What do you guys think? any suggestions

[Maritxu]

I agree with the ladies here. I think she actually wants to be with you but she is unsure or afraid about something. Sometimes we can be pretty complicated

 

[Haus]

OMG wait!! I KNOW! She's probably a STEELERS fan!!!!! It's ok I <3 you Hausy, you alwyas have me to fall back on

shes a damn patriots fan. lol

well i knew her for a little over a year ago. i started talking to her online. then we started talking on the phone. then out of the blue she stopped talking to me. we never met at that time. well time went on i started thinking about her ALOT and i missed talking to her. i was thinking about her alot of the time for two weeks. well one day we ran to each other. we knew what each other looked like from pics. we looked at each other in complete shock. well after that we started talking again and then we chilled a couple days later for the first time.

so its stuck in the back of my head from when she just stopped talking to me. she said she stopped cause she was getting scared. so i dunno.
woman are so fickle

 

[Homer]

i just hope shes not playing with you bro some times people play screwed up games.

 

[Haus]

was talking to a friend today which is a girl and she said when girls say they want to take it slow it means there not attracted to the guy. confused

 

[SilentEyz]

That is soooo not always true..

If a girl sais they just want to be friends.. then yeah..
but wanting to take it slow.. no.. most likely she is just unsure of how she is feeling.. She likes you but is not yet sure about being in a relationship.. keep hanging in there Haus.

 

[lemon]

just grab her by the shoulders and shake her silly... then..

no wait.. not that idea..

um... yeah

just let the situation take its course.. if it ends in the backseat of whatever.. well, heh, dont think you'll complain.. but if not, eh, its not meant to be at that time..

 

[BreakfastSurreal]

sounds like homechick might have some issues and serious baggage. Either that, or there is something she isn't being honest about...like maybe she is married or is with someone already...there is something that is holding her back, and it sounds like its not her feelings.

 

[Haus]

lol. shes defenatley not married. and i doubt she has a boyfriend.

from the begining of talking she always said shes afraid she will be alone for the rest of her life. she says once she lets down her guard down guys treat her like shit after that. even the ones that seem nice in the begining.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

was talking to a friend today which is a girl and she said when girls say they want to take it slow it means there not attracted to the guy. confused

SO not true!

Im thinking that maybe you just need to pour your heart out to her one day and let her know how you feel about her and tell her you wish that she had the same feelings back for you. Maybe, just maybe she might spill the beans to you.

 

[Maritxu]

SO not true!

Im thinking that maybe you just need to pour your heart out to her one day and let her know how you feel about her and tell her you wish that she had the same feelings back for you. Maybe, just maybe she might spill the beans to you.

I agree. Sometimes honesty is the way to go. Just imagine she is having the same doubts you are having...

 

[Haus]

well i dont think we click. i cant be my goofy self when we talk. i say something thats meant to be a joke and dint even happen she says "awwww i'm so sorry"
im like WTF. or i said i had a 2000 bonneville SLE and it was loaded. did everything but wipe my ass. shes like eeep. oh wow thats not good.

 

[SilentEyz]

Ohh.. Well hate to say it haus, but if ya cant be yourself with her, it dont sound good.

I hate when people dont get my sense of humor.

 

[Haus]

yeah well. i give it about a week-a week and a halfish before she stops talking to me again. lol just a hunch

doing the same thing last time right before she stopped talking to me.

next time she aint coming back in my life when she realizes she misses me.

 

[Haus]

Hurt me once, Shame on you.
Hurt me twice, shame on me.

 

[BreakfastSurreal]

honestly at this point i dont think she is worth your time. i think you could still "date" her but I would also go on dates with other chicks too. Who knows you might find someone to suit your fancy better, and i dont htink you should be so focused on her when she has these issues. It's not fair to you hun.