Women Who Moan About Their Appearance

[Peter Parka]

Surely the biggest turn off I've come across and really annoying. Either do something about it or shut up and make the most of what you're got. Look at the blokes you fancy, their hardly super models either! It's also really insulting if you complement a woman on her looks and they respond with "no I'm not, this, that or the other is horrible about me." It's basically accusing you of lying. Honestly, how do these women ever expect to find a man who loves them and respects them if they cant even love and respect themself?
*rant over*

 

[Springsteen]

Very well said.

The other thing that gets me, like on Facebook, girls put pictures up and caption it "I'm ugly", then you have people saying otherwise. I ought to say once "yeah you're an ugly cunt, well spotted".

 

[Niamh]

lmao, I always moan about my appearance to my hubby, it's his job to make me feel better!!

 

[Pumpkin]

Very well said.

The other thing that gets me, like on Facebook, girls put pictures up and caption it "I'm ugly", then you have people saying otherwise. I ought to say once "yeah you're an ugly cunt, well spotted".

Lol what the hell, I can't believe people actually do that!
You should totally comment that :24:

 

[HK]

I think the odd moan between partners is totally fine, I just hate the people like Springsteen said, who put pictures on facebook or update their status looking for attention. It's so incredibly transparent. I never, ever comment on anyone who does that shit because I'm not giving them another little nugget of attention to store up and eat in the cold winter months. Crazy bitches.

 

[sexysadie]

Donna " Honey, do these pants make my ass look big?"

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[Niamh]

I think the odd moan between partners is totally fine, I just hate the people like Springsteen said, who put pictures on facebook or update their status looking for attention. It's so incredibly transparent. I never, ever comment on anyone who does that shit because I'm not giving them another little nugget of attention to store up and eat in the cold winter months. Crazy bitches.

yeah that is a bit sad alright:thumbdown

 

[KimmyCharmeleon]

I genuinely get self-conscious days, and sometimes I post it as a status update on Facebook, not expecting anything. I just like to release. And then there's Eddy who always reassures me that I'm human. He always tells me how beautiful I am, but sometimes I say I'm not, just to muck around

 

[freakofnature]

If I say I'm ugly it's usually to get a laugh. I'm secure enough about how I look to be able to say that I'm ugly every now and then. But yeah, it's super annoying when people do it just to fish for compliments. :thumbdown Peter said it, if you can't love yourself how can you expect someone else to?

 

[Dame of Fail]

Surely the biggest turn off I've come across and really annoying. Either do something about it or shut up and make the most of what you're got. Look at the blokes you fancy, their hardly super models either! It's also really insulting if you complement a woman on her looks and they respond with "no I'm not, this, that or the other is horrible about me." It's basically accusing you of lying. Honestly, how do these women ever expect to find a man who loves them and respects them if they cant even love and respect themself?
*rant over*

You know what, now that I think about it, I don't think I've ever asked any boyfriend or my husband if I look fat in something; I've asked them for their opinion on an outfit from time to time but that's about it.

I don't know many women who don't have at least one complaint about their looks. I've got a couple issues, one or two that I can't do anything about unless I do something drastic like surgery; other than that, I'm comfortable in my own skin, but, it took me a long time to feel this way about myself, and genuinely accept compliments I received took me a long time, too - maybe that's just something that comes with age?

 

[Boomer]

You know, some folks dont know how to take a compliment. Which can be frustrating. Especially when you genuinely find a woman attractive the way she is and she just cant seem to muster up the ability to give a smile and a thank you. That shit does get old. Pitty pitty poor me. I was reaaaaaaaaally down about my looks. I had horrible self esteem. I never complained to people about it cause I didnt want to talk about it. I never had trouble taking compliments cause I never really got any. So if I did back in that time, I'd take that fucker and run with it. So when someone cant take a compliment I see it as them fishing for more. As them wanting you to basically line out exactly why you think they're pretty and boost them more. That shit, is infuriating. lol

