What are you thinking? Part 2

[NuckingFuts]

I think I am at a loss for trying to get thru to my 5 year old.

 

[boombala]

i am thinking i'm gonna be scared that i will hurt my elbow if doc removes cast tomorrow :willy_nilly:

 

[Staci]

i hate 2 faced bitches.....IJS

 

[Dana]

It's getting too fucking cold out too fast.

 

[Natasha]

I wish I was as fucked as my sleep pattern is right now, LMFAO

 

[Dana]

I have to go get my glasses fixed today. Glad I have back ups.

 

[Minderella]

Wondering if I did something wrong... :/

 

[robdawg1]

i feel like i have gas

 

[Minderella]

Guess I did do something wrong....*sigh* Such is my life.

 

[Dana]

like i need sleep

 

[jassilem]

I am thinking that I hope things change.

 

[Natasha]

What the fuck am I supposed to do now??? Ugh.

 

[Dana]

this could be a good thing

 

[darkcgi]

got my medicine changed this week
I feel as mellow as Chicken Joe

 

[darkcgi]

I think I am at a loss for trying to get thru to my 5 year old.

Being brought up by Military and then joing the Military, it's hard to properly associate to non-military citizens.
Best thing to do is to not be so strict on them. Examples: My 13 yr old boy has an attitude every time we ask him to do anything.
My first mental response is to yell (military style at him till he finishes the chore) . What I should have done was take his most valuable thing away, then his next and let him know the he will be sleeping on the floor if he doesn't stop. All the while explaining to him that however you are now is how you will be when you get on your own. (Most likely)
So everday I have to say something to him about what he didn't do right but then I also ask him how his day was and such. He hugs me all the time. (I'm not his real father, he knows it)
You can be too strict where they start to hate you but if you through in more love that punishment and rejection they will see that I promise) If non of this works just try to be pals with him and do stuff with him like building and using tools. Boys go ape shit over that even if your bored and don't try to do everything for them and be too protective. They want to learn and show you how they learn fast.
My real father went to jail before I was 1. My step father had a sun that turned 18 when was about 4 or 5. Well my stepfather's sun died. Then my step father would never do anything with me at then, so I taught myself many things just by watching. They never checked my grades, never cared if I was out of school and had no idea that I was a sponsored skate boarder for VANS shoes, Oasis Surf Shop, Hot Season's Surf Shop and Steve's South Coast Shop. I had a 4th degree black belt as well. I also went from Art 1 to Art 4 in one day. So I'm just saying don't give up but drop the military rules and etc.. cause no child will like that unless they are Gung-Ho all the time.

 

[Minderella]

That life is way too hard and confusing. :/ It shouldn't be!

 

[Natasha]

Can't wait to start anew in my new residence. Time to get back to trying to make it happen, hardcore!!!

 

[Dana]

i really like her

 

[Natasha]

Oh...my...God. Can I be awake for 5 fucking minutes before the bitching about EVERYTHING under the sun starts!?!?!?

 

[The Man]

Soy burgers suck