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RedStangGT2000 said:
HOTRODSnBOOZE said:
HAHAHA Red! I changed my post so now it looks like you just say random shit. Fruit Cake, hahaha. :laughing


Fruit cake WTF you talkin bout Earl :dunno

Ah HA! A double....double cross, DOH!
 

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OUZBnd said:
You're all a bunch of fags :fu
How dare you call us cigarettes. Sure we travel in packs, but you really burn my butt sometimes OUZ and now I'm really on fire! Mark my words young man, when the smoke clears, you'll be the one with another nail in your coffin, YOU SIR!


HRnB, specializing in lame jokes. Call now and save fiddy cent off your next party or bar mitzvah
 

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or my all time favorite... I don't hate gays, one of my "friends" are gay! That reminds me of the old south when the governer of Missippi was asked if he hated black folks and he said "No, I don't hate Niggers. Hell, I gots a few of them working in my kitchen." I guess that makes everything alright.

Dude, thats not right. I did state that I don't care if people chose to be gay or straight, either way I have no problems with it. Also I did say that some of my friends are gay. But don't put in the same ring as a fuckin slave owner. How is that a good comparison anyway? I don't care what sexual preference people have and I have a few gay freinds.... or I like black people and I have a few workin in my kitchen.... Seriously guy. :wtf

Not tryin to pick a fight, just that shit rubbed me the wrong way.
 

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redsMULLT1 said:
RecklessTim said:
or my all time favorite... I don't hate gays, one of my "friends" are gay! That reminds me of the old south when the governer of Missippi was asked if he hated black folks and he said "No, I don't hate Niggers. Hell, I gots a few of them working in my kitchen." I guess that makes everything alright.

Dude, thats not right. I did state that I don't care if people chose to be gay or straight, either way I have no problems with it. Also I did say that some of my friends are gay. But don't put in the same ring as a fuckin slave owner. How is that a good comparison anyway? I don't care what sexual preference people have and I have a few gay freinds.... or I like black people and I have a few workin in my kitchen.... Seriously guy. :wtf

Not tryin to pick a fight, just that shit rubbed me the wrong way.

not trying to fight, but be a baby and smoke a couple :p
 

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RedStangGT2000 said:
SI Joe needs to take your mod powers away you lock threads to try and show your better than the rest of us..........well your not. Secondly your opinions are worthless you dont have a girlfriend let alone any kids so why dont you crawl back into your bed and keep your pathetic opinions to yourself and let others raise there familys the way that society accepts. Gays are unaceptable to society you may not like it but thats the way it is so...........Have a very gay day SI :D

Red. just don't even bother to try to be the bigger man. You aren't, and calling me out like this does nothing for anything. I know you have your opinion and that's fine, but you need to realize that I know I was correct in locking the thread, hell I was even told that via PM just now.

The only reason I did so was to let things cool off because they were starting to get entirely too personal and completely WAAY the hell off the topic at hand. We all got a little too caught up with the topic that veered off the tracks and into absolutely nothing that should have been debated in the first place.

I didn't do it to have the last word and that was it. I knew that I'd either have a ton of PMs this morning, or a new thread would show up.

The latter one became a reality. What's done is done.

Boss. I'm not going to straight up apologize for trying to ask you how you'd deal with the situation that may come up before you are or you think your kids are ready to deal with. I don't recall putting words into your mouth, I recall trying to use your previous posts as reference points of how the situation would be dealt with, and, much like everyone else should already know, it's hard to tell what people mean exactly through text on a message board. But, the fact that you're less tolerant than other people towards a different walk of life will eventually be transferred to your children. With that said, MY lack of parenting time is completely irrelevant. I was a child once, I know how my parents raised me and I model my beliefs after my parents. I was simply giving you a forewarning of what could come to be if the bad light is shared with them whether they're old enough or not, children DO listen to their parents and they DO emulate their parents behaviours and beliefs.

If I made it sound like I thought you were bad parents, I didn't do that intentionally. Your kids are alive, healthy and obviously vibrant children. That has to say something positive for your parentings skills, right?

