When does it stop hurting so much?

[moonshot]

Go see a counsellor if you find it hard.

I'll be just fine in time. And trust me that I'd have no issues with talking to one. That's because I used to be one.

 

[moonshot]

I really dont think there is anything wrong with a man crying about a relationship that didnt work, you were with her for 2 years and obviously had deep feelings for her and are hurt by the fact that all that youve hoped for and planned for in the future with this person has now come to an end. The advice to stay away is right though, it only makes it harder, there are going to be many times that you forget the reason why you left, and focus on only the good things about that relationship that were. That is normal, but remember those are just memories and the sad thing is its not reality. Good luck, breaking up sucks Im also going throug the same thing unfortunatly its on a larger scale than you. Im here if you ever want to shoot me a pm and talk.
Hang out here, these are a great bunch of people who willl support you when you need it, and give you something to occupy your time when you are feelng down.

*gives you a hug too and wishes you happiness*

 

[moonshot]

It should have been a hint to you about breaking up with her in the first place.

If she constantly lied to you, you did yourself a favor by getting rid of her ass.

It's a damn good thing I didn't propose to her. Like I was going to...before that last lie pissed me off.

 

[moonshot]

I cry while during movies dood. There you go, now we are pansies together.:tongue:

*bonds with you*

 

[moonshot]

*enters the Cynical*


Wounds dont always heal, But they can get easier to live with, Time does heal in the Sense that everyday does get a little easier to accept, For some people it can be weeks, for some it can be months, and for some, years, You cant force yourself to stop hurting and stop feeling.

But there does come a day when you will be able to think of her, and realize the pain of doing so, is not as bad as it was the day before, and that is the beginning.

Hopefully for you there will be other women in your life, but only you will be able to decide how far you want to take each relationship, and when your pain is buried deep enough, then you will move forward as though that part of you meant very little. ( even though its not true)

Honestly, Be patient and take everyday forward, Dont try to force your pain away, it never works and it only comes back harder, Just know that one day.. soon or far, It will be easier.

Don't worry, I wallowed in it last night and wrote a piece on my piano that would have depressed Mozart.

 

[Magic P]

I'll be just fine in time. And trust me that I'd have no issues with talking to one. That's because I used to be one.

Oh you were a counsellor? :cheerleader: :cheerleader: :cheerleader: That's what I wanna be in the future, but doing grad studies is a bitch. *cry*

 

[moonshot]

Oh you were a counsellor? :cheerleader: :cheerleader: :cheerleader: That's what I wanna be in the future, but doing grad studies is a bitch. *cry*

I specialized in working with survivors of sexual abuse and sexual assault and burned out quickly. And you're right...it was a bitch especially if you end up being a photographer in the end!

 

[Magic P]

I specialized in working with survivors of sexual abuse and sexual assault and burned out quickly. And you're right...it was a bitch especially if you end up being a photographer in the end!

R u a photographer now? Gosh we are so alike. I wanna do something like that but I already spent so much of my parents money pursuing to be a psychologist and I already got a degree and on my way to get a Master Degree. sigh, why can't people realise what they want before involving money and time in it to find out?

 

[moonshot]

R u a photographer now? Gosh we are so alike. I wanna do something like that but I already spent so much of my parents money pursuing to be a psychologist and I already got a degree and on my way to get a Master Degree. sigh, why can't people realise what they want before involving money and time in it to find out?

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