And that, my friends, is why we live in the shit society we do today. One person started being a douche, and it domino'd so now EVERYONE does it. Because it's only right that if someone's an asshole to you, that you return the favor.
I get shit on a lot, but I don't take my shit out on other people. You took her original comment personally when there was NO reason to. So she did exactly what you're claiming you did to her.
Anyone who's naive enough to think they're going to lose weight without exercising deserves to be the weight that they are. I'm just saying. She stated a (partial) fact. Reading books won't necessarily make you smarter, but exercise sure will help your weight. If you chose to take offense to that as though she were attacking you, that's your prerogative. But don't dish it out if you can't take it, Dana.
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the golden rule states that we should do to others as we would like them to do to us AND NOT to do to others as they are doing to us.
if someone is being a douchebag, don't become dirty douchewater for that person's sake. either rise above it or leave.