When is it appropriate to get in a bar fight?

[Peter Parka]

i'd love to toughen you up dana

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[skyblue]

i use the neg rep to keep conflicts private and i don't do it very often. all three that i did that to on this thread expressed desires to do violence. all three have responded like infantile brats.

peter didn't ask me a question i couldn't answer. he was being his usual despicable self thinking he's cute. he's not.

i will not go deeper with any of you unless staff would like to drop the strictures of the TOS a little bit and we can go at it. otherwise, you all just go on with your de-evolutionary thought processes.

sometimes tommy.....violence is needed if only to put a bully in his place,and peters just that...peter,hes not cute but says things as he sees them

 

[Alien Allen]

Yeah Tommy that is the ticket

Sit back and let somebody assault ya and then let em think they will be able to do it again.

Janie if you could have got her outside I would have done that. Only difference is I would find a way to get her to swing first. Then it is all on her.

This is not a case of somebodys mouth running off but an actual assault.

 

[skyblue]

This is not a case of somebodys mouth running off but an actual assault.

exactly,a bruised tit should be a thing of passion:ninja

 

[Dana]

i'd love to toughen you up dana

I'm fine with the way I am.

 

[skyblue]

I'm fine with the way I am.

i'm on about controlled stuff

 

[Xeno]

I am 26 years old and I have never gotten in a drunk fight. I have yelled, but never thrown punches.

Last night I went to a friend's birthday event at a bar. I got a little tipsy.

There was a girl there I don't like AT ALL. She's done some bad things to my brother and she is a whore - literally

But seeing as it was my friend's birthday, I was nice and I gave this girl a hug hi when she asked for it, etc. You know - nice and no drama for my friend's birthday.

Well this girl - her name is Jamie - she was like talking shit about me - I could hear her. But I ignored her. She was just trying to get to me. I didn't want to give her the satisfaction.

Towards the end of the night she comes up to our table, points to a guy sitting across from me and yells "distraction." When we all look over, she reaches across the table, and grabs my breast and squeezes HARD. I have bruises now!

I didn't immediately react because I was in shock. But once I got out of it, and realized I actually hurt and sat there for a few minutes and saw her grin at me from the other table and continue to talk shit about me, I saw red.

My two guy friends had to escort me to my car and drive me home. And I mean they had to fight me to my car almost the whole way.

I wanted to hit her so bad.


My question is - assuming that in life everyone is allowed one bar fight. This would have been a good time for one right?

I do not condone the use of violence in any place unless you are defending yourself, the people you care about, or if it pertains to a "life or death" situation. There is never a reason to fight unless the situation exceeds from being verbal to physical and the other person would have to be the aggressor. Just my own thoughts as usual.

 

[skyblue]

I do not condone the use of violence in any place unless you are defending yourself, the people you care about, or if it pertains to a "life or death" situation. There is never a reason to fight unless the situation exceeds from being verbal to physical and the other person would have to be the aggressor. Just my own thoughts as usual.

controlled stuff

 

[Xeno]

controlled stuff

Well excuse me to Internet Hell...

:jk

 

[skyblue]

Well excuse me to Internet Hell...

:jk

its easy to break an arm.....but to control is preferable

 

[JanieDough]

did I mention she's my brother's ex girlfriend?

i just told my brother about it, and he's pissed. he's a few states away, but he's not gonna be happy if he sees her again

yay! I feel backed up

 

[Alien Allen]

next time you see her in a similar setting if you think you could whip her ass then smile and go up to her and whisper that if she ever pulls shit like that again you will kick her fucking ass.

I am disappointed though nobody here has yet to volunteere to massage the bruised boob. If nobody has done that yet locally I have some free time this week

 

[Zorak]

violence is the last refuge of the incompetent -- isaac asimov

You're a dickhead.

On the matter though, I believe no one should sit anywhere and be insulted and abused. You need to stand up for yourself.

 

[Alien Allen]

You're a dickhead.

On the matter though, I believe no one should sit anywhere and be insulted and abused. You need to stand up for yourself.

an insult is one thing but this was clearly an assault

I have taken more verbal shit in life than most and still do but never have let that get to me as far as a physical response. But I can tell ya if somebody assaulted a friend like this I would have gone ballistic.

 

[Zorak]

an insult is one thing but this was clearly an assault

I have taken more verbal shit in life than most and still do but never have let that get to me. But I can tell ya if somebody assaulted a friend like this I would have gone ballistic.

Sometimes the best time to hit someone is when they are busy insulting you, I know that quite well

 

[JoeCool10]

I would have fucked her up so bad she'd have needed hospitalization. I am extremely patient, but DO NOT FUCK WITH ME. Everyone knows this. I wish those two guys hadn't escorted you. I'd have loved to hear about your victory on that bitch.

 

[TommyTooter]

i just sent this to your foe:

sorry i missed your little cat fight. sounds like it was a hoot.

bad girls bad girls watcha gonna do when they come for you?
wadda wadda

happy day

peace

as i told you in the rep comment, be thankful for your friends. i never did have the pleasure to help dragging two women apart. it's always guys. i'm real grateful that my crowd doesn't even let it get to shouting before shutting it down and separating the antagonists.

 

[The Man]

When is it appropriate to get in a bar fight?

After 4 beers :ninja

But seriously...the thing to do would have been to go up and spit in her drink...if she went to attack you would be in the"right' for kicking some ass.

I prefer to stay on them until the sirens sound rather close

 

[Dame of Fail]

I am 26 years old and I have never gotten in a drunk fight. I have yelled, but never thrown punches.

Last night I went to a friend's birthday event at a bar. I got a little tipsy.

There was a girl there I don't like AT ALL. She's done some bad things to my brother and she is a whore - literally

But seeing as it was my friend's birthday, I was nice and I gave this girl a hug hi when she asked for it, etc. You know - nice and no drama for my friend's birthday.

Well this girl - her name is Jamie - she was like talking shit about me - I could hear her. But I ignored her. She was just trying to get to me. I didn't want to give her the satisfaction.

Towards the end of the night she comes up to our table, points to a guy sitting across from me and yells "distraction." When we all look over, she reaches across the table, and grabs my breast and squeezes HARD. I have bruises now!

I didn't immediately react because I was in shock. But once I got out of it, and realized I actually hurt and sat there for a few minutes and saw her grin at me from the other table and continue to talk shit about me, I saw red.

My two guy friends had to escort me to my car and drive me home. And I mean they had to fight me to my car almost the whole way.

I wanted to hit her so bad.


My question is - assuming that in life everyone is allowed one bar fight. This would have been a good time for one right?

When is it appropriate, you ask?

Physical bar fighting is never appropriate; it's a place where you go to unwind, have a good time with your friends, etc. Unfortuntely, there's usually always some twat there looking for some trouble whether they've had too much to drink or not.

My advice to you is: try and use your mouth to stand up for yourself, first, even when someone approaches you in an agressive, physical way and then walk away from the situation.

I would only use a physical approach as a last resort in defending myself.

 

[Peter Parka]

violence is the last refuge of the incompetent -- isaac asimov

You know, from someone who was on this forum last night threatening people with their bouncer mates if they dared show their face in a club you frequent, this is fucking hilarious!:24: