So when is it time?

[latinplayachick]

I've been talking to this man from the internet for 4 whole months. I really like him. When he sent me his recent pic I had to say that he's a little bit over weight but that didnt matter he makes me feel great! I was scheduled to finally meet him in person next weekend but he just got offered a job in California and he gotta go ASAP. He's an engineer. He left his job in Vermont to go to Cali. I'm kinda upset about that but i dont know how to tell him. I feel like he's the one but i havent even seen him. is there something wrong wit me?

He makes me laugh, cry, enjoy myself and actually got me thinking of building a life with him. He keeps saying that I'm not going to like him even though he is all I think about all day and night i havent told hm that because I dont want to feel vulnerable. He said if they dont put him in maryland by 3 months he is going to look for something else. He tryna get close to jersey. I dont know what to do. He might be the one?

I'm i seeing too much into this? l

Give me your honest opinion! I can take it!

 

[SilentEyz]

Well, I dont think there is anything wrong with you,

I think it is so much easier for us to be become closer emotionally to people over the internet. Just simply because it is so much easier to just be yourself, and not have to put so much stress on making an impression, like many of us do when it is a face to face situation.

I would say Step back, check out things more local, and consider that, face to face might become completly diffrent then what you felt via Internet.. Then if he does get closer and you do get to meet him, you dont have to much of yourself wrapped up in him, if he does turn out to be the oppisite of everything you felt.

Internet relationships are tricky, because we can only ever really know what we are told.. and it does not always become the same in TRW.

Best of luck to you

 

[hhayes]

well if you two really like each other i like to think anything is possible. i have known people to meet on the internet and fallin love and things turn out fine. But also you have to be aware that sometimes things aren't always what they seem and be prepared just in case. Are you still planning to meet?

 

[Kat]

Well, I dont think there is anything wrong with you,

I think it is so much easier for us to be become closer emotionally to people over the internet. Just simply because it is so much easier to just be yourself, and not have to put so much stress on making an impression, like many of us do when it is a face to face situation.

I would say Step back, check out things more local, and consider that, face to face might become completly diffrent then what you felt via Internet.. Then if he does get closer and you do get to meet him, you dont have to much of yourself wrapped up in him, if he does turn out to be the oppisite of everything you felt.

Internet relationships are tricky, because we can only ever really know what we are told.. and it does not always become the same in TRW.

Best of luck to you

I agree with silent on this...but all in all...I wouldnt stress over anything... dont try to rush it if it's meant to be it will work out...good luck with it latin...and i will also say...def. be careful when you do meet him...tho I'm sure you dont need anyone to tell you that

 

[latinplayachick]

Well, I dont think there is anything wrong with you,

I think it is so much easier for us to be become closer emotionally to people over the internet. Just simply because it is so much easier to just be yourself, and not have to put so much stress on making an impression, like many of us do when it is a face to face situation.

I would say Step back, check out things more local, and consider that, face to face might become completly diffrent then what you felt via Internet.. Then if he does get closer and you do get to meet him, you dont have to much of yourself wrapped up in him, if he does turn out to be the oppisite of everything you felt.

Internet relationships are tricky, because we can only ever really know what we are told.. and it does not always become the same in TRW.

Best of luck to you

Thanks! Sometimes I think I am way too wrapped on him to look for more outside. I'll keep what you said in mind.

 

[latinplayachick]

Well, I dont think there is anything wrong with you,

I think it is so much easier for us to be become closer emotionally to people over the internet. Just simply because it is so much easier to just be yourself, and not have to put so much stress on making an impression, like many of us do when it is a face to face situation.

I would say Step back, check out things more local, and consider that, face to face might become completly diffrent then what you felt via Internet.. Then if he does get closer and you do get to meet him, you dont have to much of yourself wrapped up in him, if he does turn out to be the oppisite of everything you felt.

Internet relationships are tricky, because we can only ever really know what we are told.. and it does not always become the same in TRW.

Best of luck to you

yes we are scheduled to meet next week but now he'll be in California so that makes things so much harder now! we might have to reschedule for a few weeks after next week until he is settled.

 

[White2000GT]

So, are you saying that you will be going to California to meet him? Please... please, please,please take someone with you if you do. Or even better, have him come to Jersey to meet you, and make sure you always have someone around you that you know and trust. I read the post where you said how he makes you feel, but the plain truth is that you don't really know him. All you know is how he is behind a computer screen. Sometimes it might be better to be a little suspicious until you meet someone face-to-face.
What I'm really trying to say is just to be careful and be safe. Hopefully things will turn out right for you.

 

[elluko]

He might be a two headed alien posing as a humanoid!

 

[Peter Parka]

So, are you saying that you will be going to California to meet him? Please... please, please,please take someone with you if you do. Or even better, have him come to Jersey to meet you, and make sure you always have someone around you that you know and trust. I read the post where you said how he makes you feel, but the plain truth is that you don't really know him. All you know is how he is behind a computer screen. Sometimes it might be better to be a little suspicious until you meet someone face-to-face.
What I'm really trying to say is just to be careful and be safe. Hopefully things will turn out right for you.

Couldn't really agree more with this. Please, be careful and I hope things work out for you.

 

[latinplayachick]

He might be a two headed alien posing as a humanoid!

lmao i really hope not!

 

[latinplayachick]

Couldn't really agree more with this. Please, be careful and I hope things work out for you.

Thanks! I am going to be very careful! He is all of that though! LOL but im not crazy so I'm gonna take it easy!

 

[elluko]

... or he could have an evil twin...
Or worse... he might be a child molester!

 

[kissme2wice]

OK so I havent posted in along time but 2 jobs and a new house takes alot of time but this topic is in my field...I met my husband on yahoo chat...he was livin in Nebraska and I was in Michigan. After a couple months of chattin on line then a couple of months of talkin on the phone he flew me out to meet him. A month later he quit his job and moved to Michigan. Oct. 24th we will be celebrating out 5th wedding anniversary. I agree with alot of what ppl are saying...YOU do have to be very careful but sometimes u have to let your heart and gut feeling guide you. Hope it works out for the best what ever way it goes

 

[insomniaq]

be true to your feelings. i'll say that even though my husband, whom i met online playing PSO, just left me after a 6 year relationship 4+ years married. i'm still a cynical romantic though i spose. i wish you the best ^^

 

[elluko]

everybody these days meet their "other" on the internet.

 

[trope]

Nothing wrong with meeting people on the internet. It's a good way to connect. It's not so intimidating to make contact, I think. I think it's great that more people are finding good relationships.

But on that note, do be careful!

 

[GuesSAngel]

Nothing wrong with meeting people on the internet. It's a good way to connect. It's not so intimidating to make contact, I think. I think it's great that more people are finding good relationships.

But on that note, do be careful!

def. be careful

 

[latinplayachick]

OK so I havent posted in along time but 2 jobs and a new house takes alot of time but this topic is in my field...I met my husband on yahoo chat...he was livin in Nebraska and I was in Michigan. After a couple months of chattin on line then a couple of months of talkin on the phone he flew me out to meet him. A month later he quit his job and moved to Michigan. Oct. 24th we will be celebrating out 5th wedding anniversary. I agree with alot of what ppl are saying...YOU do have to be very careful but sometimes u have to let your heart and gut feeling guide you. Hope it works out for the best what ever way it goes

wow that's wonderful. I actually know a few people that have met their current spouses online and they make it sound great. But i know that it hardly works out like that. Im going to take things carefully. We've been talking for a while.