Amy.
You seem to be very emotional about what some 23 year old has to say, when you and I both know that text can be taken out of context from the internet and construed as such to give a bad light. It makes it much harder when you two share computers and forget to check who's logged in. I can't keep track of who says what when Boss posts under your name. Anything I said to you because of what he said under your name, I apologize. I'm sure if we had this debate in person, it would have turned out MUCH better than it did.
 

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redsMULLT1 said:
RecklessTim said:
or my all time favorite... I don't hate gays, one of my "friends" are gay! That reminds me of the old south when the governer of Missippi was asked if he hated black folks and he said "No, I don't hate Niggers. Hell, I gots a few of them working in my kitchen." I guess that makes everything alright.

Dude, thats not right. I did state that I don't care if people chose to be gay or straight, either way I have no problems with it. Also I did say that some of my friends are gay. But don't put in the same ring as a fuckin slave owner. How is that a good comparison anyway? I don't care what sexual preference people have and I have a few gay freinds.... or I like black people and I have a few workin in my kitchen.... Seriously guy. :wtf

Not tryin to pick a fight, just that shit rubbed me the wrong way.

This wasn't directed at any person in particular. It just seems that right after someone says how wrong and immorale homosexuality is, they usually follow it up with that statement.

Si was correct on a lot of his observations. Bringing up the fact that Six flags has a "gay day" at all shows how unexcepting you can be towards others. Sadly enough, this Will pass on to your children. You don't have to say anything negative around them, they will pick up how you react to news like this and form their own opinions. Thus propelling the dark ages of intolerance one more generation.

The question shouldn't be wether you talk to your kids about sex and sexual orientation as young as they are, but would you rather they hear it from you or would you rather try to correct what they have heard from someone else. Don't kid yourself, unless you live under a rock, they probably know much more than you think. Before anyone jumps on my back about raising children, I have a daughter 16 and a son 11 that are very well behaved, great grades and tolerant of other beliefs and races. That makes me a fucking expert.
 

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Si, I will apologize. Its not easy but I know it needs to be done. Maybe I did take it to heart a little but you just kept on and on and you even said yourself that you kept on because you wanted to see how far I would go. Thats not right. If you could see that someone is getting aggravated, its instinct to back off. I realize that you may have been trying to point something out, but the way it came across to me was that you were saying it in a rather rude way. The name calling was uncalled for also. Saying that Boss was hatred and childish and that I was a hypocrite and that Boss needed counseling, how could you not expect someone to take it personal?? Boss is an AWESOME daddy! He would do ANYTHING for those kids and when you call my husband names, I dont take to kindly to it. I think things went way out of control. WE all wanted to be right. No matter how many times I told you my opinion on Gay Day it just wasnt good enough for you. And last but not least, you may not have meant to be trying to tell us what we should say and shouldnt say to our kids, but you were. Go back over and read. I asked you a question in the beginning of this thread and that question was "Did your parents teach you all about gay and sex when you were in elementary school" and you said "No" and a few other things. And thats exactly what I have been trying to tell you, my kids are in Primary school and they arent ready for that discussion just yet but you kept saying that it isnt too early to talk to them about it. I dont exactly understand what your trying to point out there. And to be honest, at this point, I really do not want to know. I dont want to hear another word about it. Im apologizing if I said anything to offend you. Can we shake?
 

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RecklessTim said:
redsMULLT1 said:
RecklessTim said:
or my all time favorite... I don't hate gays, one of my "friends" are gay! That reminds me of the old south when the governer of Missippi was asked if he hated black folks and he said "No, I don't hate Niggers. Hell, I gots a few of them working in my kitchen." I guess that makes everything alright.

Dude, thats not right. I did state that I don't care if people chose to be gay or straight, either way I have no problems with it. Also I did say that some of my friends are gay. But don't put in the same ring as a fuckin slave owner. How is that a good comparison anyway? I don't care what sexual preference people have and I have a few gay freinds.... or I like black people and I have a few workin in my kitchen.... Seriously guy. :wtf

Not tryin to pick a fight, just that shit rubbed me the wrong way.

