Baby #20 on the way!

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Abcinthia

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So kind of like the body saying it needs a rest?

Yes. Pregnancy and childbirth is hard on the body whether it's someone's first baby or their 20th and comes with risks and possible health problems (eg anemia).

She seems to get pregnant again pretty quickly after having a baby, so I would wonder if she is letting her body recover enough inbetween pregnancies and birth. Especially with C-Sections, but it also goes for vaginal births, women are advised to wait at least a 1-1.5 years (it varies from country to country but that seemed to be the lower estimates) before trying to conceive in order to allow the body time to recover fully from blood loss and the lost nutrients which result from pregnancy and childbirth. Getting pregnant earlier than one year shouldn't be a risk but continually getting pregnant without allowing a period of recovery might be, if you see what I mean. Multiple C-Sections can lead to scarring, depending on how the person heals and how the C-Section went, which can make future deliveries difficult.

Her age might be a factor too. Women over 35 are slightly more at risk of problems during pregnancy, such as premature birth; problems with the birth; or problems with the child, such as gentic abnormalities such as Down's Syndrome and Edward's Syndrome. Problems can happen regardless of age and many women over 35 have easy pregnacies, births and healthy children, but studies have shown that there is a slightly higher risk with older mothers with certain problems.
 
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Why do all their names begin with J?, it disturbs me greatly :smiley24:

It would have been a better idea to start with A and see if they could do the whole alphabet
 

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Why do all their names begin with J?, it disturbs me greatly :smiley24:

It would have been a better idea to start with A and see if they could do the whole alphabet

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I am hoping they get to name one* Jamiroquai
 

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That's not a good enough reason :thumbdown and what about the mother, is her initial not worthy of a child? They have enough of them, it's an outrage :ninja

Loads of people I know choose one letter for all their children because it is the first letter of the dad's name. Apparantly makes them a family if the dad and all the children have the same initials. The mother's name is the middle name of one of the girls. Jill I think.
 

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Loads of people I know choose one letter for all their children because it is the first letter of the dad's name. Apparantly makes them a family if the dad and all the children have the same initials. The mother's name is the middle name of one of the girls. Jill I think.

Sexist bastards :p actually a guy I work with has 2 kids and both have the same initial as him as their first name, it's not as noticeable with 2 kids though
 

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My boyfriend's brother and sister have the same name; hers with an 'a' on the end. I'd be like "I want my own name, dammit! I'm not sharing!"
 

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Sexist bastards :p actually a guy I work with has 2 kids and both have the same initial as him as their first name, it's not as noticeable with 2 kids though

It's not as bad as people who mix their names together to give the child an unique name. Imogen could have been Matie or Katthew if Zorak and I had gone down that route.
 

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It's not as bad as people who mix their names together to give the child an unique name. Imogen could have been Matie or Katthew if Zorak and I had gone down that route.

Yeah, I knew a girl called Alana and her and her b/f Darran had a daughter and they called her Dana(pro Dah-nah), which isn't too bad I suppose, since it is an actual name. lmao @ Matie and Katthew
 

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And let's not forget she's 45 years old and has had more and more trouble w/ each pregnancy.
 

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Women over 35 are slightly more at risk of problems during pregnancy, such as premature birth; problems with the birth; or problems with the child, such as gentic abnormalities such as Down's Syndrome and Edward's Syndrome. Problems can happen regardless of age and many women over 35 have easy pregnacies, births and healthy children, but studies have shown that there is a slightly higher risk with older mothers with certain problems.

I believe you are wrong. Complications don't increase slightly after age 35, they skyrocket.

Some women, for some unknown reason, feel that it is their duty to have children or if they don't, they are some how considered a failure. This woman here was IMO suffers from some kind of mental illness.

Personally, I would love to tell these "God fearing people" that this is God's way of saying "SHUTTER DOWN!!!"
 
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