Women who wear bikinis

[NoDak]

I have gathered that a goodly portion of our membership is somewhat young. That means that a certain youthful vigor is seen on the faces and in the stature of them. This is directed at you gals:

In some years, you will look in the mirror, one morning, and be agast at such things as crows' feet, a line or two in the brow, some saggage and baggage here and there. You will also be shocked to see strands of grey in your hair.

However, by then, you will have born and raised your kids or, at least, are well on your way to have them ready to leave the nest. This means that you will have spent sleepless nights with a fussy child. You will have worried about them when they went to school for the first time. You will have seen them grow and blossom into young adults. You will have suffered the jitters as they took the car keys for the first time and left the house for the evening. You will have bandaged many "owies", and tried to soothe troubled egos. You will have listened to their tales of being mistreated by fellow students, by teachers, and by the general populace of your community.

Those little "pouches", those lines, those grey hairs are badges of honor. Wear them proudly! Who gives a flying fuck if you're letting some of it show from under a bikini, or keeping it hidden beneath layers of clothing? If someone does, they do not deserve to be in your presence. You will have become a veteran. Just as veterans of military service deserve our admiration, respect, and honor, so will you.

Those "baby rolls" that some feel shouldn't be exposed are badges of months of carrying a child in your belly. Late nights, early mornings, and in between, changing diapers, feeding, rocking, nurturing, are the hidden stories those rolls tell. Flaunt 'em, Girls! You deserve to shine with pride!

 

[Roxi]

Wow. If you're offended by what I say when it wasn't directed at any of you then you need to unplug your computer and throw it out the fucking window LOL.

Dana do you not understand that the things you say even if they are not directed at anyone are hurtful and closed minded... Even if you did not mean to offend people here you apparently did so maybe you should suck it up and just say "sorry if i offended anyone it was not my intention to do so, even if i do feel the way i do in my OP it was not aimed at anyone here" instead of digging a deeper grave for yourself playing the cool kid on campus and acting like a jackass... just my 2cents...

and P.S yes I know this was not aimed at me however as someone about to have a baby in 4weeks it made me very sad that people make judgments and comments like that on here, guess I will not be posting post baby pics after all as I would not want to offend anyone now would I... Its hard enough beating yourself up about the weight you gain during pregnancy and worrying if your husband will love you the same don't need someone kicking dirt in my eyes either..

 

[GoldDust Woman]

If it weren't for pregnant women, Dana wouldn't be here sucking air, now would he. *Wonders how he'd feel if some man made these kinds of comments about his Mother*

Dana... maybe you should unplug your computer and go sit in the corner.

 

[Dana]

Dana do you not understand that the things you say even if they are not directed at anyone are hurtful and closed minded... Even if you did not mean to offend people here you apparently did so maybe you should suck it up and just say "sorry if i offended anyone it was not my intention to do so, even if i do feel the way i do in my OP it was not aimed at anyone here" instead of digging a deeper grave for yourself playing the cool kid on campus and acting like a jackass... just my 2cents...

and P.S yes I know this was not aimed at me however as someone about to have a baby in 4weeks it made me very sad that people make judgments and comments like that on here, guess I will not be posting post baby pics after all as I would not want to offend anyone now would I... Its hard enough beating yourself up about the weight you gain during pregnancy and worrying if your husband will love you the same don't need someone kicking dirt in my eyes either..

refer to me Dickhead thread

 

[Dana]

If it weren't for pregnant women, Dana wouldn't be here sucking air, now would he. *Wonders how he'd feel if some man made these kinds of comments about his Mother*

Dana... maybe you should unplug your computer and go sit in the corner.

Only if I get spanked with a ruler and get to wear a dunce cap

 

[Natasha]

I have gathered that a goodly portion of our membership is somewhat young. That means that a certain youthful vigor is seen on the faces and in the stature of them. This is directed at you gals:

In some years, you will look in the mirror, one morning, and be agast at such things as crows' feet, a line or two in the brow, some saggage and baggage here and there. You will also be shocked to see strands of grey in your hair.

