Oh right, just in OP you said word for word and thought you meant those you posted on here.
Well then, yeah, would seem to be that he is what was thought then.
You are best off without for now - you are independant enough to be all good on your own for a time, til a decent man comes along.
Don't rush things, it'll just happen all the more - enjoy some freedom first, that's always good to have too.
