What is the 1 thing that u fear the most?

[andcuriouser]

Marsupials scare me. And Emo's.

I have this one friend who is the most adorable thing in the world, and everyone tells her that she looks vaguely like a marsupial. I guess you wouldn't like her! :tongue:

My greatest fear? Probably losing the people I love: Matt, my sister, my dad, Charlotte, my godchildren, my friends.

 

[Crazy Legs!]

Three things man fears:

- Pain

- Death

- Judgment/embarrassment

Your pesonal fears probably fall into these categories. What do I fear? Nothing. When It all comes down to it, death is the worst possible thing that can happen to you. That's why I don't fear.

 

[sharpies]

Marsupials scare me

Come to Australia. There raelly is nothing to fear from a Marsupial. Most of them are cute & cuddly - all the deadly ones were probably killed off by the Koori people a long time ago.

For a while there I was really worried about not living long enough to see my daughter turn 21. I have manged to do that & now I want to watch her succeed in life, if that means marriage & kids, then so be it, if it doesn't then that's fine too.

Allan

 

[TheOriginalJames]

drowning.

 

[Sa\/en]

I have a fear of large aquatic animals

 

[TheOriginalJames]

all of them?

 

[Sa\/en]

all of them?

almost all. Even animals from the ocean. Whales freak the shit out of me!

 

[TheOriginalJames]

haha why?

 

[Sa\/en]

haha why?

I don’t know, even when I was young I avoided the sea. I even freak out if I’m flying over the sea.

 

[GuesSAngel]

I fear the ocean...I can't even swim in it without crying like a baby

 

[Kat]

the one thing i fear the most...hmmm...such a truly hard question...when life is so full of fear...and confusion...Its hard to pick out which is the biggest fear.

I guess I'd have to go with my biggest fear is always doubting...doubting myself...doubting my relationship...doubting my abilities...the fear is that I'll never move past it...never be able to live free of it. ...and therefor always be afraid...and never able to live my life fully

I havent gotten past it yet...and I'm seriously not sure how to go about that. All I can do is take it one day at a time...keep learning...keep trying...keep picking myself up from every fall and trying again.

Like i said...there are so many things I fear...but when it all comes down to it...all my fears are because i have a hard time trusting...a hard time believing...i always doubt...and i know even with the happy times...theres always that little piece that even doubts that.

(dont know if that makes any sense...maybe some people understand what I mean)

 

[Sam]

Kat appreciate your response !!!

 

[elluko]

Im scared of stalkers...

 

[The_Rooks_Revenge]

One of these CRAZY ass things happening and me not being prepared.....Tsunami, earthquake, tornado, the dead rising...lol anything....if I cant take care of the people I luv then Ima failure....The most important thing I guess is if I am put in the position to HAVE to take care of the people I love and not being able to do it.

 

[The_Rooks_Revenge]

I just read Kats reply and I agree with her/him....she said...."my biggest fear is always doubting...doubting myself...doubting my relationship...doubting my abilities..." I would say that my biggest fear is the doubt the I will be able to protect the people that I love at the drop of a hat. I have the tools....the mindset.... and the ability to protect the ones that I love....yet a huge fear of mine is that I wont be able to do it.

 

[SnapeIsNotEvil!!!]

My worst fear in the whole world is being lonely and living my life alone.

I've never actually gotten over that fear to be completely honest...

 

[Ria]

the one thing i fear the most...hmmm...such a truly hard question...when life is so full of fear...and confusion...Its hard to pick out which is the biggest fear.

I guess I'd have to go with my biggest fear is always doubting...doubting myself...doubting my relationship...doubting my abilities...the fear is that I'll never move past it...never be able to live free of it. ...and therefor always be afraid...and never able to live my life fully

I havent gotten past it yet...and I'm seriously not sure how to go about that. All I can do is take it one day at a time...keep learning...keep trying...keep picking myself up from every fall and trying again.

Like i said...there are so many things I fear...but when it all comes down to it...all my fears are because i have a hard time trusting...a hard time believing...i always doubt...and i know even with the happy times...theres always that little piece that even doubts that.

(dont know if that makes any sense...maybe some people understand what I mean)

Hi Kat.

They are the exact things I used to fear too, when I was young.

I used to have the same thoughts running through my head during my 20's. So many situations had caused the onset of those feelings and thoughts in the first instance.

You have hit the nail on the head above, when you say; "All I can do is - Take it one day at a time... keep learning... pick myself up after each fall..." that is precisely how it happened for me.

I don't recall the day now, when it just all kind of stopped. I suppose when I began to have my life back and was finally doing things, going places, because I could.

I began feeling good about myself, so my self-doubts subsided after time.

I hope this will happen for you - it is hard, especially when there's a wrench feeling inside (that's how it felt for me).

Don't expect too much of yourself either - keep being you.

Freespeech.

 

[elluko]

I fear mystery and unexplainable things.

 

[Trance97]

Losing someone I love. The world running out of gas.

 

[Reaver]

Honestly, the thing I fear most? Religion. I have seen it skew people so much it makes me sick. I've seen people I love become the total opposite of what I know they want to/should be. And these people weren't like, drug addicts or hedonists or anything like that, they were decent people, who lived fulfilling lives. Now all they do is sit at home and read the Bible and worry about what is gonna happen when they die. They totally forget about the fact that are living now. When I ask my friend if he wants to go have fun, hang out, go to a movie or anything like that, he always replies "yeah, that would be awesome! Oh, wait I have Bible study/church/youth group/misc stuff. I really wanna go, but I can't miss it or i'll be in trouble." He says it like hes never been more disappointed in his entire life. I'm not saying everyone should denounce religion, hell its right for some people. If you wanna, knock yourself out. But when you continue to do something you obviously hate, just because it is the "norm" it raises some questions in my head.