Teacher to Return After Having Sex Change
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Re: RE: Teacher to Return After Having Sex Change
I'll bet you that something like this would go undetected by the vast majority of the children who have her. The only way they would know, is if their parents brought it to their attention, or if they had her as a substitue before. And with I have had female teachers that I swore were men at some point in time.
I think at age 71 this isn't a case getting the surgery to have sex as a woman... :dunno
I agree with what sim says. I have raised my children as she has, exposing them to the world around me under my supervision. This way I would be able to answer whatever questions they may have and they would get the facts and not a racial or bigoted view. You cannot shelter your children from the world around them, it will only cripple them later in life. Children are smarter than most people give them credit for. Ever since they were babies, I would talk to them and teach them like they were adults... meaning, I wouldn't come up to them and say *In a baby voice* "Did someone do a bum bum in their diapy" That is crap in my opinion. I have always had the belief that education came with every word I spoke to them, and my children are very bright and educated. Hell, my 16 year old daughter is worlds ahead in maturity then most of her classmates. She is a 16 year old that I trust.
I could keep going, but will stop for now :tard
Mrs Behavin said:
I'll bet you that something like this would go undetected by the vast majority of the children who have her. The only way they would know, is if their parents brought it to their attention, or if they had her as a substitue before. And with I have had female teachers that I swore were men at some point in time.
AtlanticBlue99 said:
I think at age 71 this isn't a case getting the surgery to have sex as a woman... :dunno
I agree with what sim says. I have raised my children as she has, exposing them to the world around me under my supervision. This way I would be able to answer whatever questions they may have and they would get the facts and not a racial or bigoted view. You cannot shelter your children from the world around them, it will only cripple them later in life. Children are smarter than most people give them credit for. Ever since they were babies, I would talk to them and teach them like they were adults... meaning, I wouldn't come up to them and say *In a baby voice* "Did someone do a bum bum in their diapy" That is crap in my opinion. I have always had the belief that education came with every word I spoke to them, and my children are very bright and educated. Hell, my 16 year old daughter is worlds ahead in maturity then most of her classmates. She is a 16 year old that I trust.
I could keep going, but will stop for now :tard
Re: RE: Teacher to Return After Having Sex Change
Sim, please stop winking at me, my woman reads these boards damit!
But seriously, I have watched how others raised their children and I have learned many thing from how they missed the point. I used this information wisely... I never had to threaten my children to be good, or had to bribe them with a candy bar at the store. This is because I was fair to them and always did what I said I was going to do. If I told them to be quiet or they will go to their room, then it happened, everytime. It is a lot more fair then yelling at them 10-15 times to do the same thing and not having them do it because you aren't consistant with them. All you end up with is a headache, bad children that have to be bribed with candy and a lot of mindless yelling that doesn't acomplish anything.
One good example is when my daughter was a toddler and would go over and push all the buttons on the stereo, TV and VCR... I could of sat on the couch and screamed at her to stop, then threatened her... but she was only a toddler and I was (and still am) smarter than her. So whenever she walked over to the TV, I would run over, pick her up telling her "no, no, no that's daddy's", in a playful voice, toss her on the couch and start tickling her (which she loved). I only had to do this 3-4 times before she would just walk over to the TV, turn to me and run over for her tickling. Moral of a long story is... I didn't have weeks of yelling at her, I just redirected her and she lost intrest in something that she wasn't supposed to be doing while getting we were growing our own relationship.
Sim said:
Sim, please stop winking at me, my woman reads these boards damit!
But seriously, I have watched how others raised their children and I have learned many thing from how they missed the point. I used this information wisely... I never had to threaten my children to be good, or had to bribe them with a candy bar at the store. This is because I was fair to them and always did what I said I was going to do. If I told them to be quiet or they will go to their room, then it happened, everytime. It is a lot more fair then yelling at them 10-15 times to do the same thing and not having them do it because you aren't consistant with them. All you end up with is a headache, bad children that have to be bribed with candy and a lot of mindless yelling that doesn't acomplish anything.
One good example is when my daughter was a toddler and would go over and push all the buttons on the stereo, TV and VCR... I could of sat on the couch and screamed at her to stop, then threatened her... but she was only a toddler and I was (and still am) smarter than her. So whenever she walked over to the TV, I would run over, pick her up telling her "no, no, no that's daddy's", in a playful voice, toss her on the couch and start tickling her (which she loved). I only had to do this 3-4 times before she would just walk over to the TV, turn to me and run over for her tickling. Moral of a long story is... I didn't have weeks of yelling at her, I just redirected her and she lost intrest in something that she wasn't supposed to be doing while getting we were growing our own relationship.
Mrs Behavin
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Re: RE: Teacher to Return After Having Sex Change
Im pretty sure that they would recognize a teacher who was wearing slacks and a dress shirt to one day wearing dresses and make-up. I mean my child is 7 yrs old as well and I know she would recognize the change. Kids are not dumb, they pay alot more attention to detail than we give them credit for.
RecklessTim said:
Im pretty sure that they would recognize a teacher who was wearing slacks and a dress shirt to one day wearing dresses and make-up. I mean my child is 7 yrs old as well and I know she would recognize the change. Kids are not dumb, they pay alot more attention to detail than we give them credit for.
Re: RE: Teacher to Return After Having Sex Change
It's a substitue teacher that has been out of work (due to the operation) for some time now who isn't back to work yet. So by the time that she gets back, she will have differant children. She only works a day or two at a time, not like the kids see her alot.
Mrs Behavin said:
It's a substitue teacher that has been out of work (due to the operation) for some time now who isn't back to work yet. So by the time that she gets back, she will have differant children. She only works a day or two at a time, not like the kids see her alot.
