Okay so I had to pick up Kaden from Behavin a few weeks back and on the way home he says to me.. "Brandy can we go to the mall" now this was right after the mall shootings here.. and I asked him why he says " because I want to put a snow flake down for the people there" ( we put snowflakes out to represent how different each and every one of the victims were) now this comming from a 4 year old boy who has behavorial problems is amazing.. how he can care so much about something that i thought he didnt know about was astonishing..