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HottyToddyChick

HottyToddyChick

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Ugh. I hate it when people borrow shit without asking. Especially when you have to go to the far side of my room to get it. It's not like you could see it when you walked by. No, you had to dig for it. It's not even your freakin' house anyhow. I'm pissed.

Just had to get that out somewhere. Thank you.
 
My roommates gf went digging into my room to borrow a DVD and I know that's really not a big deal but I am so anal about how my stuff gets treated. Like, everything I own looks new still and last night she was screaming at her boyfriend at the top of her lungs about "I'm the one you sleep with, I'm the one you're with, what do care what Kim thinks?" and it's like, you're going to talk like that about me, where I can hear you and then take my stuff like it's okay? At least text to ask if you can go in my room to look for a movie or something. I mean, really. Ask.

Sorry. Now my boyfriend is pissed at me because I'm pissed off and it's just turning out to be a really crappy day.

Like, I'm about to walk into the living room and pop it out of the DVD player and say "actually, it's not okay for you to borrow this." I haven't even watched it.
 
The roommate is just as guilty as the g/f. Respecting property and privacy should have been learned by now. Sounds like you and the roommate need a heart-to-heart about the fact that your stuff isn't community property.
 
I mean, it's still in the house, but you should ask before you go into someone's room and take their stuff. I'm starting to cool down a little bit, but I'm still pissed. I haven't gotten over all her crap from last night. For someone who says she can't stand the drama, she sure seems to be in the middle of a lot of it.
 
btw, did you talk to either of them or say shit to them about it? or do you jsut come online to vent about it? I used to have problems confronting peolpe and I would just come on here and bitch about thigns but never do anythign about it. I say you tell them off!
 
BreakfastSurreal said:
btw, did you talk to either of them or say shit to them about it? or do you jsut come online to vent about it? I used to have problems confronting peolpe and I would just come on here and bitch about thigns but never do anythign about it. I say you tell them off!
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They just put the movie in maybe five minutes before I walked in the door, so I haven't said anything. I get too angry to confront people right away. I'm still shaking I'm so mad. I'm seriously thinking about taking it out of the player right now though. Just walking in there and taking it. It's mine, right?
 
I'm about to be semi-passive aggressive and send a text that says I'm not okay with them taking my DVD and I'd like my property back.

I have a test tomorrow that I really need to study for and I just can't focus on it now. All I did was go to Wal-Mart for half an hour. Like, as soon as I leave, it's party time in my room?



I really wish I could just move in with my boyfriend. Then everything would be fine. I have him "trained" to respect my things. It just pisses me off because it's rude, and assuming and disrespectful to take other people's stuff. I would never without asking. Unless, it was something I needed right that minute or I would die. But I highly doubt a DVD falls under that category.
 
Look at it like this...IF they had asked to borrow it, you'd have probably said "yes", right? So let them watch for now. Give yourself a chance to cool down and compose yourself. Later on, you really have to have a talk about it though. If you let this go, it'll continue to happen.
 
Breath said:
Look at it like this...IF they had asked to borrow it, you'd have probably said "yes", right? So let them watch for now. Give yourself a chance to cool down and compose yourself. Later on, you really have to have a talk about it though. If you let this go, it'll continue to happen.
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Exactly! I'm the kind of person where if you ask, I probably won't say no. I just hate confrontation. We just got rid of all the tension in the house but her mouthing off last night was so rude and I can't stand her personality anyhow. SHe's so pushy.

Totally off topic, but since I'm going I'll just type it. Yesterday, her bf's dad brought him a grill and the two of them, the gf, my bf and I were out there. She (privately) asked me to go to the front of the house with her so she could smoke. I can't stand cig. smoke so I said no. She stands up and says I'm going to go show Kim something. Like, what was I supposed to do? She's so --------- pushy.
 
I see where you're coming from. I'll never have another roommate again. I lived here first and when I let my friend move in when he broke up with his woman he took over my apt. Probably semi my fault for letting him walk on me but still...
 
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