As per the title?
I haven't been well for a while now. I have literally been bedbound for over 5 months and in that time my sister and one of my brothers have been real bitches. Given that 6 months from now covers Christmas & New Year, plus the fact I was in hospital for an op just before Christmas to try to save me from being permanently paralysed in one leg, am I expecting too much from them to have called me to ask how I am? to have sent me a card for maybe Christmas, or my birthday or even a get well card?
My sister hasn't even so much as spoken to me and I have had at most 6 text messages from her in that time. 3 of them arranging to visit me last Sunday which she then cancelled 10 minutes before she was due to be here and well, put bluntly it takes more than an hour to drive from her home to mine, so she would have known for some time that she wasn't coming, and if the excuse she gave (her boyfriend was ill) was genuine then she would have known from that morning that she wasn't coming. She didn't even so much as ring me!
Am I expecting too much from my sister?
I have had more contact from my in-laws including the really weird one... there is always one isn't there!
Should I be the one doing the "Hi I'm really ill, please come and see me" calls or should they?
I haven't been well for a while now. I have literally been bedbound for over 5 months and in that time my sister and one of my brothers have been real bitches. Given that 6 months from now covers Christmas & New Year, plus the fact I was in hospital for an op just before Christmas to try to save me from being permanently paralysed in one leg, am I expecting too much from them to have called me to ask how I am? to have sent me a card for maybe Christmas, or my birthday or even a get well card?
My sister hasn't even so much as spoken to me and I have had at most 6 text messages from her in that time. 3 of them arranging to visit me last Sunday which she then cancelled 10 minutes before she was due to be here and well, put bluntly it takes more than an hour to drive from her home to mine, so she would have known for some time that she wasn't coming, and if the excuse she gave (her boyfriend was ill) was genuine then she would have known from that morning that she wasn't coming. She didn't even so much as ring me!
Am I expecting too much from my sister?
I have had more contact from my in-laws including the really weird one... there is always one isn't there!
Should I be the one doing the "Hi I'm really ill, please come and see me" calls or should they?