However, by then, you will have born and raised your kids or, at least, are well on your way to have them ready to leave the nest. This means that you will have spent sleepless nights with a fussy child. You will have worried about them when they went to school for the first time. You will have seen them grow and blossom into young adults. You will have suffered the jitters as they took the car keys for the first time and left the house for the evening. You will have bandaged many "owies", and tried to soothe troubled egos. You will have listened to their tales of being mistreated by fellow students, by teachers, and by the general populace of your community.

Those little "pouches", those lines, those grey hairs are badges of honor. Wear them proudly! Who gives a flying fuck if you're letting some of it show from under a bikini, or keeping it hidden beneath layers of clothing? If someone does, they do not deserve to be in your presence. You will have become a veteran. Just as veterans of military service deserve our admiration, respect, and honor, so will you.

Those "baby rolls" that some feel shouldn't be exposed are badges of months of carrying a child in your belly. Late nights, early mornings, and in between, changing diapers, feeding, rocking, nurturing, are the hidden stories those rolls tell. Flaunt 'em, Girls! You deserve to shine with pride!

VERY well said. I deem it worthy of my new admin-level rep!!!

 

[Roxi]

refer to me Dickhead thread

Already seen it and unfortunately though I do not find it very sincere... Just away to make jokes about things you say sometimes and con people into thinking you are remorseful...

 

[Dana]

I have gathered that a goodly portion of our membership is somewhat young. That means that a certain youthful vigor is seen on the faces and in the stature of them. This is directed at you gals:

In some years, you will look in the mirror, one morning, and be agast at such things as crows' feet, a line or two in the brow, some saggage and baggage here and there. You will also be shocked to see strands of grey in your hair.

However, by then, you will have born and raised your kids or, at least, are well on your way to have them ready to leave the nest. This means that you will have spent sleepless nights with a fussy child. You will have worried about them when they went to school for the first time. You will have seen them grow and blossom into young adults. You will have suffered the jitters as they took the car keys for the first time and left the house for the evening. You will have bandaged many "owies", and tried to soothe troubled egos. You will have listened to their tales of being mistreated by fellow students, by teachers, and by the general populace of your community.

Those little "pouches", those lines, those grey hairs are badges of honor. Wear them proudly! Who gives a flying fuck if you're letting some of it show from under a bikini, or keeping it hidden beneath layers of clothing? If someone does, they do not deserve to be in your presence. You will have become a veteran. Just as veterans of military service deserve our admiration, respect, and honor, so will you.

Those "baby rolls" that some feel shouldn't be exposed are badges of months of carrying a child in your belly. Late nights, early mornings, and in between, changing diapers, feeding, rocking, nurturing, are the hidden stories those rolls tell. Flaunt 'em, Girls! You deserve to shine with pride!

My mom has spider veins, and wouldn't be caught dead in shorts, overweight and wouldn't dare put a swuimsuit on unless around family and dyes her hair bi monthly and has crows feet... She'll be 50 in August. I just turned 31. She still gets told she doesn't look 49 or could have a child my age.

 

[Dana]

I'm not sure where I was going with that I've been drinking rum.

 

[NoDak]

My mom has spider veins, and wouldn't be caught dead in shorts, overweight and wouldn't dare put a swuimsuit on unless around family and dyes her hair bi monthly and has crows feet... She'll be 50 in August. I just turned 31. She still gets told she doesn't look 49 or could have a child my age.

My mom is 79 hrs old. She keeps house for herself and Dad. She prides herself in her flowers and plants, cans a few quarts of pickles, does sewing and alterations, and is very active with church related stuff. She wouldn't have worn a bikini, even back when you would have seemed it appropriate, but, I digress. She came from farming background. She knows how to build a haystack, milk a cow, drive a tractor, he'll! She drove the UPS truck out of our yard when the driver got it stuck in the snow! In her prime, she'd have worked your ass into the ground, and made lunch before noon. After lunch, while you were whimpering about your tired muscles and sore back, she'd have been back on top of an alfalfa stack and had it stacked out before the next bicker full of hay came back in. She'd have come in, milked cows, and had supper non the table before six.
Yep! She looks her age, almost, but she EARNED every damned line and grey hair. She don't need to show her boobs or legs for the rest of us to know what she's made of.

 

[Dana]

My mom is 79 hrs old. She keeps house for herself and Dad. She prides herself in her flowers and plants, cans a few quarts of pickles, does sewing and alterations, and is very active with church related stuff. She wouldn't have worn a bikini, even back when you would have seemed it appropriate, but, I digress. She came from farming background. She knows how to build a haystack, milk a cow, drive a tractor, he'll! She drove the UPS truck out of our yard when the driver got it stuck in the snow! In her prime, she'd have worked your ass into the ground, and made lunch before noon. After lunch, while you were whimpering about your tired muscles and sore back, she'd have been back on top of an alfalfa stack and had it stacked out before the next bicker full of hay came back in. She'd have come in, milked cows, and had supper non the table before six.
Yep! She looks her age, almost, but she EARNED every damned line and grey hair. She don't need to show her boobs or legs for the rest of us to know what she's made of.

:24: my moms mans a UPS driver.. Sorry thought it was comical.

 

[Dana]

Ok just to clarify,, I hope that the few that I take the time to talk with on a personal basis know that this wasn't directed at anyone on here.

 

[Natasha]

Ok just to clarify,, I hope that the few that I take the time to talk with on a personal basis know that this wasn't directed at anyone on here.

You're still missing the point that it doesn't matter who it was directed to...IJS

 

[Roxi]

Ok just to clarify,, I hope that the few that I take the time to talk with on a personal basis know that this wasn't directed at anyone on here.

Jeese Dana your sheer ignorance amazes me.... lord forbid that you could act human to everyone for 2 freaking mins!!

 

[Codrus]

As long as Beth Ditto never gets into a bikini and goes out in public, it's all good.

That reminds me...

for a moment (untill i read further)...i thought you knew this woman's name

 

[pinkporridge]

Off topic but natasha... Wow!! Your looking great!!! I can't rep you on my phone!

 

[Keight]

that arent fat but look like they mighta just had a child... with that jiggy stomach and sucked in belly button... Ya that ain't attractive :ninja

So dont look, Its men like you that make women who have just had babies feel uncomfortable about wearing a bikini again for the first time. God forbid after carrying a life for 9 months any woman would want to offend you by not showing off their "jiggly bits" Just when i think its not possible dana you turn around and prove to me that you are very narrow minded indeed.

 

[Natasha]

Off topic but natasha... Wow!! Your looking great!!! I can't rep you on my phone!

Awww, thanks hon!!! On the original topic, I'm still a long way away from bikini ready, LOL

 

[StripedCat]

I haven't read all comments now, but @topic:

I really don't get it why some men think they can judge over not perfectly looking women, while they themselves aren't the purest feast for the eyes. (And no, this doesn't straightly refer to Dana, but to all men who think they can do such naff utterances about women which don't look perfect...)

Dana, you don't need to speak out loud every of your thoughts and tastes and preferences - that is what one calls 'tactfulness'.

And don't think that you somehow hit me with that topic: I am very slender and can afford to wear bikinis (though I don't know what it will be after having born a child). BUT I don't like such respectless attitudes towards others!

 

[AUFred]

I haven't read all comments now, but @topic:

I really don't get it why some men think they can judge over not perfectly looking women, while they themselves aren't the purest feast for the eyes. (And no, this doesn't straightly refer to Dana, but to all men who think they can do such naff utterances about women which don't look perfect...)

Dana, you don't need to speak out loud every of your thoughts and tastes and preferences - that is what one calls 'tactfulness'.

And don't think that you somehow hit me with that topic: I am very slender and can afford to wear bikinis (though I don't know what it will be after having born a child). BUT I don't like such respectless attitudes towards others!

Well said. I have commented to some of my beer bellied friends about judging how women look. When the women look back they are probably thinking things like..."Lay off the beer!"..."Ever heard of a sit-up?"...."Wow did you just eat a pig?"..."Do you really think you are attractive?"