Re: RE: Teacher to Return After Having Sex Change
Damn it, Tim! Stop making my points for me already!! lmao
*winks at Tim's woman* (She knows I'm harmless anyway...at least to Tim...her, I might devour. lol)
And really, Mrs. B, you're giving children too little credit. Of course they'll notice differences...we all have eyes and brains...but the fact is they won't really care. It'll be a substitute, which means you basically have a day of farting around while remaining somewhat quiet so that the other classes don't hear you having fun. Whatever they might notice about her will simply be giggled at behind her back, or the topic of discussion as to how weird she is while eating their lunches. It won't be a pivotal moment for them in life where they'll realize that people really do change their sexes in life.
The thing you need to watch, though, is that kids talk with other kids. Chances are really good that your child already knows more than she'll say to you because her friends in school have open parents who have already taught them that it's the contents of the pages within the books, and not their covers which matter.
Damn it, Tim! Stop making my points for me already!! lmao
*winks at Tim's woman* (She knows I'm harmless anyway...at least to Tim...her, I might devour. lol)
And really, Mrs. B, you're giving children too little credit. Of course they'll notice differences...we all have eyes and brains...but the fact is they won't really care. It'll be a substitute, which means you basically have a day of farting around while remaining somewhat quiet so that the other classes don't hear you having fun. Whatever they might notice about her will simply be giggled at behind her back, or the topic of discussion as to how weird she is while eating their lunches. It won't be a pivotal moment for them in life where they'll realize that people really do change their sexes in life.
The thing you need to watch, though, is that kids talk with other kids. Chances are really good that your child already knows more than she'll say to you because her friends in school have open parents who have already taught them that it's the contents of the pages within the books, and not their covers which matter.
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Mrs Behavin
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OKay I see your point about the substitue thing and it makes sense. But how would you perceive it if it was your childs regular every day teacher?
I mean, all Im saying about the whole ordeal is that kids this young are already learning sooo much and the whole "sex change" just seems like its too much for them to learn about at such a young age. Now granted, with time they will learn about it and figure it all out but 7 just seems entirely too young.
What ever happened to the "good ole days" when kids went to school to learn their ABCs and 123's and not to learn about sex eduaction in the 6th grade and parents having to explain to the younger kids (if the kids ask) about sex changes and lesbians and gays, etc.
This world is an ever changing place and sometimes as a parent is scares the bee-jesus outta me.
I mean, all Im saying about the whole ordeal is that kids this young are already learning sooo much and the whole "sex change" just seems like its too much for them to learn about at such a young age. Now granted, with time they will learn about it and figure it all out but 7 just seems entirely too young.
What ever happened to the "good ole days" when kids went to school to learn their ABCs and 123's and not to learn about sex eduaction in the 6th grade and parents having to explain to the younger kids (if the kids ask) about sex changes and lesbians and gays, etc.
This world is an ever changing place and sometimes as a parent is scares the bee-jesus outta me.
I get caught up in how much tolerance is too much. One piece of me says whats the big fuckin deal. Then another part of me says WTF have her change schools at least. I think its easy to have differing opinions on things that dont directly affect me. I definately think that our country is to damn tolerant and doesnt understand the old phrase "you can plz most of the people most of the time.....etc.
Re: RE: Teacher to Return After Having Sex Change
Um...sex education is taught in fourth grade in Texas. My children were taught from day one. The more they know about it, the less they have to experiment with to find out what is what.
The point still is that I wouldn't give a shit if she came back to work with a monkey tail and some big mouse ears. As long as she had an effective manner of teaching my children what they were there to learn, then she has my full support. I've butted heads with teachers before...and the most important thing is for them to be able to teach! Male, female, gay, bi, whatever...doesn't matter to me.
The worst that will happen is the teacher will be the butt of jokes made by those kids whose parents make a big deal about it. Those parents who see nothing wrong will have the children in the classes actually learning, rather than pointing and making faces or laughing. Such behavior is learned at home, and should remain buried to begin with.
I still don't understand how people can be so closed-minded in today's society. It's truly pathetic and sad.
Um...sex education is taught in fourth grade in Texas. My children were taught from day one. The more they know about it, the less they have to experiment with to find out what is what.
The point still is that I wouldn't give a shit if she came back to work with a monkey tail and some big mouse ears. As long as she had an effective manner of teaching my children what they were there to learn, then she has my full support. I've butted heads with teachers before...and the most important thing is for them to be able to teach! Male, female, gay, bi, whatever...doesn't matter to me.
The worst that will happen is the teacher will be the butt of jokes made by those kids whose parents make a big deal about it. Those parents who see nothing wrong will have the children in the classes actually learning, rather than pointing and making faces or laughing. Such behavior is learned at home, and should remain buried to begin with.
I still don't understand how people can be so closed-minded in today's society. It's truly pathetic and sad.
Mrs Behavin said:OKay I see your point about the substitue thing and it makes sense. But how would you perceive it if it was your childs regular every day teacher?
I mean, all Im saying about the whole ordeal is that kids this young are already learning sooo much and the whole "sex change" just seems like its too much for them to learn about at such a young age. Now granted, with time they will learn about it and figure it all out but 7 just seems entirely too young.
What ever happened to the "good ole days" when kids went to school to learn their ABCs and 123's and not to learn about sex eduaction in the 6th grade and parents having to explain to the younger kids (if the kids ask) about sex changes and lesbians and gays, etc.
This world is an ever changing place and sometimes as a parent is scares the bee-jesus outta me.
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