*sigh* As one door closes, another opens.

[The Joker]

No need for your comment either mate. Even if I was talking about the other girl I would have reacted like that.

 

[wednesday]

What he said isn't actually very nice either, is it?

He said not to get to wrapped up in internet relationships with unstable people...i think thats good advice...

Calling people names isnt exactly making you look good is it?

 

[Peter Parka]

No need for your comment either mate. Even if I was talking about the other girl I would have reacted like that.

So dont fucking ask for advice on a forum if you're going to get all sensitive when you dont like it, Jesus titty Christ!:smiley24:

 

[wednesday]

:24::24::24:Omfg @ jesus titty christ....hahahaha im so nicking that

 

[The Joker]

Well I'm not exactly good.

The way he said it, and she was only suicidal once. She actually went to the doctors for manic depression today, can you see why I am annoyed at why he said the suicidal bit so light heartedly? This girl's being torn apart and I'm the only one that actually cares.

It gets on my nerves.

Pete just happened to seem like one of those people who doesn't give a flying fuck.

Her doctor didn't actually believe her.

But whatever, I'll just be labelled a dickhead for caring.

EDIT: @pete, I wasn't asking for advice about that. It's a totally different situation.

 

[The Joker]

Lemme guess, I'm gonna go back on probation soon aren't I?

I'll pack my bags.

Sorry pete.

 

[Peter Parka]

I wasnt trying to take her suicidal feelings lightly, I've had two people close to me top themselves already this year so certainly wouldn't do that, sorry if you read it the wrong way. I think your concern for her is a good thing, I just dont think she is really in a good place to be getting into a relationship with anyone right now, especially someone 400 miles away, that is all.

 

[The Joker]

We've already established that pete.

Do you understand that this is a completely different girl? Or what?

 

[wednesday]

Holy fucksticks...I dont mean to be rude Mat...and trust me i think its great that your so caring..but do you really even know this girl??....she could be one of the countless attention seekers, who prey on caring people...
I thnk that Peter's advice wasnt nasty...and me knowing peter if he wanted to be nasty hed say a whole lot more than that about it.
You need to realize that if Pete wasnt bothered...he wouldnt have bothered replying on this thread.....
Now then..chill out ffs...if you called me a dick..or any name i would have jumped down your throat...you should consider yaself lucky/

 

[The Joker]

Yes, I do know this girl. She's come down and I've met her, and she's coming down again and staying for a bit after christmas.

3 of my really great friends know her too.

 

[The Joker]

I don't even quite understand how this turned into this.

Let me get one thing through your heads.

THIS THREAD IS NOT ABOUT THE GIRL WHO LIVE 4 HOURS AWAY FROM ME BECAUSE A FEW WEEKS AGO WE ESTABLISHED NOTHING WILL HAPPEN FOR YEARS, THIS IS A NEW GIRL!

 

[Peter Parka]

Do you understand that this is a completely different girl? Or what?

No need for your comment either mate. Even if I was talking about the other girl I would have reacted like that.

Yes I realise it was a different girl which is why I said it was an honest mistake a few posts back. I was just responding to the above, why you think that advice if it was the other girl justified you calling me a dick. But whatever, I really couldn't give a shit about silly teenage crushes anyway, just thought I'd try and give you some sound advice from someone who has been there. If you're just going to start calling people dicks when you asked for advice, fuck it, I wont bother trying to give you well meaning help, these kind of threads are boring anyway.:smiley24:

 

[The Joker]

You have no idea how hard it was to not go balistic on your guys.

Anyway, a few more mins and I'll fuck off.

I'm being a grumpy little fucker tonight....er....this morning...

 

[wednesday]

I don't even quite understand how this turned into this.

Let me get one thing through your heads.

THIS THREAD IS NOT ABOUT THE GIRL WHO LIVE 4 HOURS AWAY FROM ME BECAUSE A FEW WEEKS AGO WE ESTABLISHED NOTHING WILL HAPPEN FOR YEARS, THIS IS A NEW GIRL!

Um Mat....i think you need to step the fuck away from the pc and chill....Why are you being so horrible??

 

[The Joker]

Maybe just because people are insulting a girl that they don't even know who I happen to know is great.

Along with that, this thread has turned into nothing.

 

[wednesday]

Maybe just because people are insulting a girl that they don't even know who I happen to know is great.

Along with that, this thread has turned into nothing.

THE ONLY PERSON INSULTING IS YOU....No one has said a bad word for this girl...and i am astonished you think someones advice is being made to look like an attack.:thumbdown

 

[The Joker]

My advice... stop getting hung up on a suicidal girl you can only chat to on line and go out and meet some local girls you can actually go out and have fun with

I took that as just abandon her, pretty much.

She could be one of the countless attention seekers, who prey on caring people.

Need I say more?

Whatever, I'm probably just grumpy.

I'll probably be going back on probation after this anyway.

 

[wednesday]

You need to chill out..yes i asked if you knew her...that wasnt insulting her??...i really dont understand your logic..anyway, i will leave the thread alone considering its "messed"...but seriously when you ask for advice, sometimes its not what you want to hear...but thats peoples opinions...

You are 13 yrs old...you will have so many more experiences ahead of you...Peter was trying to say i think...that why try to grow up so fast, enjoy your childhood....go have fun

 

[The Joker]

Nah, he was saying leave the suicidal girl who lives far away and have the sense to find a girl near you.

It was insulting to me that you thought she could have been just an attention seeker.

 

[wednesday]

Nah, he was saying leave the suicidal girl who lives far away and have the sense to find a girl near you.

It was insulting to me that you thought she could have been just an attention seeker.

Omfg....I dont even know her...Does it even go through your head that i may have been looking out for you??

I give up..i have a teenager here to deal with thanks