This wasn't directed at any person in particular. It just seems that right after someone says how wrong and immorale homosexuality is, they usually follow it up with that statement.

Si was correct on a lot of his observations. Bringing up the fact that Six flags has a "gay day" at all shows how unexcepting you can be towards others. Sadly enough, this Will pass on to your children. You don't have to say anything negative around them, they will pick up how you react to news like this and form their own opinions. Thus propelling the dark ages of intolerance one more generation.

The question shouldn't be wether you talk to your kids about sex and sexual orientation as young as they are, but would you rather they hear it from you or would you rather try to correct what they have heard from someone else. Don't kid yourself, unless you live under a rock, they probably know much more than you think. Before anyone jumps on my back about raising children, I have a daughter 16 and a son 11 that are very well behaved, great grades and tolerant of other beliefs and races. That makes me a fucking expert.



Tis cool bub. I kinda went off about that anyway.

No worries. :cool
 

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2000si said:
Boss. I'm not going to straight up apologize for trying to ask you how you'd deal with the situation that may come up before you are or you think your kids are ready to deal with. I don't recall putting words into your mouth, I recall trying to use your previous posts as reference points of how the situation would be dealt with, and, much like everyone else should already know, it's hard to tell what people mean exactly through text on a message board. But, the fact that you're less tolerant than other people towards a different walk of life will eventually be transferred to your children. With that said, MY lack of parenting time is completely irrelevant. I was a child once, I know how my parents raised me and I model my beliefs after my parents. I was simply giving you a forewarning of what could come to be if the bad light is shared with them whether they're old enough or not, children DO listen to their parents and they DO emulate their parents behaviours and beliefs.


Im not even looking for an appology. Yeah, you took my post and quoted me but you highlighted parts to make it look like I said something that I didnt.


Dude! You are the shit.

Dude! You are the shit.

See how that works?? Not only that, you are the one who resorted to name calling. I never once called you a name. Then you suggested that i might need counseling and questioned my parenting (which is none of your business). After all the you quickly locked the thread so that I couldnt reply to you. If you were just doing your duty as a mod, you could have locked it with one word, locked. But no, you had to put in the last say by calling me "fucking naive" among other things THEN lock it so that I couldnt respond. You used your power as a mod to get the last word in on me and you know it b/c you said youreself:

2000si said:
I knew that I'd either have a ton of PMs this morning, or a new thread would show up.

Had the thread been simply locked w/o all the name calling I would have just let it go and forgotten about it but it didnt happen that way.

RecklessTim said:
The question shouldn't be wether you talk to your kids about sex and sexual orientation as young as they are, but would you rather they hear it from you or would you rather try to correct what they have heard from someone else. Don't kid yourself, unless you live under a rock, they probably know much more than you think. Before anyone jumps on my back about raising children, I have a daughter 16 and a son 11 that are very well behaved, great grades and tolerant of other beliefs and races. That makes me a fucking expert.

And here we go with the parenting classes again. Tim, if youre such a "fucking expert" on raising children, why dont you go write a book. I never asked you for advice on how I should approach my children on anything. So next time you wanna give advice, give it to someone who gives a shit about it. Ive made it through the last eight years of raising my kids without any outside help and I dont need it now.
 

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Quite the contrary. Teenage years are when kids get the most distant from parents. Then they get jobs and have money, so you have to watch them closer.
 

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2000Si said:
Quite the contrary. Teenage years are when kids get the most distant from parents. Then they get jobs and have money, so you have to watch them closer.

Not always the case! I have always been very close with my parents. We attended church together every Sunday and we always made sure at least once a week that we did family things together. I could talk to my mom and dad about anything and they didnt judge me for it, so thats why I never got distant from my parents.
 

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trying to get off topic, and its unfortunate, but there were 2 gunshots fired just about 30 yards away from me tonight...about an hour or so ago, about 30 seconds apart... i was inside (thankfully) but apparently, the person shot was shot for good, because i didnt hear any sirens when the ambu came in or when it left. now there is a police officer sitting outside approximately 10 yards or so in the other direction, just sitting there, with his lights on... its kinda freaking me out...

about this situation:

tim.. you say you are a fucking expert... you have the kids to prove it :rofl

amy & boss: you have kids... congrats... now raise them how you think you should raise them :rock

si: man, get off their case... they have views, just like yourself, and in my opinion, which you are entitled to not agree with, you need to work slightly on how you express your own views upon a situation.

lemon: dude! you are so not the shit.

