Very. Pissed. Off.

[TheOriginalJames]

Well my entire take on it is kind of a mix of OUZs view and your view, Lel.

I think it's BS that he invited her in to console her after how long of a car ride? 40 some minutes? etc. The fact that he left you stranded while they ate knowing you were out waiting for him.

The fact that you got yelled at because YOUR husband is 'consoling' his ex wife who has a guy that should be doing that.

I think it's BS, but at the same time I know you do (and should) trust him to consider you when roaming around in that grey area of past relationships and their lines.

 

[andcuriouser]

It wasn't so much that he made me wait for an hour to pick up Eliza. It was just that he sort of ignored and almost demoted me, you could say. I wasn't being treated like his spouse.

I was especially pissed about a lot of the things he said to me in the bathroom. Just the name-calling. That really wasn't necessary.

He has since apologized. I mean, he's not a total monster or anything. He was frustrated, I understand that.

 

[IntruderLS1]

Breakfast was right, he is putting you in the "Back seat" in your relationship. This is why I asked you that question. Your husband may not put her in her place, but you need to stand up and show her that her place is "Behind" you. When he came to pick you up, or anytime the three of you are in the car, she should get the "Third" seat.

As it should have played out;
He arrives to pick you up, you see that she is in the front seat. When he stops the car you open her door and kick her to the back. She doesn't move at first and gives you a confused look, then as she realizes what you are getting at, her confused look turns into a dirty look. And if she still doesn't move, you tell that bitch that this is YOUR husband not hers and her place is in the back seat.

Le, YOU need to let her know her place... That's behind you and she better get used to it if she wants to stay around.

Yet again I'm awed by the wisdom that is Tim. :withstupid:

Well said sir.

 

[GuesSAngel]

I agree with tim that you need to step up and let her know who you are, and that's matt's husband. Either that or matt needs to grow some balls and put her in her place. I really don't understand how his exwife could still be in the picture...they don't have kids together, so there is really no excuse for it.

no offense.

 

[andcuriouser]

They share friends, is one reason they're still in contact.

That, and this really long and drawn out not-really-my-business thing that basically comes down to they don't want things to be awkward for said friends, and so will try to be friends. There's more to it, I've never asked for particulars. Again, not really my business.

Matt is not a bad guy. I love him a lot, and I know he loves me. I think I overreacted just a bit; this was just a rant in the heat of the moment sort of thing. I mean, yeah, he did do some things wrong, and in a way I still haven't exactly forgiven him for some things he said to me... but he has also apologized and listened.

I was too angry last night to let him come to bed with me (I used the, "go away, please. I'm really angry with you."), and he said that really sobered him up.

I don't know. I just want to clarify that Matt isn't committing some sort of dreaded sin.

 

[GuesSAngel]

well i guess my only reply to your post would be that it is your business now that you're married.