"I have never seen a wild thing feel sorry for itself. A little bird will fall dead, frozen from a bough, without ever having felt sorry for itself."-D.H.Lawrence

 

[HottyToddyChick]

I think some of it is a part of growing up. I can understand younger girls doing the whole, "Oh, no I'm not pretty" thing. But as a woman ages, I would hope she builds up her confidence. Not really sure where, but I saw someone say that not accepting a compliment is a turn off, so when I get one, I smile, say thank you, and move on, even if I don't agree. It's rude to fling compliments back, and then it makes it look like you're fishing for more compliments. Which is infuriating to watch.

 

[Dana]

It does annoy me esp. when they ARE pretty... I've learned to choke on my words when it comes to compliments at times. I've had some women that only a mother could love ask me if they were pretty and too boost their confidence, i've said yes.... Ohh boy... Then they think you're attracted to them. If you're generally beautiful and I think so I will tell you as I have recently with a certain member.

 

[purpledove]

Surely the biggest turn off I've come across and really annoying. Either do something about it or shut up and make the most of what you're got. Look at the blokes you fancy, their hardly super models either! It's also really insulting if you complement a woman on her looks and they respond with "no I'm not, this, that or the other is horrible about me." It's basically accusing you of lying. Honestly, how do these women ever expect to find a man who loves them and respects them if they cant even love and respect themself?
*rant over*

I totally agree with you on all points here :thumbup

An exception tho' to that highlighted phrase ^^^: It can also be a cultural thing. Most Asians, they were taught not to be proud of themselves. More of a humility thing as part of their culture. So it shouldn't be misconstrued as having the low self esteem as that's how they are raised.

Those who migrate to foreign lands however, they learn to adapt and say thank you when given a compliment but not all.....

I think the odd moan between partners is totally fine, I just hate the people like Springsteen said, who put pictures on facebook or update their status looking for attention. It's so incredibly transparent. I never, ever comment on anyone who does that shit because I'm not giving them another little nugget of attention to store up and eat in the cold winter months. Crazy bitches.

I totally agree with you on this. And it tends to be quite obvious too that it's an attention seeking technique. I think this boils down to having low self esteem and one's inability to accept how they look like

I guess that's why plastic surgery became so popular :eek

 

[AstriaPorta]

not everyone does it to get compliments back

and people saying hate this people then there is much worse then that

people say how good someone look while waiting a person to turn their back to have a laugh or just saying to look like a good friend..

and no i do not trust all the compliments and i do not accept a lot if i am 100 present sure are not real

 

[brieze]

Very well said.

The other thing that gets me, like on Facebook, girls put pictures up and caption it "I'm ugly", then you have people saying otherwise. I ought to say once "yeah you're an ugly cunt, well spotted".

I did that once lol. Different words but same meaning. That crap annoys me to no end too. If you really thought it was a bad picture, it wouldn't be your profile picture. But anyway, the girl completely missed the point and was like "lol Bri, good one!'

 

[Keight]

I dont have a problem with my appearance... i beleive im attractive enough. I cant however take a compliment LOL i honestly dont know what to say i get all weird and saying thank you seems a little off centred to me.

 

[JoeCool10]

I'll send a picture to a man and when he says "you look beautiful" I'll reply "nah" or something along those lines in more of a coy, flirtatious manner. I always thank people when they compliment my looks, but there are also times where I notice my flaws in something. Like in the Member Picture Thread, I posted underneath "I need to hit the gym to lose my belly lol". It wasn't for attention, and I wasn't expecting any "no you're perfect the way you are" comments. Merely a comment. What does bother me though is when a man (creepy or not) gives a woman a genuine comment and she takes it as him being rude or a dick and then just ignores him or says something rude. That happens A LOT here in Miami.

 

[hart]

Joe, frankly Miami is rather an odd city

 

[JoeCool10]

Joe, frankly Miami is rather an odd city

Yeah, which is why I hate it.:24: