it's a combination of the two based on the situtation and the company i keep. the mind calculates the situation and gives me options then my heart helps me decide what options i want to take then my mind confirms based on whether or not it will effect anybody else in a positive or negative way.
My mind, because of my conscious. My heart, in my mind, rules, but not so much in reality. Too much hurt caused by my heart trying to think with logic; not that easy to do!!
I'm far to much of a logic-monger to be ruled totally by my heart. I mean it's not as if I don't have feelings or emotion, but I tend to think in a more logical fashion.
Honestly...I am ruled by my heart......I know people that are ruled by the brain and I dont envy them....I envy the people that can find a medium between the brain and heart.