Reasoning behind porn?

[Dodge_Sniper]

I hate that stuff. It's so degrading, especially when people hide it. Thats just pathetic.

Well nobody held a gun to the girl's head and said, "Masturbate on camera" or something. Obviously it's the girls' choice. If it's so degrading, don't look at it.

Now that you are kind of talking about it, persue it a little more. Try to get to the bottom of it. Just remember, the sooner you can identify the problem and correct it, the sooner you can go back to having regular sex.


Maybe you should consider going to the dentist and having your front teeth fixed/replaced. I mean, I would have a real hard time being sexually attracted to you the way you look right now. Maybe you can comb that hair or something.... I mean look at your avitar, not the best picture of yourself. You kinda let yourself go. :24:














:jk:

I thought you were serious for a minute!! Nice one man.

Men are visual creatures, porn is visual. If you walk around nekkid all the time, or grab a toy and go at it in front of him, he'll be in the mood in the amount of time it takes blood to flow down there...

+2

 

[Tim]

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Sorry, didn't mean to scare you... but it was pretty funny.

 

[SilentEyz]

There is actually a Psychological term for it..


Its called Porn Creep, and it is becoming a growing problem with people (mostly men) who watch a lot of Porn.


Porn creep is the process by which it is claimed sexually explicit content enters American pop culture. Some people blame (or credit) the abundance of sexual imagery and innuendo in movies, television and advertising on the increased accessibility and "cool factor" of pornography. It is also now a colloquialism to describe a condition in which a person (typically male) is unable to engage in any form of sexual activity without the presence of pornographic stimulus.
The term porn creep is related to the psychological concept of escalation in violent and/or sexual behaviour, whereby the graphic or physical nature of certain acts becomes more extreme (or escalates) over time.
Naomi Wolf, a famous feminist author from the 1970s penned an article entitled The Porn Myth in New York Magazine in which she famously argued, "In the end, porn doesn’t whet men’s appetites—it turns them off the real thing". The article itself details changes in American sexual culture brought about by "Porn creep"

 

[Maulds]

I was ready to ask some difficult questions, but then I saw that you 2 had joked around about it recently.

You mentioned your thyroid, how is the treatment going? Has he started any meds or anti-depressants recently? How long have you 2 been together?

Not trying to be too nosey, but you wouldn't have started this thread if you didn't want advice and I have to kinda get to know the situation before I can offer an opinion.

 

[elluko]

Im not gonna lie, I have looked at it a few times. I just dont want to go through the pressure of having to cover up the evidence or get caught. I decide not to look at it in general, just here and there, occasionally.
Its funny though, I catch my friends doing it all the time and they never know how to react.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

I was ready to ask some difficult questions, but then I saw that you 2 had joked around about it recently.

You mentioned your thyroid, how is the treatment going? Has he started any meds or anti-depressants recently? How long have you 2 been together?

Not trying to be too nosey, but you wouldn't have started this thread if you didn't want advice and I have to kinda get to know the situation before I can offer an opinion.

As far ar my thyroid appt go, I go once a week to the dr. They are checking my thyroid levels to get them down to where they are "close to normal" so they can give me the radioactive iodine treatment and then once I have the radioactive iodine treatment, I should be all done.
He doesnt take any kind of medicines himself. You would think he has by the recent change.
We have been married 9 yrs. Thats what Im thinking it is myself. But who knows.

 

[Maulds]

Well good luck with the relationship and the thyroid thing. My sister-in-law has to take medicine for her thyroid.

Walk up behind him sometime when he's seated and just whoop your boobs out and bounce them on his head. If nothing else it should be good for a laugh.