Spank or no?

[R.A.T. Army]

If the kid gets smart to ya, give them a good Ong Bakin and they will learn the lesson real fast.

 

[lemon]

Re: RE: Spank or no?

If the kid gets smart to ya, give them a good bOng Bakin and they will learn the lesson real fast.

:wtf :rofl ya wan ta smoke em up or somthin? :funnah

 

[Mrs Behavin]

I got spanked as a kid and I learned what not to do by being punished. I didnt get beat, but there were a few times that I got it with the belt. Im sure I deserved it though

 

[Jazmyn]

She had gone outside and picked a nice little branch off of a small tree. It was thin, very green inside, and was nice and flexible.

Sounds familiar

Ooooh, yes, I got spanked many times! And it did teach me the lesson!

Spanking is the last option... should be done when everything else ( such as a reasonable explanation or raising the tone of your voice) fails... as simple as that.

 

[Veronica]

I spank my kids when they are really acting up. I take away games first then spank. Lately Austin has been just laughing at me. I have to stop spanking then because I will lose control. One of austins doctors are totally against spanking.. she told me that never to spank when he is in trouble for being aggressive because it just shows him that its ok to be aggressive when you get older. :dunno I basically spank on butt when he isnt listening to me, but I dont spank him NEAR as much as I use to. I was raised getting spanked by a leather POLICE belt. Believe me, that shit hurts. I would never do that to my kids. I ONLY use my hand.

 

[DaGGer]

I only remember being spanked a few times and only for really bad things. I mean my brother has been smaked in the face a few times because he has a very bad mouth were anything my parents say he has something to say right back. I see no problem with it as long as you aren't beating them and as long as its not all the time.

 

[BlueKitty2]

the only ass im touching is mine if it itches, and a lady's :cool


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to be serious, i would not spank either. i was brought up this way, or so i have been told, for i do not remember much of my childhood anymore.

i would simply present the child some choices on how to behave, such as if we were going to the supermarket - "sure, you can have the candy bar, but then that would be your supper.. " or something like that. also, the kid has to be able to understand. if the kid is unable to understand, pick something that they enjoy and take it away from them for a period of time, like 30 to an hour.

no spankings, no time outs. always try to make it seem positive - it will teach your child to make better decisions when growing up.

* of course, i dont have experience in such things. but i know my nephew is scared of spankings ( last time i saw him get one, he got 3 in a row, because he didnt correct what he did wrong, and he stood there screaming... ) if you wish to use spankings as a correction, try not to make it seem like spanking is the object of focus. try to make sure they understand what they did wrong, and that the wrongdoing is what prompted the spanking; not you just being evil

Say What? I believe spanking serves it's own purpose. When my nephews came to live with me they had no manners and ran around like little hooligans. With an absent father and a mother who didn't believe in punishing them (she believed in offering options to them) they were down right evil to try and take anywhere. They got a warning (stop or you'll get spanked) and if they didn't stop there was a swat to the behind. Within weeks they learned and became little "angels". This is how I was brought up and I didn't turn out so bad.

 

[davidsgal]

I'm not completely against it, I think that sometimes it might be called for but just a whack with an open hand. If you do it too often it's not going to be effective, it sure as hell didn't work on my brother. When my brother and sister got hit with a wooden spoon they'd put books down their pants so it didn't hurt. lol.

 

[SilentEyz]

Spanking a Child sometimes is the necessary Discipline, For some children it is the only one they understand or that makes an impact in the situation.

I would not recommend just resorting to spanking a child bcse they misbehaved or upset you, But often And depending on the child, Once they have been spanked and they know you are willing to take that step, then the threat is enough. Some children do not learn by Grounding, time outs, Threats, and so on.

I think I spanked my daughter twice her when she was little.. If that is what you would call it.. a flat hand across the ass, once or twice, But the point that was made is she KNEW I would do it if I had to,