Unfortunate reality..

[Silious950]

This was brought upon by Mrs. behavin thread on confidence.


I've had an unfortunate epiphany this past week, I hate that I have to accept this fact to get women. believe it or not, most girls don't have much self-confidence anymore. They will always have the insecure teenage-girl in them for the rest of their life. Surprisingly there is a method that works for me and most of my friends when meeting women. We all just ignore them. We do what we want to do, be a little mean to them, basically say "If you don't like who I am, fuck off." and we get laid. We have 100% confidence in the situations. For example, yesterday I saw a 9 out of 10 girl at the beach. I went up to her and asked her if I could get her number and we could hang out sometime. She rejected me of course knowing that she can get any guy she wants, I say " Oh yeah I forgot, 9's and 10's are gold diggers, i shouldn't have even bothered.." I got her number and am chilling with her tomorrow. It's sad that it works that way, America is the only country that has women who like to be treated bad. Europe doesn't, neither does any Asian countries. I live in Southern Cali, Orange county, so that may just be how it works here, but from what I've heard it works everywhere across the country. Any input you guys?

 

[Boomer]

I did notice that I have to be mean to pick up a beezy. But, I have to be a gentlemen to pick up a woman.

 

[sexy.time]

i know what you mean. it seems to work that way. rather than acting like your complety struck by this girl, acting like you dont give a shit seems to work better. cept sometimes they just think your ignoring them and you miss out on what could have been

 

[Silious950]

Try finding a woman where I am from is quiet hard, thats why the thread on confidence reminded me on how much i want a women with that characteristic, cuz there are none in So-Cal

 

[Boomer]

Cause it seems like chics our age are seriously lacking confidence. But when you run into a woman, she knows who she is and what she wants.

 

[Silious950]

Tell me where I can find those because I'm getting desperate LOL

 

[Boomer]

Shit, you can find'em anywhere dood! Just gotta know what to look for. Women like young cats.

 

[GuesSAngel]

sorry boys...already taken!!

 

[Silious950]

I'm a young cat haha SICK!

 

[GraceAbounds]

We attract what we are.

If we want a real woman or a real man, we best focus on ourselves first and make sure we have ourselves together first.

Assess your life. Is it a mess? If so, clean it up. Are you insecure, shallow, etc. etc. Would you want to date you? Would you trust you? Would you want a 'real' relationship with you? Be honest with yourself and then work on you instead of criticizing everyone out there in the world. The change starts with ourselves.

When we take this approach we would all probably attract a better quality of a mate/spouse/etc.

 

[Silious950]

Truth

 

[Peter Parka]

I don't think it's just an American thing, I know plenty of girls who seem to serially get into relationships with arseholes. Its usually because the girl has a few issues herself though and these things hardly ever work out. I personally believe in treating her how I would like to be treated, I like being in a relationship because the girl genuinely likes me and is happy with me, not because she's desperate!