Is going to a strip club cheating?

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lauryn tom

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Nope. As long as the only thing they do there is watch. No touch! And better inform your partner that you're heading out at the Strip Cluub
 
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And if he ever did, you wouldn't want to be with him.
(In Canada) strippers are pretty gross chicks.
I worked at a strip club many many many years ago...DJing...and at first I thought it was gonna be cool...then i learned what kinda gals these "ladies" (I use that term loosely) are...that's the sort of stuff STDs are made of.
It's not cheating. it's no different then a regular club.
Now if he had gotten lap dances, well that another arena altogether :p
But I hear American strip clubs are much tamer then Canadian strip clubs, dunno how much truth there is in that though.
Canadian strip clubs are full nude. Americans are partially clothed?

And to be on topic, its not cheating if you ask me.
No different then seeing a naked woman in an R rated movie.


True, Generalizing wasn't fair. Again as I have no idea of the differences of American and Canadian strip clubs.
but the ones I worked around..(American and Canadian) were pretty harsh.
I don't mean "gross" by how they looked, they were very pretty girls, but dumber then stumps and willing to do anything for the white powdah.
(Mods edit this post if there is inappropriate content in the last sentence)
But a night out with the boys getting their drink on at the strip club isn't cheating imo.


You're right, it's not cheating by going to a strip club...however I think he should have mentioned something about going...I mean why hide it?

As for the girls that work there, you go to a shit hole place and you'll get shit hole girls. You go to a classy place or a better run establishment and you'll get classier girls. Not all strippers have STDs, not all strippers are "dumber then stumps", not all strippers are doing drugs, and not all strippers are whores. I'm sorry that you had to work in the clubs that you did...at least at the american clubs if they were that bad. There are a lot of skank holes out there...i like to avoid those lol
 

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No its not cheating, its just a bit of harmless entertainment, no different to looking at porn. A man is far less likely to cheat on you at a strip club than any other kind of bar because the girls are off limits. Try and touch them and a couple of big bouncers throw you out and give you a good kick in.

Spiderman is talking from experience it seems.:clap
 

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Never been to one and never had any interest to do so.

You know, I'm pretty damn tight with my money so I figure I'm no great loss to the strippers!!
 

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p.s. I've said it before in another thread on this subject. I don't think it's cheating. Especially when I'm sitting right next to him:cool

If you can't trust your man in a strip club, he ain't worth having a relationship with. Period.:nod:
 
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I have no problems with the guy I'm dating wanting to go to a strip club. I know he's smart enough to not try and go home with one of them. Plus I'd probably be at the same one with him, but playing pool in the other half of the bar. Our strip club around here is a great laid back bar. He can go sit on sniffers row and I'll hit some balls around lol.
 

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After reading some of what you girls posted in this thread, let me fill you in on a few facts.

If you are a guy and you want to get a girls phone number or go home with her, then you don't go to a strip club. It just doesn't happen unless he is a regular, meaning he is in there several times a week for weeks on end. You are more likely to get a girls number while shopping at the super market than at a strip club. The girls at strip clubs see hundreds of guys every day, what makes you think out of all those customers, some with huge wads of cash in hand, would they want your man?

I just find it funny whenever I hear girls make this argument. It's a complete and bogus one. If your man is going to meet a girl and cheat on you, it's not going to happen at the local strip club. As a matter of fact, if you want to make sure your man stays faithful, send him to the strip club where the bouncers will do a much better job than you ever will when it comes to him keeping his hands to himself. :24:
 

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After reading some of what you girls posted in this thread, let me fill you in on a few facts.

If you are a guy and you want to get a girls phone number or go home with her, then you don't go to a strip club. It just doesn't happen unless he is a regular, meaning he is in there several times a week for weeks on end. You are more likely to get a girls number while shopping at the super market than at a strip club. The girls at strip clubs see hundreds of guys every day, what makes you think out of all those customers, some with huge wads of cash in hand, would they want your man?

I just find it funny whenever I hear girls make this argument. It's a complete and bogus one. If your man is going to meet a girl and cheat on you, it's not going to happen at the local strip club. As a matter of fact, if you want to make sure your man stays faithful, send him to the strip club where the bouncers will do a much better job than you ever will when it comes to him keeping his hands to himself. :24:

Maybe where you are from, but around here's it's really not that unheard of for guys to go pick up a stripper at our ONE strip club. Most are locals so they know a bunch of people from around here anyways. Really it's not a silly argument.

What is silly is to even worry about it because if he's happy then he wouldn't go out and do it in the first place...if he's not then why are they together...simply IMO.
 

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Maybe where you are from, but around here's it's really not that unheard of for guys to go pick up a stripper at our ONE strip club. Most are locals so they know a bunch of people from around here anyways. Really it's not a silly argument.

What is silly is to even worry about it because if he's happy then he wouldn't go out and do it in the first place...if he's not then why are they together...simply IMO.

You are absolutely right, it all comes down to the relationship at hand. If you trust your partner, then a trip or two to the local strip joint shouldn't matter.

And if the strippers are going home with customers.... then I would argue that it's more a brothel than a strip club. I'm talking more to the average gentleman's club, a more respectable place.

and please don't think my post was directed towards you. It wasn't... I wanted to make this post earlier.
 
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