What makes it work?

[TheRook]

I think that if people stopped bullshitting eachother and themselves and find what they need, not what they want to portray (arm candy....although Im not above a lil bit of the arm candy every now and again) then we all would be happy. Most people have an idea of what they want their life to be and try thier hardest to adjust the world around them. Thats fine but I think most people dont know what they want. I kinda float thru it always making sure to pay attention to what makes me and the people around me feel good

 

[Sim]

James and I were having a similar discussion last night...

He said something about how I didn't have Franklyn trained very well, and I responded with, "I fell for him 'as is', not 'as could be'."

But it's truth. I love him dearly for that reason...he won't change for me, and will always be himself.

 

[UncleBacon]

all you need is 3 simple things to make a relationship work
love
trust
honesty
everything else works itself out on its own but without any of those 3 I've never seen a relationship last

 

[hhayes]

well said there, bacon

 

[UncleBacon]

a buttload of money helps too...haha j/k....I know a thing or 2 about the subject

 

[hhayes]

yeah well that never hurts

 

[Tazzy]

Re: RE: What makes it work?

I think that if people stopped bullshitting eachother and themselves and find what they need, not what they want to portray (arm candy....although Im not above a lil bit of the arm candy every now and again) then we all would be happy. Most people have an idea of what they want their life to be and try thier hardest to adjust the world around them. Thats fine but I think most people dont know what they want. I kinda float thru it always making sure to pay attention to what makes me and the people around me feel good

Wow i like that ... That is a seriously cool thought .... :rock :rock

 

[UncleBacon]

good sex is a plus too

 

[TheOriginalJames]

Re: RE: What makes it work?

James and I were having a similar discussion last night...

He said something about how I didn't have Franklyn trained very well, and I responded with, "I fell for him 'as is', not 'as could be'."

But it's truth. I love him dearly for that reason...he won't change for me, and will always be himself.

It's true.

 

[Sim]

lmao

Agreeing just to add to your post count once again, I see...

I don't want to think about the amount of people who have been after me just for my money. It happened the first few times around...and these days, I just enjoy spoiling those around me. Can't take it with ya, after all. *smiles*

 

[hhayes]

i've had that situation a couple times myself, but i like to call them the good for nothin sorry asses. hehe.

 

[Sim]

:funnah Yeah. Some of them are. Some are simply misguided.

 

[Kungfu]

I would have to say that I also have been in the situation a few times where a girl was with me to get some money out of me....and she did not suceed unless you count dinner and clubbing.....Of course it would have been a lil different if those girls were my GF!...

 

[Veronica]

men will never change for the female. Its stupid for a chick to try to change them.. I have tried and was unsucessful! lol

 

[Kungfu]

I think I am going to faint...I thought I would never hear a woman say or admit that!

 

[hhayes]

well kung, some just tell it like it is

 

[Kungfu]

some do, though it is new to my ears!

 

[UncleBacon]

I had a broad that I was dating for about 6 months and it turned out she was just looking for a meal ticket out of Norfolk....kicked to the curb

 

[hhayes]

what a biotch

 

[UncleBacon]

needless to say I'm not quick to jump into relationships anymore...that wasn't the only bad one but anyway...