Here is how it should be handled:
Father: WTH? <initial reaction upon entering scene of crime
Daughter: Daddy? WTH? <initial reaction upon seeing father see her extracurricular activity with her boyfriend
Boyfriend: WTH? <initial reaction upon seeing father see him banging his daughter during the extracurricular activity
Father: Get dressed now!
Daughter: Daddy, I can explain!
Boyfriend: <he's not saying shit cause he's lucky to be alive right now and knows it! His clothes are so on within seconds! A new record for him!
Father: (to boyfriend) Get out! Before I do something I know you and I will both regret!
Daughter: <starts crying uncontrollably because she knows she is so gonna get a lecture and besides she can't find her damn underwear. Oh! There they are! Hanging out of her boyfriends shirt pocket!
Boyfriend: <what boyfriend? He was gone at get!
Father: We need to talk!
Daughter: <more tears! Where is mom when you need her?
End of story! You just have to communicate and use your head! Emotions will be in control temporarily, but everyone needs to force reality to the surface right away! And the reality is that girls like boys, boys like girls, dads love their daughters who they never want to see grow up and like boys because they were boys once and remember what it was all about, and besides... you can always lock her in her room until she's 18 and forget the whole sorry mess!
That is all!
