What do you do to avoid arguments?

[whnuien]

I'm a very straight forward person but most people I care around me are way too sensitive and it is always a disaster whenever we have conflicts between each other if we don't control.

I used to just take it and argue but now I just can't be bothered anymore. Neither of us will ever changed, and that's fine with me. Nowadays, whenever I get angry I will not say a word, I go out and take a walk, a long walk. I will keep walking until my anger fades.

How about you? What do you do to control yourself from being angry?

 

[The Man]

Anger is usually a response to a situation that has a negative effect on one's desired outcome.
It is best to deal with the situation to keep the desired outcome in focus.

Anyone disagree?

 

[mary]

The best way for me to avoid arguments is to walk out of the room, l cannot take the bad vibes that come with arguments so l just take myself out of the situation, luckily arguments do not go on for days and days in my household so once something has been said that's it and then we move on.

 

[J3NN4]

I leave.

My ex-boyfriend was really abusive, and I learned pretty quickly it's better to leave and handle the situation later. When you're angry, you say/do a lot of things you wouldn't (or shouldn't.)

I told my current boyfriend that if we ever get into an argument, I'd like for us to just take some time to ourselves and clear our heads before hashing it out. It's better to talk about the problem when you're not angry or upset, because people tend to lash out during an argument. So even when the argument is over with, you're still left remembering things he or she said, and it doesn't help the relationship.

 

[The Man]

I see you two disagree.

 

[Stone]

I don't have arguments, I just get even........j/k.....j/k

 

[whnuien]

I don't have arguments, I just get even........j/k.....j/k

Hmmm I'd be quite interested to know what that.....j/k....j/k is:yuck:

 

[Stone]

j/k = just kidding

 

[whnuien]

j/k = just kidding

Oh haha, you got me! I tried to double check if it was j/j but no, it was still j/k.

 

[Stone]

BTW....welcome to OTZ

 

[Springtime]

To avoid argument, I'll stop talking to the person arguing with me, and leave the place. Go for a walk and calm myself down.

 

[RUBESH]

Some individuals may strive to identify the things that irritate them and avoid or limit their contact with them. Others may use relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga to relax. Physical activity or participation in a cherished pastime or activity can also be a good method to deal with anger.

It's critical to discover a strategy that works for you and to utilize it on a regular basis when you're furious. If you struggle with regulating your anger, seeking professional help from a therapist or counselor might be useful.

 

[astutimeliana723]

To avoid fights, I usually like to give in, I try not to repay other people's ugliness, I will not defend myself. Unless it is related to self-esteem or when I am slandered, then I will defend myself.

 

[cherry123]

To avoid argument, I'll stop talking to the person arguing with me, and leave the place. Go for a walk and calm myself down.

This is just me I refuse to argue with the person and leave the place. I will calm myself down.

 

[Blessed19]

I'm a very straight forward person but most people I care around me are way too sensitive and it is always a disaster whenever we have conflicts between each other if we don't control. I used to just take it and argue but now I just can't be bothered anymore. Neither of us will ever changed, and that's fine with me. Nowadays, whenever I get angry I will not say a word, I go out and take a walk, a long walk. I will keep walking until my anger fades. How about you? What do you do to control yourself from being angry?

I'm a very straight forward person but most people I care around me are way too sensitive and it is always a disaster whenever we have conflicts between each other if we don't control.

I used to just take it and argue but now I just can't be bothered anymore. Neither of us will ever changed, and that's fine with me. Nowadays, whenever I get angry I will not say a word, I go out and take a walk, a long walk. I will keep walking until my anger fades.

How about you? What do you do to control yourself from being angry?

Well most of the time I always make sure I get to walk out of the place or remain quiet in order not to argue unless if they are trying to demean me or are saying the wrong thing then I can join in the discussion but just like that start arguing is something that I am not good at.

 

[Stardom22]

I can just accept whatever they are arguing with provided that I know what I am doing.

 

[Salt]

The best way to stop an argument is to not to have an argument at all and in case you have then you should try to stop it by saying sorry

 

[Stardom22]

The best way to stop an argument is to not to have an argument at all and in case you have then you should try to stop it by saying sorry

You can as well stay away from the argument by Keeping always silent whenever people argue on something.

 

[King Belieal]

If I sense that a situation would degenerate to bring an argument between me and someone, I quickly walk away. I don't want anything that would lead to a scene and people gathering trying to get explanations. I walk away from situations that are likely to cause arguments.

 

[eldavis]

I am a very sensitive person, and i tend to notice a lot of things. One thing i do is to ignore some of the things i see.