Very sorry to read of your loss. *hug*
I also think mentioning the good times and cherished memories is a good plan.
I also think mentioning the good times and cherished memories is a good plan.
Sad.
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thank you everyone again i really do apperciate it... i wronte down what i wanted to say but not in any format just kinda scribbled on a napkin.. but thank u all again
Hey babe you already know that I am here for you. You are a very special woman to me. You already know you can call anytime. I know you will do just fine. I just cant tell you enough how sorry I am that you and your family are going through this. Take care.
awe thank you again and again everyone
I know it doesn't take the pain away, but the way I have always handled death has been to face it straight on. Remember the good times, cherish them always, but also remember that each of us were born to die. We only have a certain time here, and it's not up to us how long that time is. You make the best of the time you have, love the moment your in, and tell everyone in your life if you appreciate them.
I don't think your grandmother would want you to be so sad .. she would want you to be happy that she is no longer in pain .. and know that she always loved you.
I don't think your grandmother would want you to be so sad .. she would want you to be happy that she is no longer in pain .. and know that she always loved you.
losing some one close is always painful. do your grandmother's good times a good time one last time, by reading a poem you wrote for her, thanking her for the time you spent together, et cetera.
do not ever worry about if it is up to her skill level, or if it will do her justice. it automatically will, because it just will. do not ask or second guess your abilities, for such a poem may open up the world for you in terms of writing. never ever (say never) be so disenchanted about yourself because of the situation. it sucks, yes. but it rocks too, like someone said: your grandmother is no longer in pain.
flip a coin: heads, write a poem; tails, write a different poem. either way, write a poem. since you stated that your grandmother was a poet, it will justify itself.
do not ever worry about if it is up to her skill level, or if it will do her justice. it automatically will, because it just will. do not ask or second guess your abilities, for such a poem may open up the world for you in terms of writing. never ever (say never) be so disenchanted about yourself because of the situation. it sucks, yes. but it rocks too, like someone said: your grandmother is no longer in pain.
flip a coin: heads, write a poem; tails, write a different poem. either way, write a poem. since you stated that your grandmother was a poet, it will justify itself.