first got me talking because i thought he was cheating at the vid games. i was retarded. but it brought me to the forums which rocks, so got to give thanx, and i like new jersey, only been to red banks, sandy hook, and this amazing garden with a crazy gazeebo setting near those other places, wish i could remember the name, i know it was owned by the mob at one point though. want to get married there. sorry again about the games thing, truely dumb.