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Zorak

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You banned the hostility and deleted all the posts :(

It's thursday night\friday morning and I'm bored!
 
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I just found this thread, and had no idea she was banned.. I'm not surprised.. in fact, I was expecting it..
I did not see any of the posts from the other day or last night, so I can't comment on the missed drama..

I hope you all know me a little by now, and really know that when I make any comments I'm not trying to attack or fight with anyone ... so please, don't jump all over this post or me..

This thread is breaking my heart.. I wish I could show everyone how a lack of compassion can wreak havoc on the minds of some people that are ill..
The internet is a wonderful thing, but it can also be a double edge sword and cause untold damage..

Please, everyone, be careful with your words in an open forum... you never know who is reading, and how they will interpret certain words of phrases..
Your words could be the difference between a good outcome or a tragedy for someone..

What I would like to say, is that my heart goes to Ravana.. I wish I'd been able to reach out to her and help her.. I wish there had been a little more time for me to get her email, so I could offer her some assistance before she was banned..

She is a person suffering with a terrible mental health illness, and I know from all my experience in dealing with people in her position, she does not want to be the way she is..
She suffers with a mental illness, but the illness is not her.. Her brain has a chemical imbalance and she cannot help it.. Only carefully monitored treatments can do that, and no one here knows what kind of treatment she is or was receiving..

She had the incredible forethought to write an apology to everyone in the forum.. That is one of the hardest things anyone suffering with a mental illness can do.. and I cried when I saw that..

By writing that apology, she was reaching out to anyone that could help her.. she was screaming for help at that moment.. In my opinion, she was on the very edge of a complete mental breakdown..

PurpleDove and I wrote in that thread, offering our support.. I don't know if she got in touch with PD.. I wish she had sent me a PM or said something to me on that thread, because now I'm left wondering if she is okay..

To make things worse, she has been separated from her two little children for many months... She was deported back to Australia and her children were left behind...
Can anyone here, even if you are a guy.. are not a mother, or have children of your own.. imagine what that poor woman is going through??.. Add that to her mental illness... and multiply by any number you can think of, and you will come up with a heart and a mind broken in millions of pieces...

My love and compassion goes to Ravana, her children and her whole family...

-Her real name is Dayna, by the way-...

So, Dayna.. if by any stretch of the imagination you, or anyone that loves you happens to read this post... please know that I am here for you, and I am sending you and yours, unlimited amounts of Healing Energies to help you weather your storm.. ♥
 

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Hey tyraid was rude and full of insults and personal attacks aimed to hurt members personally and emotionally. She deserves no sympathy
 

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There have been far too many instances of posers and fake people on this site that it is hard for a lot of people to believe sob stories like that. Too many of us have been burned by buying into similar stories.

And I still maintain that, aside from certain circumstances, everyone is responsible for what they say or do and there are no valid excuses for many things people say.
 

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Willow you are a truly wonderful warm human being
Thank you so much for that post, i have no clue what Ravanna posted in that thread
But she no doubt broke rules and was rightly banned. However you have a capacity
To see through the smokscreen of vile, hurtful words and still feel genuine love and compassion.
Thankyou
 

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I just found this thread, and had no idea she was banned.. I'm not surprised.. in fact, I was expecting it..
I did not see any of the posts from the other day or last night, so I can't comment on the missed drama..

I hope you all know me a little by now, and really know that when I make any comments I'm not trying to attack or fight with anyone ... so please, don't jump all over this post or me..

This thread is breaking my heart.. I wish I could show everyone how a lack of compassion can wreak havoc on the minds of some people that are ill..
The internet is a wonderful thing, but it can also be a double edge sword and cause untold damage..

Please, everyone, be careful with your words in an open forum... you never know who is reading, and how they will interpret certain words of phrases..
Your words could be the difference between a good outcome or a tragedy for someone..

What I would like to say, is that my heart goes to Ravana.. I wish I'd been able to reach out to her and help her.. I wish there had been a little more time for me to get her email, so I could offer her some assistance before she was banned..

She is a person suffering with a terrible mental health illness, and I know from all my experience in dealing with people in her position, she does not want to be the way she is..
She suffers with a mental illness, but the illness is not her.. Her brain has a chemical imbalance and she cannot help it.. Only carefully monitored treatments can do that, and no one here knows what kind of treatment she is or was receiving..

She had the incredible forethought to write an apology to everyone in the forum.. That is one of the hardest things anyone suffering with a mental illness can do.. and I cried when I saw that..

By writing that apology, she was reaching out to anyone that could help her.. she was screaming for help at that moment.. In my opinion, she was on the very edge of a complete mental breakdown..

PurpleDove and I wrote in that thread, offering our support.. I don't know if she got in touch with PD.. I wish she had sent me a PM or said something to me on that thread, because now I'm left wondering if she is okay..

To make things worse, she has been separated from her two little children for many months... She was deported back to Australia and her children were left behind...
Can anyone here, even if you are a guy.. are not a mother, or have children of your own.. imagine what that poor woman is going through??.. Add that to her mental illness... and multiply by any number you can think of, and you will come up with a heart and a mind broken in millions of pieces...

My love and compassion goes to Ravana, her children and her whole family...

-Her real name is Dayna, by the way-...

So, Dayna.. if by any stretch of the imagination you, or anyone that loves you happens to read this post... please know that I am here for you, and I am sending you and yours, unlimited amounts of Healing Energies to help you weather your storm.. ♥

I mirror these sentiments.

















In opposite land.
 

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Willow you are a truly wonderful warm human being
Thank you so much for that post, i have no clue what Ravanna posted in that thread
But she no doubt broke rules and was rightly banned. However you have a capacity
To see through the smokscreen of vile, hurtful words and still feel genuine love and compassion.
Thankyou

She admitted she didn't see the vile inexcusable insults dayna posted.
That's ignorance, by definition, and its bliss
 
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