrong and the other person is ninety-nine percent wrong.
"Sure, I get angry, but it's only because of the fact that so and so was talking behind my back."


When you say this, you are excusing your own wrong doings by blaming them on the other person.
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I wish someone (besides me) would say this to my mother. It's suprising how many people behave this way. Seriously, it's weird.
 
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DanTastic said:
im gonna chime in on this even though ive already let this go. youre mad cause people talk behind youre back, how does that justify you doing the same thing. like i said ive let this go and ive moved on, but if you ask me i think this is a prime example of the pot callin the kettle black
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The difference is I don't make up things and tell newbies to not talk to someone because they're 'weird' or make up lies about others. Sure I talk behind peoples backs, but 90% of the time I do it's because I'm trying to find some information out, or trying to figure out what they meant by something said previously.

If that's a wrong doing, then we're all guilty - but that isn't the point of this.


BreakfastSurreal said:
when you have a problem with someone else, you focus on what that person did wrong. You think the problem would get better if the other person would change.
It is extremely rare that one person is all right and one person is all wrong. Honestly confront your own faults, even if you think you are only one percent wrong and the other person is ninety-nine percent wrong.
"Sure, I get angry, but it's only because of the fact that so and so was talking behind my back."


When you say this, you are excusing your own wrong doings by blaming them on the other person.
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In this specific example, I have no idea what I did wrong to be talked about like that, that's my entire point. I never excuse my own wrong doings and I've admitted to them.

I called myself stubborn, you make that out to be a bad trait, which I personally don't see HOW that is possible.

Someone had an opinion about me and went about spreading it to other people who don't know me, that is how a bad first impression is made. When someone receives a preconceived notion about someone else, that is how they will take that person. In this case, I talk about things that are going on in my life and I'm labeled as weird. I simply question this and I'm doing something wrong?

Sure, I talked about you previously and some of the things you've said to me, but I said no more than what has been posted on the board by you. Problems with friends you've lost touch with by choice, drugs, alcohol, etc. You've posted about all of it, and got mad at me when I told someone else about it. If you make it public information, I am not making up things behind your back like this person did about me.
 
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