Is the right in question the right to define the word "marriage" or the right to the legal privileges afforded to legally married people? I ask because when it was offered to grant those privileges (hospital visitation, definition of next-of-kin, etc) under a different term, it was rejected by the most vocal of the minority.
A marriage ceremony can be performed by anyone for anyone - no civil license required.
So it would seem on the surface that the real goal is to force the gov't to give legal status to a wholly moral act -- to declare a homosexual union "moral." Isn't that outside the purview of government?
you've presented the catch-22 quite nicely :thumbup
if it's true that gays want "marriage" to be a word they can use in their relationships, and want it legalized by the governement because of it's moral implications, as you suggest....then the exact same arguement can be made wrt to those who don't want it legalized.....
they don't want it legalized because of it's moral implications.
my conclusion, then, is that the moral arguement is being pushed from the other side...or -at the very least- it's unavoidable....but the moral crowd, just like your immoral crowd, want the government to intervene...to have it protect existing standards of "morality"
the question then becomes, by your own arguement....why should the government do that?
begging the question....is our government SUPPOSED to be on the side of christain morality?
how is that the separation of church and state, then?
obama chose warren because of this question, imo....to call warren a theologian is a stretch in my opinion, but his relgious views are shared by a considerable group in this country (to varying degrees, i need to be clear on that, so folks don't get all bristely on me :surrender)....the fact that obama is not afraid to accept that as real, nor willing to reject the guy's pov because of what i imagine are his personal feelings about it, IS exactly the breath of fresh air we've all been whining about for the last umpteen years....
change -whether it's good or bad- doesn't come from standing in opposite camps, throwing stones....it comes from the attempt to understand.....