Officially- marriage over

[Darkstar]

Keep smiling, V....if you do that, even you will feel a bit brighter. *hug*

 

[Sam]

V... we are with you ... everythings gonna be fine

 

[IntruderLS1]

Have you guys talked at all? What has he said about it? Any indication as to why?

 

[SilentEyz]

Huh? I thought I already posted in here.

Your Strong, your a wonderful and beautiful Person, your kids love you and strive because of you. In the end results, Change can be good, be it by choice or forced upon us.

Angels watch over you, we just dont always see them. Best to you V.

 

[Veronica]

Have you guys talked at all? What has he said about it? Any indication as to why?

He told me that he was over me on monday and wanted me to pack his stuff. He wont talk to me anymore about stuff. When I try talking to him, he just walks out. I would do anything to get my marriage back, but I guess i need to face it that its over now and he will never come back to me.

 

[TheOriginalJames]

He told me that he was over me on monday and wanted me to pack his stuff. He wont talk to me anymore about stuff. When I try talking to him, he just walks out. I would do anything to get my marriage back, but I guess i need to face it that its over now and he will never come back to me.

wait... what?

He wants you to pack his shit for him?

Ok Veronica pack his shit in boxes, carry them into teh front yard and dump it.

Then call him and say "hey you're all packed, everythings in the garage come get it".

Then make him clean up his own shit. That would be fucked up, but not nearly as fucked up as what just happened.

 

[Darkstar]

Hes "over you"? You gotta be fucking kidding me. You've been married for 8 years? You dont just "get over" your family...thats just heartless.

 

[Veronica]

Well, I packed 95 % of his shit. He has to get the garage stuff since I aint touching that. lol But almost everything in the house thats his is packed, except for his clothes that are on hangers.

 

[Trance97]

Yes, it will take time, but something good will happen to you. I just know it, just be patient.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

He gave you no indication of why he doesnt want to be with you anymore? Theres got to be some reason behind it.

 

[GuesSAngel]

V. what you should do is unpack everything. EVERYTHING. If he wants his things, he's a big boy and can pack them himself. He shouldn't have made you pack those things for him. That's just stupid and heartless. If I were you I would unpack everything and throw it in the middle of the living room or something and tell him that the boxes are there and he can pack it himself. If you were the one moving out, do you think that he would be the one to pack your stuff?

I'm sure things will work out for you. Even though they seem like they don't now, everything always works out in the end.

 

[BreakfastSurreal]

agreed. hell if he wont talk to you, id hold his shit ransom until he at least agrees to sit down and have a few words. He owes you a major explaination. You dont just walk out on your wife and kids after 8 years with NO explaination whatsoever. Fuck that shit. If he won't at least talk to you, then that's where I'd start playing dirty and fuck his shit up.

 

[Jersey]

i agreee with clare totally... start playing dirty!



and umm.. are you staying at the house with his family.. and he moved??

 

[SilentEyz]

I understand there is a want and desire to play Dirty.. BUT

There are kids involved.. and that only makes it more difficult on them. And kids are Smart.. they will see who plays fair and who is cruel.. thier attitudes will reflect it.

 

[IntruderLS1]

Silent is good. Silent is wise.

 

[Veronica]

Im not gonna screw him over. I still love him reguardless. (which is sad)
yes, i live here w/ his mom and sister still and he was the one that moved out.
Luckily, I like them LOL

 

[Ria]

Revenge in any form, is only a short-term solution. Keeping yr dignity will prove just who is the decent one out of you both.

He has already shown to be undignified in the ignorance he has shown by not giving you the time of day to explain why he felt the urge to move out.

Where has he moved to?

Maybe he's feeling very embarrassed or guilty over his reasons for leaving and that could be why he hasn't explained to you as to why?

This has certainly happened for a reason though, for the better more than likely and you will find out soon enough - this is your time now, run it how you wish.

Take care - Ria

 

[alleycat]

I wouldnt really want to force a confrontation, because no matter what, it will be negative. I know I wouldnt want to be with someone who didnt want to be with me either. There are plenty of people out there that would be more than happy to have a beautiful intelligent woman like you by their side. Fuck him!

 

[Dodge_Sniper]

agreed. hell if he wont talk to you, id hold his shit ransom until he at least agrees to sit down and have a few words. He owes you a major explaination. You dont just walk out on your wife and kids after 8 years with NO explaination whatsoever. Fuck that shit. If he won't at least talk to you, then that's where I'd start playing dirty and fuck his shit up.

Sell his Mustang on Ebay for 50 cents!

 

[Trance97]

Sell his Mustang on Ebay for 50 cents!

I'll give you $0.45 for it. It's all I have in my pocket.