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THE POST AHEADLOL
RIGHT I LOST MY NANA that hit me hard from seeing her suffer through cancer
my antie , uncle , great antie
I guess its life they come in our life to teach us
but yes it really does hurt
When I think about my late husband ( I am married now and never know how to refer to him) anyways, when I do things w/ my hubby that he always wanted like buying a house. When the kids reach milestones he never got to see. That makes me melancholy. I get survivors guilt I guess.
I have no idea how to answer this since the definition I've looked up of "melancholy" is a feeling of thoughtful sadness.
I was going to answer my parents passing on, which seems the most obvious, but really that wasn't melancholy. That was utter depression.
But then you mean "looking back", and really now I look upon them more as a celebration of their lives so I don't have melancholy thinking of them. So it's a tricky one really. I got nothing!
The memories of late 2006/early 2007 make me melancholy. Someone I had an affection for and allowed myself to get close. Too close. It's a shame it was never really shared despite what she said.
Both my grandparents passed, and that was heartbreaking. To answer the OP more definitely, I would say was when two high school friends were killed in a horrible car accident about a month after I had my son. I couldn't help thinking about the two beautiful lives that were lost, only 19. They affected so many other lives in their deaths and it really made me think about how lucky I am to be alive and how lucky I am to have a happy healthy child.