One of the biggest reasons I fell away from Christianity was because of suffering and tragedy. Not only in my life, but in the lives of so many in the world. It took me a long time to understand that God doesn't cause suffering, but even more importantly - why He allows it.
One might think that all the suffering should be over since Jesus paid the price for all mankind, but unfortunately, there is still suffering in this world and in this life. Although unpleasant and sometimes unspeakable, there are many lessons to learn from suffering. From that perspective, it is a spiritual blessing.
Not all who suffer choose to do so, but once in the midst of it, people make critical decisions. As we see in the story of Job (one amazing story) and when Jesus prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane for another way other than crucifixion.
It is noteworthy to consider that one of the first lessons God wants His people to learn is that although there is suffering in this life, He is the great Savior.
"My brethren, take the prophets, who spoke in the name of the Lord, as an example of suffering and patience. Indeed we count them blessed who endure. You have heard of the perseverance of Job and seen the end intended by the Lord; that the Lord is very compassionate and merciful." (James 5:10, 11)
Hellen Keller once said, "Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved."
When suffering is viewed as having a purpose, one can learn from it, and use it for the benefit of teaching or helping others. Jesus Christ suffered willingly and by design.
"For Christ also suffered once for sins, the just for the unjust, that He might bring us to God." (1 Peter 3:18) Without His suffering for humanity, there would be no restoration or reconciliation with God.
Jesus' suffering was with a divine purpose. Contemporary author and motivational speaker, Robert Ringer, wrote, "The most worthwhile lessons in life are the ones we learn through adversity. Some day you may be in a situation that will require you to draw on that experience, perhaps to help someone dear to you through a similar issue."
There are worse things than suffering in life, and perhaps worse than suffering is not learning anything from the experience. All humans go through different kinds and various degrees of suffering, and some live lives full of it. Thankfully, we can rest assured that the suffering we face on earth is only temporary and we have much to look forward to