Some women have balls.

[dasb00T]

thats just odd in my opinion, I never make any plans without consulting my husband first, its kind of a respect issue I think because I sure as hell wouldnt like it if he did it to me

oh please. i bet you have him wrapped around your finger.... he probably pees sitting down.

 

[AUDRAA]

:24: yeah I wish!

 

[fightinghumps]

oh please. i bet you have him wrapped around your finger.... he probably pees sitting down.

I've heard that somewhere before..............

 

[Dana]

So wait what? Just from the email u got it sounds like your wife and her friends were planning a party? I see nothing wrong with that unless your wife's friends were talking to other friends about having a party at your place with out you alls permission. Some people use emails the same way as phones. If they're inviting themselves thats wrong...

 

[BlackCherry]

Women are naturally more social and more plan oriented. I might invite a couple over to watch a sporting event on TV. I would never volunteer someone eles's home.

If I want to have a party, then I would host it at my house...I would never even fathom volunteering someone else's home or inviting myself to their home...and on top of it, have the audacity to say I'd split (she should pick up the tab entirely since it was her idea) the food/drink cost! Some people do have stones!

 

[dasb00T]

I've heard that somewhere before..............

pep makes her husband do that.

 

[AUDRAA]

I've heard that somewhere before..............

:24: does Bootsie pee sitting down in his house!

 

[AUFred]

Planning a party is fine but this was not a party planning this was my wife's friend inviting herself to our pool. This e-mail was just hey why don't we get together at youyr house & swim & grill

 

[AUFred]

If I want to have a party, then I would host it at my house...I would never even fathom volunteering someone else's home or inviting myself to their home...and on top of it, have the audacity to say I'd split (she should pick up the tab entirely since it was her idea) the food/drink cost! Some people do have stones!

That was my thought for sure.

 

[fightinghumps]

pep makes her husband do that.

Oh I know. I'll never forget that. She was "pissed".

 

[BlackCherry]

Planning a party is fine but this was not a party planning this was my wife's friend inviting herself to our pool. This e-mail was just hey why don't we get together at youyr house & swim & grill

I gotcha...I read that as "a get together" instead of just "get together." My blow. Even still...yeah, I wouldn't invite myself to someone's house like that...and I sure as hell wouldn't expect you to drop any coin on food/drink!

 

[Dana]

Planning a party is fine but this was not a party planning this was my wife's friend inviting herself to our pool. This e-mail was just hey why don't we get together at youyr house & swim & grill

LOL Well if you're the one with the pool i see no harm. If she showed up with no warning I'd be pissed.

 

[dasb00T]

Oh I know. I'll never forget that. She was "pissed".

lollllll

some would say she really golden showered him with insults.

 

[AUDRAA]

LOL Well if you're the one with the pool i see no harm. If she showed up with no warning I'd be pissed.

Dana is one of those people that would send such an email I see :cool

 

[dasb00T]

The email was rude because it didn't say "What do you think about?" or "What are your thoughts on us invading your home, making a mess, and using your pool?"

Instead it was "We're doing this and we'll cover half our end. BOOM"

 

[AUFred]

LOL Well if you're the one with the pool i see no harm. If she showed up with no warning I'd be pissed.

Take this as intended. I'm glad you live far way from me Dana. I would hate for you to plan a pool party at my house and not invite me. Pool upkeep can be a PIA and I don't make the grounds perfect around the pool unless we have a gathering of friends. I consider it bad manners to invite yourself over without being asked or at least talking with me even if you hinted asking in the conversation.

 

[AUFred]

Dana is one of those people that would send such an email I see :cool

He would get the "Well Hell No!" response. LOL!

 

[AUFred]

The email was rude because it didn't say "What do you think about?" or "What are your thoughts on us invading your home, making a mess, and using your pool?"

Instead it was "We're doing this and we'll cover half our end. BOOM"

That's the way I read it too. "You clean, cook, prepare and be ready and oh by the way plan on paying half on the food & drink, see you Sunday!"

 

[AUDRAA]

The email was rude because it didn't say "What do you think about?" or "What are your thoughts on us invading your home, making a mess, and using your pool?"

Instead it was "We're doing this and we'll cover half our end. BOOM"

:24: and only half!! damn the least she could have done is offered to cover it all I mean really she is inviting herself and others to use his stuff!

 

[dasb00T]

They should have offered SOME incentive for you, Fred.

"We'll pay for all of the food and help prepare it if you will allow us to use your pool/house."