Officially- marriage over

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OHHH...pink and make sure you have them paint on your avatar on the hood. That would look cool. That way he wouldnt want it back :)
 

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I appreciate the pm's received, it's been a difficult time of late. Some of you don't know me because I'm not around as much, but I still read from time to time. I think she's filing for divorce right now (she got pretty angry last night), she's not taking my calls. Can't say that I blame her. I'm sure I deserve much of the negative comments, though it's not fun to read. She's a wonderful woman, great mother, and was a phenominal wife. She's done nothing wrong. I hope we will have a wonderful relationship though everything, but I just don't know. She's pretty upset.
 

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I think she's filing for divorce right now (she got pretty angry last night), she's not taking my calls. Can't say that I blame her. I'm sure I deserve much of the negative comments, though it's not fun to read. She's a wonderful woman, great mother, and was a phenominal wife. She's done nothing wrong. I hope we will have a wonderful relationship though everything, but I just don't know. She's pretty upset.

I think she would have to be a pretty strong woman to be able to have any type of relationship after all this. I think its quite selfish of you to ask that of her, when you carelessly tossed her aside.
It takes guts to come on here and read things that arent so fun to hear. I respect that in you. I hope you dont have regrets after this decision, as I dont think there will be any turning back. Best of luck on your new life.
 

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I appreciate the pm's received, it's been a difficult time of late. Some of you don't know me because I'm not around as much, but I still read from time to time. I think she's filing for divorce right now (she got pretty angry last night), she's not taking my calls. Can't say that I blame her. I'm sure I deserve much of the negative comments, though it's not fun to read. She's a wonderful woman, great mother, and was a phenominal wife. She's done nothing wrong. I hope we will have a wonderful relationship though everything, but I just don't know. She's pretty upset.
you seem to know you fucked up , so why not try and do something about it. :confused
 

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More than likely because he doesnt want to be with V anymore??? He found someone else. I doubt there is much to go back to at this point. Trust is lost and thats hard to rebuild.
 

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Yes Homer, it is up to them, but he should not have posted on here, being her space, her forum etc. The fact he has posted means he wants a response - well he got one didn't he? He is not favoured over her by a long chalk.

She is entitled to have her say, he is not, let alone in the sly way he has done it, that is manipulative.

I have seen men like that over the years, trying to look the 'good guy'. It has happened to me too, even though they are the ones to have gone off with someone else behind my back. It happened a few times with one and a cpl of times with another. I know what they play at. I never went back after that and it was the best thing I could have done - I got my life back. In actual fact, I finally got a life full-stop.

No, they go off with someone else, they have to suffer the consequences in silence. It is only their doing that caused it.

It is so obvious what he is trying to do, especially by saying what he did about V as a wife. If that's so, why go off in the first place with someone she had trusted at that?

He is trying now, to get to her, knowing or feeling she is vulnerable right now.

That's such a low way to behave!
 

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Sorry ,Ria but I believe that Joe does have a right to post - this is a public forum & he is a member. Some people may not like him or what he has to say but he still has the right to say it.

I feel very sorry for both of them & their family but it is not up to us to castigate either of them for what I'm sure are very tough choices.

Allan
 

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I appreciate the pm's received, it's been a difficult time of late. Some of you don't know me because I'm not around as much, but I still read from time to time. I think she's filing for divorce right now (she got pretty angry last night), she's not taking my calls. Can't say that I blame her. I'm sure I deserve much of the negative comments, though it's not fun to read. She's a wonderful woman, great mother, and was a phenominal wife. She's done nothing wrong. I hope we will have a wonderful relationship though everything, but I just don't know. She's pretty upset.


umm...since you are the one with another woman, I dont think we will ever have a good relationship. And ya, you better believe I was pissed and will be for a while. Have a nice life with out us. I cant believe you would come on here and act all nice and shit after all you have done. You are truely a piece of work.
 

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Yes Homer, it is up to them, but he should not have posted on here, being her space, her forum etc. The fact he has posted means he wants a response - well he got one didn't he? He is not favoured over her by a long chalk.

She is entitled to have her say, he is not, let alone in the sly way he has done it, that is manipulative.

I have seen men like that over the years, trying to look the 'good guy'. It has happened to me too, even though they are the ones to have gone off with someone else behind my back. It happened a few times with one and a cpl of times with another. I know what they play at. I never went back after that and it was the best thing I could have done - I got my life back. In actual fact, I finally got a life full-stop.

No, they go off with someone else, they have to suffer the consequences in silence. It is only their doing that caused it.

It is so obvious what he is trying to do, especially by saying what he did about V as a wife. If that's so, why go off in the first place with someone she had trusted at that?

He is trying now, to get to her, knowing or feeling she is vulnerable right now.

That's such a low way to behave!

thanks for the support.. But this is Joes forum too. He made it in the first place, I just run it. He did tell me that Offtopicz is mine though and he wouldnt take it away. So just fyi, he isnt JUST a member, he is the owner/admin too.
 

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you seem to know you fucked up , so why not try and do something about it. :confused


He has made it clear that he doesnt want to be with me. He has no feelings for me, but he says he cares for me (whatever the fuck that means). There will be no getting back together. I was hoping it would happen, but after all that has happened now, I would never take him back. He has hurt me soo much that my great grandkids will probably be scarred. Im just glad that someone can go jump on their feet so well after they leave their wife and family like he did.
 

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It'll hit him the first time he sees you happy with another man.

As for the forum, if he said its yours as you just said then I think he should stop posting here if its going to keep hurting your feelings and leading to arguments. V if you decide to leave instead be sure to let the rest of us know so we can follow you.
 

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I wont leave. I promise. He said this is my site. I guess the reason he posted was because the thread was about him. I would of posted to if it was reversed. I just dont understand how he could say those "nice" things about me, but him still not have feelings for me or anything else.. Just doesnt make sense to me.
 

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Well I don't know him, but I'd guess he said them to save face so he can keep coming here and not have your mutual friends turn on him.

No easy answers in a situation like this, but I think it would be best if he stayed out for a little while, at least til the divorce is final and you have some degree of closure. Maybe in time things between you two will improve and co-existing here might work. You two are always going to be connected by those lil boys so he'll never be "out of your life" but posting here for a while is nothing he can't live without.
 
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