Yeah, men are wired differently to us.
With how you are feeling though, you were looking for that 'pick me up', something nice to lift you.
He just doesn't seem aware of yr feelings right now at all.
That was cruel suggesting you got pregnant just so's he wld stay with you and he seems to be very insensitive towards you in general, so that is not going to help you feel better in yourself.
Did you go see your Dr yet? I really think that will help, cos being far from 'stupid', you will see that yourself too, that you are not, once you have had the support you really need right now. Your body still hasn't adjusted from the baby etc by the sound of things, plus there's been those times you have had since, where he has caused you upsets. That is all adding to how you feel anyway, causing it to build up more and more.
You are entitled to a decent conversation about what's on your mind. Why should you be made to feel stupid and worthless when he is the one with the couldn't care less attitude?
The fact that this is something that means a lot to you and it seems he isn't bothering, makes you come out of this the decent one Kat.
Only people who bother are the ones who deserve the respect - that person is you right now.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you or how you are. You have to remember all the time, that you are a lovely, kind person and with the attitude he has, it isn't even worth being dignified.
You take care and start doing what you want, start putting you first. Go to see yr dr, chat to him first and after a while, gradually, things will start to feel better for you in yourself. You will of course need to go out a bit too, that'll help you too. Then you will see more clearly that you are a good person and lovely with it.
You will get through this, you just need to decide what you will tolerate and won't tolerate anymore. Give yourself back that control, as far as what you want and what you do.