:dunno
 

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:funnah Lemon, I have to say, you always know how to make someone smile!
That last comment you made was hysterical. "Lemon dude, you are so not the shit" Thats was funny! Are you in a funny mood tonight?
 

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Mrs Behavin said:
2000Si said:
Quite the contrary. Teenage years are when kids get the most distant from parents. Then they get jobs and have money, so you have to watch them closer.

Not always the case! I have always been very close with my parents. We attended church together every Sunday and we always made sure at least once a week that we did family things together. I could talk to my mom and dad about anything and they didnt judge me for it, so thats why I never got distant from my parents.

Well of course there are exceptions. I became withdrawn from my family when I was a teenager. Very depressed and very anti social. I didn't do a damn thing besides get caught walking home at 3 am from my dads office playing video games on the network with a friend. But other than that I never got into trouble.

But when kids get to that age, they're not always going to be talkative with their parents leaving you to wonder what is up with them.

lemon: man, I'm not on their case. I'm expressing views and opinions from my experiences with my friends and the relationships they have had with their parents. I had friends who's parents were very close with them, and I've had other friends who had completely clueless parents. They thought everything was cool and their kid is an absolute angel, until one night they get a call from the cops saying their son was out doing drugs and drinking and had driven off the road and hit a telephone pole killing himself.

I'm just saying be aware, things might not be as complacent with your kids as you may think.

Lastly, I don't care if I don't have kids. Frankly I don't want any. I can't keep track of what I want, let alone a kid. But that doesn't mean I don't have real world experiences with what CAN and possibly may happen in the later years. Boss seems inattentive of the possibilities, it's kind of annoying when nothing irrational is said and he's telling people to "write a fucking book." That to me is a wee bit naive, but I guess time will tell if he can live up to being a great father that Mrs, as well of all of us know that he has been/can be.
 

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2000Si said:
Mrs Behavin said:
2000Si said:
Quite the contrary. Teenage years are when kids get the most distant from parents. Then they get jobs and have money, so you have to watch them closer.

Not always the case! I have always been very close with my parents. We attended church together every Sunday and we always made sure at least once a week that we did family things together. I could talk to my mom and dad about anything and they didnt judge me for it, so thats why I never got distant from my parents.

Well of course there are exceptions. I became withdrawn from my family when I was a teenager. Very depressed and very anti social. I didn't do a damn thing besides get caught walking home at 3 am from my dads office playing video games on the network with a friend. But other than that I never got into trouble.

But when kids get to that age, they're not always going to be talkative with their parents leaving you to wonder what is up with them.

lemon: man, I'm not on their case. I'm expressing views and opinions from my experiences with my friends and the relationships they have had with their parents. I had friends who's parents were very close with them, and I've had other friends who had completely clueless parents. They thought everything was cool and their kid is an absolute angel, until one night they get a call from the cops saying their son was out doing drugs and drinking and had driven off the road and hit a telephone pole killing himself.

I'm just saying be aware, things might not be as complacent with your kids as you may think.

Lastly, I don't care if I don't have kids. Frankly I don't want any. I can't keep track of what I want, let alone a kid. But that doesn't mean I don't have real world experiences with what CAN and possibly may happen in the later years. Boss seems inattentive of the possibilities, it's kind of annoying when nothing irrational is said and he's telling people to "write a fucking book." That to me is a wee bit naive, but I guess time will tell if he can live up to being a great father that Mrs, as well of all of us know that he has been/can be.

Here we go putting words in my mouth again. Are you trying to make me look like something that Im not? As far as yoours and your friends experiences growing up, Maybe thats b/c your parents werent involved in your life. Whatever it was it has made you bitter and narcisitic towards anyone else who is close to thier kids and is part of thoer lives. Actually it makes me feel kinda sorry for you. :dunno
 
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