I disagree with this "her body, her choice" BS in this scenario because this involves a relationship. If she was a single woman wanting to enhance her looks to attract attention, then fine. Why is a married woman looking to get implants when the man she married isn't a boob guy? Is she not getting enough attention or affection from you? Is she fishing for compliments from others? This is something that needs to be thoroughly discussed in a relationship. Any major purchase should be planned and discussed between spouses or significant others.
I've known married women who have gotten implants and tummy tucks only to quickly divorce their husbands and flaunt their new bodies. Cosmetic surgery can be a tremendous improvement for burn victims or crash victims or those who have needed reconstructive surgery because of cancer or disease. Celebrities go under the knife to keep job offers rolling in. The rest of the population gets it for attention or self-confidence. I'm sorry but if your self-confidence is found in any other organ other than your brain, then you don't need implants. You need therapy.
Would it be ok with your wife if you withdrew 10 grand and got some tattoos and a motorcycle? It's your money, your choice, right?? Strong relationships have disagreements, but if there's no compromise before a big decision is made, then I question the strength of the relationship. This is a matter for both husband and wife. I don't believe implants in this scenario will solve a thing and I agree that you should be uncomfortable with her feeling that she needs them.
agreed! :thumbup
if a woman is married and getting implants, they AINT for her husband! unless they're in agreement with the decision together, which is weird in itself. if he's encouraging it, and she doesn't think so, that's yet another issue. what the hell is wrong with people, why must their motivation, self worth, confidence, etc come from anything outside their own mind and heart?
and why do people on here have to include their damn bra size when they have an opinion about the matter? it's irrelevant. thank you to you, Mr. Train, for not forcing us to visualize your chest or your significant other's chest when stating your stand on the matter, i may have had to stab out my mind's eye