lose trust? i found out there was no Santa Claus when a friend video taped his mom leaving presents under the tree. I never lost trust in my mother. That's ridiculous. I wasn't even upset over it.Personally I dont believe in lying to children, especially pointless lies which the're going to find out the truth about anyway and lose trust in you. I'd rather kids know that a real person who loves them bought them their presents, not thanking some mythical beardy twat.